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Originally posted by PenisFace
It depends on how old your kids are.. All of my grandparents had died by the time I was 11, so being younger, it was a little bit easier on me. If they died now, I don't know how I'd feel... Probably like complete shit.
Instead of mourning the loss and focusing on the loss itself, tell your family that they need to remember the good times, and that grandpa had a full and wonderfull life... 
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That what does not kill me, only makes me stronger.
Dad died @ 8
Step Dad died @ 13
Grandfather died on Fater's day
Mom Died on Oct 30, 2001
Step Granny died while I was @ internext last year 2003
Grandma (Dad's side) died when I was on Vacation in Hawaii 2003
Grandma (Mom's side) died April 30, 2003 - while I held her hand.
Death either brings you down - or it motivates you. Think of what they would have wanted for you and not about your pain and they have not died in Vain. Mourning is necessary, and not to be avoided no matter how old you are - VERY IMPORTANT!!! But if there is re-incarnation, it is in the passing along of the love that those before left us with that flames eternal. Just my experience and