Merry friggin Christmas I just watched my Grandpa die :( - GoFuckYourself.com

RRRED · 12-10-2003, 12:55 PM

I dread telling my kids... How on earth can you have a nice Christmas when something like this happens?

skrog · 12-10-2003, 12:56 PM

Man...That is horrible

LeeNoga · 12-10-2003, 12:57 PM

He is with the angels, and apparently God needed him now for some thing else....make it a positive experience with the kids, he is where we all hope to be.

Hugs babee........my condolences always.

TurboAngel · 12-10-2003, 12:58 PM

I'm sooooooo sorry, I lost my gram in 88 on the 24th of Dec. X-mass has never been the same!

TondaB · 12-10-2003, 12:59 PM

My condolences RRRed. If you need anything, anything at all, do not hestitate to ask.

Spunky · 12-10-2003, 01:00 PM

Shitty time to happen...Kids really love their grandparents..my condolences

sickkittens · 12-10-2003, 01:00 PM

I'm so sorry RRRED.

CumSensei · 12-10-2003, 01:01 PM

I am sorry for ya lost.
My grandma passed away last summer so this will be the first x-mas for my family and her old man without her.

Sure will feel strange but these things always strike the hardest when it´s a holiday cumming up.

Just hang in there and try to tell the children as smooth as possible.

But they do need to know.

Peter Romero · 12-10-2003, 01:06 PM

God had other plans for her soul. Don't interupt his plans. Be free and celebrate his life. Go fishing @ his favorite spot (more than once) light up one of his old cigars, watch his favorite TV shows, read his favorite book, gather with loved ones on holidays and talk about him and make jokes about his silly ways. This would be what he wanted you to do, so celebrate his life and remember all the good things he wanted you to do & have. That is all that I have for you. Hope that helped.

radical · 12-10-2003, 01:08 PM

Sorry to hear the bad news for ya bud!!

Holly · 12-10-2003, 01:09 PM

That's really bad news, sorry to hear that. My condolences.

doober · 12-10-2003, 01:10 PM

what a bad time for this to happen, my condolences
hope your kids are young, hopefully it wont be as hard for them...

TheJimmy · 12-10-2003, 01:12 PM

my condolences...

Sharky · 12-10-2003, 01:13 PM

My condolences Rrred.

laura · 12-10-2003, 01:13 PM

my Mom died in early November 24 years ago...
my Dad died the day before Thanksgiving 10 years ago. It was always a very sad month for the 5 kids they left behind.

The first few years of them both being gone were rough, but now we look back and enjoy the memories of them and make Thanksgiving into a celebration like no other .

my condolences.....

Kimmykim · 12-10-2003, 01:14 PM

Sorry to hear that sweetie.

loverboy · 12-10-2003, 01:14 PM

im really sorry to hear that.
my sincere condolences

wyldblyss · 12-10-2003, 01:14 PM

I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. I would suggest that since he passed so close to Christmas that you take this time of year to celebrate his life instead of mourning his passing.

Perhaps visit a place he liked to go, such as a park, prepare his fav foods, drink his fav drink.

Buy a tiny tabletop tree and call it Granpa's Rememberence Tree and have each of your children pick out one or two ornaments from the store that remind them of their grandpa to decorate the tree with. You can put the tree up every year and let the kids add a new ornament every year so that they keep his spirit in their hearts.

Stallion · 12-10-2003, 01:14 PM

Sorry to hear about the loss RRRED

TDF · 12-10-2003, 01:15 PM

sorry for your loss.My prayers are with you and your family

TaylorM · 12-10-2003, 01:16 PM

My deepest sympathy. My thoughts are with you and your family.

sherie · 12-10-2003, 01:16 PM

My heart goes out to you and your family

It's tough, but children are resilient.

dantheman · 12-10-2003, 01:20 PM

RRRed I'm very sorry and my prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.

deniska · 12-10-2003, 01:23 PM

im very sorry for your loss..

C_U_Next_Tuesday · 12-10-2003, 01:25 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by POV Porn guy
God had other plans for her soul. Don't interupt his plans. Be free and celebrate his life. Go fishing @ his favorite spot (more than once) light up one of his old cigars, watch his favorite TV shows, read his favorite book, gather with loved ones on holidays and talk about him and make jokes about his silly ways. This would be what he wanted you to do, so celebrate his life and remember all the good things he wanted you to do & have. That is all that I have for you. Hope that helped.

Really great post POV!

My condolences to you and yours RRRED.

MaxDent · 12-10-2003, 01:27 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by POV Porn guy
God had other plans for her soul. Don't interupt his plans. Be free and celebrate his life. Go fishing @ his favorite spot (more than once) light up one of his old cigars, watch his favorite TV shows, read his favorite book, gather with loved ones on holidays and talk about him and make jokes about his silly ways. This would be what he wanted you to do, so celebrate his life and remember all the good things he wanted you to do & have. That is all that I have for you. Hope that helped.

This is most true and by far the best advice in such terrible circumstances.

liquidmoe · 12-10-2003, 01:27 PM

Sorry about the bad news but I think POV had some good ideas how to get through the holidays remembering him and trying to avoid the obvious sadness over losing a loved one.

GigaChris · 12-10-2003, 01:27 PM

So sorry to hear that RRRED

My best wish's go out to you and your family

myjah · 12-10-2003, 01:30 PM

So sorry to hear that. Holidays can be tough enough without such a devastating loss. My heart goes out to you and your children. Try to keep in mind that things will be easier...time heals all.

Dawgy · 12-10-2003, 01:32 PM

*HUGS*

Stomped · 12-10-2003, 01:35 PM

A old friend of mine lost his father december 25th.

PenisFace · 12-10-2003, 01:35 PM

It depends on how old your kids are.. All of my grandparents had died by the time I was 11, so being younger, it was a little bit easier on me. If they died now, I don't know how I'd feel... Probably like complete shit.

Instead of mourning the loss and focusing on the loss itself, tell your family that they need to remember the good times, and that grandpa had a full and wonderfull life...

rip raster · 12-10-2003, 01:36 PM

Sorry to hear, it always sucks losing people.... no matter what time of the year it is

Rip

Furious_Male · 12-10-2003, 01:37 PM

Sorry to hear about your lose RRRed. I hope you and your family find comfort that he is not in any pain and is in a better place.

RawAlex · 12-10-2003, 01:39 PM

RRRRed, don't wait, tell them soon - try to keep this away from Christmas so much. Having something like this related to a holiday sucks (I know). It takes a long time to remember to enjoy the holiday again.

condolences...

Gemini · 12-10-2003, 01:40 PM

It's never a good time RRRED... Our condolences. Remind the kids that he will be forever watching over them.

genomega · 12-10-2003, 02:41 PM

Sorry about your lose. As for the children, just be as honest as you can depending on there age.

Ross · 12-10-2003, 02:44 PM

I thought my problems were bad coz my football team just got knocked out the CHampions League. You just put things in perspective.

Sorry to hear that mate.

I hope you find some way of having a great Christmas with your family. You deserve it.

irishfury · 12-10-2003, 02:51 PM

Yeah my grandmother passed away thanksgiving this year my prayers for ya family....

God took my grandmother and I look as if it was thanking everyone for her life.....Nice words of wisdom PoV

On-top · 12-10-2003, 02:53 PM

Sorry to hear that.

My grandma just went into the hospital again the day before yesterday for some kind of heart failure. Sucks.

AcidMax · 12-10-2003, 02:55 PM

Sorry to hear that RRRED I just talked to my grandfather a couple days ago and he started crying on the phone because he is about ready to pass on as well. He is having strokes almost daily and he wants to go already.

It's a good place to be, things like this do happen and the only way to look at it is that as people grow old they pass on so the next generation (your children) can grow older and have kids of their own. One generation is replaced by the next.

Andy

Hank_Heartland · 12-10-2003, 02:57 PM

RRRed,

My thoughts are with you:-(

SleazyDream · 12-10-2003, 03:00 PM

Rrred - I'm very sorry to hear that.

My deepest sympathies go out to you and your family

Peter Romero · 12-10-2003, 03:02 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by PenisFace
It depends on how old your kids are.. All of my grandparents had died by the time I was 11, so being younger, it was a little bit easier on me. If they died now, I don't know how I'd feel... Probably like complete shit.

Instead of mourning the loss and focusing on the loss itself, tell your family that they need to remember the good times, and that grandpa had a full and wonderfull life...

That what does not kill me, only makes me stronger.

Dad died @ 8
Step Dad died @ 13
Grandfather died on Fater's day
Mom Died on Oct 30, 2001
Step Granny died while I was @ internext last year 2003
Grandma (Dad's side) died when I was on Vacation in Hawaii 2003
Grandma (Mom's side) died April 30, 2003 - while I held her hand.

Death either brings you down - or it motivates you. Think of what they would have wanted for you and not about your pain and they have not died in Vain. Mourning is necessary, and not to be avoided no matter how old you are - VERY IMPORTANT!!! But if there is re-incarnation, it is in the passing along of the love that those before left us with that flames eternal. Just my experience and

Ice · 12-10-2003, 03:04 PM

Sorry for your loss. My condolences to you and your family

Lykos · 12-10-2003, 03:07 PM

My condolences...

vicki · 12-10-2003, 03:33 PM

d*mn

hugs doll

Roald · 12-10-2003, 03:42 PM

I know what you mean, my girls grandpa died 2 days ago. We went to the hospital but we were 5 minutes to late.

My condolences... to you and your family

Mr. Jim · 12-10-2003, 03:50 PM

Sorry for your loss RRRED

Ic3m4nZ · 12-10-2003, 04:23 PM

Sorry but everyone die one day. If he went up to 70 it's great.

12-10-2003, 12:55 PM	#1
RRRED Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: WA Posts: 6,754	Merry friggin Christmas I just watched my Grandpa die :( I dread telling my kids... How on earth can you have a nice Christmas when something like this happens?

12-10-2003, 12:56 PM	#2
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12-10-2003, 12:59 PM	#5
TondaB Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: May 2002 Location: California Posts: 3,162	My condolences RRRed. If you need anything, anything at all, do not hestitate to ask. __________________ ICQ: 61462417

12-10-2003, 01:00 PM	#6
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12-10-2003, 01:00 PM	#7
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12-10-2003, 12:57 PM	#3
LeeNoga Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Egg & Sperm Mutation Posts: 3,043	He is with the angels, and apparently God needed him now for some thing else....make it a positive experience with the kids, he is where we all hope to be. Hugs babee........my condolences always.

12-10-2003, 12:58 PM	#4
TurboAngel H.B.I.C. Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: NC Posts: 30,122	I'm sooooooo sorry, I lost my gram in 88 on the 24th of Dec. X-mass has never been the same!

12-10-2003, 01:01 PM	#8
CumSensei Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Sweden Posts: 3,986	I am sorry for ya lost. My grandma passed away last summer so this will be the first x-mas for my family and her old man without her. Sure will feel strange but these things always strike the hardest when it´s a holiday cumming up. Just hang in there and try to tell the children as smooth as possible. But they do need to know. __________________ CumSensei say: SEO traffic makes big boom boom.

12-10-2003, 01:06 PM	#9
Peter Romero Long time no happy ending Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: San Diego CA Posts: 10,578	God had other plans for her soul. Don't interupt his plans. Be free and celebrate his life. Go fishing @ his favorite spot (more than once) light up one of his old cigars, watch his favorite TV shows, read his favorite book, gather with loved ones on holidays and talk about him and make jokes about his silly ways. This would be what he wanted you to do, so celebrate his life and remember all the good things he wanted you to do & have. That is all that I have for you. Hope that helped. __________________ POVCash [email protected] See them all here: http://www.Petergirls.com

12-10-2003, 01:08 PM	#10
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12-10-2003, 01:09 PM	#11
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12-10-2003, 01:10 PM	#12
doober Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: in yoOoo kitchen Posts: 6,984	what a bad time for this to happen, my condolences hope your kids are young, hopefully it wont be as hard for them...

12-10-2003, 01:12 PM	#13
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12-10-2003, 01:13 PM	#14
Sharky Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: Tampa, FL Posts: 4,938	My condolences Rrred. __________________ Sharky

12-10-2003, 01:13 PM	#15
laura Registered User Industry Role: Join Date: May 2002 Location: Digital Nomad, but based in New England Posts: 945	my Mom died in early November 24 years ago... my Dad died the day before Thanksgiving 10 years ago. It was always a very sad month for the 5 kids they left behind. The first few years of them both being gone were rough, but now we look back and enjoy the memories of them and make Thanksgiving into a celebration like no other . my condolences.....

12-10-2003, 01:14 PM	#16
Kimmykim bitchslapping zebras!!!!! Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2001 Location: In a shack by the beach Posts: 16,015	Sorry to hear that sweetie.

12-10-2003, 01:14 PM	#17
loverboy When it rains, it pours Industry Role: Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 20,609	im really sorry to hear that. my sincere condolences

12-10-2003, 01:14 PM	#18
wyldblyss Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: The Buck Starts Here Posts: 5,779	I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. I would suggest that since he passed so close to Christmas that you take this time of year to celebrate his life instead of mourning his passing. Perhaps visit a place he liked to go, such as a park, prepare his fav foods, drink his fav drink. Buy a tiny tabletop tree and call it Granpa's Rememberence Tree and have each of your children pick out one or two ornaments from the store that remind them of their grandpa to decorate the tree with. You can put the tree up every year and let the kids add a new ornament every year so that they keep his spirit in their hearts.

12-10-2003, 01:14 PM	#19
Stallion Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: FL Posts: 6,632	Sorry to hear about the loss RRRED

12-10-2003, 01:15 PM	#20
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12-10-2003, 01:16 PM	#21
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12-10-2003, 01:16 PM	#22
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12-10-2003, 01:20 PM	#23
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12-10-2003, 01:23 PM	#24
deniska Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Mar 2001 Location: Miami Beach, FL Posts: 1,053	im very sorry for your loss..

12-10-2003, 01:27 PM	#27
liquidmoe Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: NY Posts: 4,994	Sorry about the bad news but I think POV had some good ideas how to get through the holidays remembering him and trying to avoid the obvious sadness over losing a loved one. __________________ Take Luck!

12-10-2003, 01:27 PM	#28
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12-10-2003, 01:30 PM	#29
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12-10-2003, 01:32 PM	#30
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12-10-2003, 01:35 PM	#32
PenisFace Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: Vancouver Posts: 3,774	It depends on how old your kids are.. All of my grandparents had died by the time I was 11, so being younger, it was a little bit easier on me. If they died now, I don't know how I'd feel... Probably like complete shit. Instead of mourning the loss and focusing on the loss itself, tell your family that they need to remember the good times, and that grandpa had a full and wonderfull life... __________________ Need custom blog posts or articles? Hit me up: Blog And Article Writer Yes, I can do any kind of custom orders, too! ICQ: 641204000

12-10-2003, 01:36 PM	#33
rip raster Confirmed User Join Date: May 2001 Location: Everville Posts: 2,851	Sorry to hear, it always sucks losing people.... no matter what time of the year it is Rip

12-10-2003, 01:37 PM	#34
Furious_Male Doing the grind since 99 Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: Buffalo NY Posts: 16,881	Sorry to hear about your lose RRRed. I hope you and your family find comfort that he is not in any pain and is in a better place.

12-10-2003, 01:39 PM	#35
RawAlex So Fucking Banned Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: In a house. Posts: 9,465	RRRRed, don't wait, tell them soon - try to keep this away from Christmas so much. Having something like this related to a holiday sucks (I know). It takes a long time to remember to enjoy the holiday again. condolences...

12-10-2003, 01:40 PM	#36
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12-10-2003, 02:41 PM	#37
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