How shallow are you? What's more important - Looks or Personality? - GoFuckYourself.com

Furious_Female · 10-23-2003, 10:46 PM

Be honest!

What's more important about people you date or have a long term relationship with? Their looks or their personality?

*Note: Drunk one night stands don't count

eatapeach · 10-23-2003, 10:49 PM

will she lick my ass?

if she's licking my ass i don't care what she looks like because i can't see her anyway

SleazyDream · 10-23-2003, 10:50 PM

both are about equal to me.

personality can make an average girl GEORGOUS and a pretty girl UGLY.

grogan · 10-23-2003, 10:52 PM

inability to handle drugs/alcohol

then looks

and hair

Furious_Male · 10-23-2003, 10:54 PM

Looks.. I just block out everything else.

liquidmoe · 10-23-2003, 10:55 PM

I have to agree with sleazy on this one.

MetaMan · 10-23-2003, 10:56 PM

where is the both?

Furious_Female · 10-23-2003, 10:57 PM

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Originally posted by MetaMan
where is the both?

That's not an option because it's which one is more important than the other

chodadog · 10-23-2003, 10:57 PM

I'll admit, i was initially attracted to my girlfriend because of her looks. But the fact that her personality is as wonderful as it is, and she's as smart as she is, is the reason i've been with her for as long as i have. What someone looks like is important. You should be attracted to your partner on a physical level.

corvette · 10-23-2003, 11:02 PM

both

the attraction has to be there, and you have to be able to stand them as well

Holly · 10-23-2003, 11:04 PM

Neither. The most important ones - intelligence and wit.

But I definitely think looks are lower down on the importance scale for females, than males.

footsex · 10-23-2003, 11:05 PM

it all starts with looks but looks aren't everything.
nothing like trying to talk too a really hot moron.

BRISK · 10-23-2003, 11:11 PM

I'm not saying hot chicks have a great personality by default, but one thing I've found with fat/ugly girls is that the fact that they're fat and ugly is what fucks up their personality. They have self-esteem issues, they're insecure, they're needy, overly emotional, self-destructive, etc...

In general, I've found more fat/ugly girls with personality issues than I have hot girls with personality issues. But that's just my experience.

Honeyslut · 10-23-2003, 11:17 PM

Personality !

I find intelligent men to be so SEXXXY

MetaformX · 10-23-2003, 11:21 PM

looks I would say, speaking honestly

Peter Romero · 10-23-2003, 11:22 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by SleazyDream
both are about equal to me.

personality can make an average girl GEORGOUS and a pretty girl UGLY.

True... but are we talking fucks... or girlfriends???

I fuck some hot chicks with PERFECT Bods - but most of them - I don't want hanging out for no conversation attempts.

Girlfriends can be older, tatoos, whatever... as long as she's attractive, likes me, and laughs @ some of the crazy stupid shit that comes outta my mouth - I'm happy!

MetaformX · 10-23-2003, 11:22 PM

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Originally posted by MetaformX
looks I would say, speaking honestly

and I am a male btw

Fletch XXX · 10-23-2003, 11:23 PM

beauty is death.

my all time crush.

<img src=http://www.newprophecy.net/Elizabeth_Short_Black_Dahlia_3.jpg border="1">

http://www.bethshort.com/

few women, live or dead can compete.

Eris · 10-23-2003, 11:23 PM

Personality, totally so long as the guy isn't a total mutant.

BSleazy · 10-23-2003, 11:27 PM

When you're at a bar or anywhere at all, what makes you want to approach someone? Looks or Personality? Girls have a different outlook on this for numerous reasons.

berg.the.red · 10-23-2003, 11:29 PM

looks. everything usually goes to hell in a hand basket before too long.

... yeah --i'm shallow.

drunkmonkey · 10-23-2003, 11:33 PM

Honestly, I like my girls good looking and stupid.

I have alot of ugly smart girl friends and that is where they will stay: friends.

The ability to talk about Quantum physics, having a good sense of humour, being able to talk about movies, books, etc., does not get my dick hard. A nice ass, legs, tits, skin, hair, smile, eyes, etc., brings my man-juice every time.

If I want a brain fuck, I come to gfy.

BRISK · 10-23-2003, 11:34 PM

Biologically speaking, looks should be more important. The evolution of all species depends on finding mates with superior genes.

WiredGuy · 10-23-2003, 11:37 PM

Personality and intelligence. If I can't maintain an interesting conversation with a girl, then there isn't much (other than sex) that we can really do together. So, for a real relationship, I would need a girl who can think on her own and is rather outgoing.

It's also important to be somewhat attractive but personality and intelligence are still worth much more to me.

WG

Zoe_Zoebaboe · 10-23-2003, 11:40 PM

Its all about the personality.

I dated a guy for 3 years that wasnt GQ, but his personality and way of thinking was just sexy as hell.

Fletch XXX · 10-23-2003, 11:41 PM

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Originally posted by Zoe_Zoebaboe
Its all about the personality.

I dated a guy for 3 years that wasnt GQ, but his personality and way of thinking was just sexy as hell.

can you get me a sin city six shirt?

im all into this band now and want a shirt.

Sin City Six.

cheers, playing it now.

now that i think about it, are they even from sin city? no clue, beers and herbs.

Fletch XXX · 10-23-2003, 11:45 PM

i dont even think they are american now.

http://www.powermetal.de/cdreview/review-3017.html

good shit though.

crawling and pretty legs rock.

hahaha

nevermind.

confused.

drunkmonkey · 10-23-2003, 11:51 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Zoe_Zoebaboe
Its all about the personality.

I dated a guy for 3 years that wasnt GQ, but his personality and way of thinking was just sexy as hell.

I used to have a friend who was extremely good looking and dressed to the 9's. Unfortunately he was as dumb as a rock. When we would go out, girls were on him like white on rice in a snow storm. It would take a total of about 2 minutes before they were talking to me. That guy got me more leg than if I would have drove a ferrari.

I had a couple of hot girls tell me that he turned them off not just because he was dense but because he was better looking than they were. They did not want to compete with a guy when it came to looks. They said it was hard enough competing with other girls and there was no way in hell they were going to have their boyfriend get all the attention.

Thank god I am ugly

jayeff · 10-23-2003, 11:52 PM

Looks get my attention. Personality keeps it

Fletch XXX · 10-23-2003, 11:54 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Honeyslut

I find intelligent men to be so SEXXXY

hey you, email me.

fletch @ fletchxxx dot com

Zoe_Zoebaboe · 10-24-2003, 12:02 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by jayeff
Looks get my attention. Personality keeps it

nice quote :D

Zoe_Zoebaboe · 10-24-2003, 12:03 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Fletch XXX
i dont even think they are american now.

http://www.powermetal.de/cdreview/review-3017.html

good shit though.

crawling and pretty legs rock.

hahaha

nevermind.

confused.

Heh, yeah, Ive heard of the band, but theyre not from here. :P

Holly · 10-24-2003, 12:03 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by WiredGuy
Personality and intelligence. If I can't maintain an interesting conversation with a girl, then there isn't much (other than sex) that we can really do together. So, for a real relationship, I would need a girl who can think on her own and is rather outgoing.

It's also important to be somewhat attractive but personality and intelligence are still worth much more to me.

WG

What about good panties? And good dancing skills? I've heard those two rank pretty high up on your list.

Fletch XXX · 10-24-2003, 12:03 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Fletch XXX

hey you, email me.

fletch @ fletchxxx dot com

and im not just flirting.

really, email me.

Zoe_Zoebaboe · 10-24-2003, 12:05 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by drunkmonkey

I used to have a friend who was extremely good looking and dressed to the 9's. Unfortunately he was as dumb as a rock. When we would go out, girls were on him like white on rice in a snow storm. It would take a total of about 2 minutes before they were talking to me. That guy got me more leg than if I would have drove a ferrari.

I had a couple of hot girls tell me that he turned them off not just because he was dense but because he was better looking than they were. They did not want to compete with a guy when it came to looks. They said it was hard enough competing with other girls and there was no way in hell they were going to have their boyfriend get all the attention.

Thank god I am ugly

yeah, ill go along with that. Ive gone on dates with "pretty boys" before. Most of the time, it seems their head is hallow. Nothing to say, nothing to talk about. Boring.

I <3 ugly guys

Fletch XXX · 10-24-2003, 12:06 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Zoe_Zoebaboe

Heh, yeah, Ive heard of the band, but theyre not from here. :P

i know, it was an honest mistake.

i listen to sooo many imports i often forget.

the name was an honest deception (oxymoron)

here's to elliot smith.

'i have become a silent movie.'

Zoe_Zoebaboe · 10-24-2003, 12:09 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Fletch XXX

i know, it was an honest mistake.

i listen to sooo many imports i often forget.

the name was an honest deception (oxymoron)

here's to elliot smith.

'i have become a silent movie.'

Elliot Smith. Not a looker but damn I bet he got loads of poo-naner.

TiGrrPrr · 10-24-2003, 12:19 AM

whats your vote Furious_Female?

broke · 10-24-2003, 12:26 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by SleazyDream

personality can make an average girl GEORGOUS and a pretty girl UGLY.

lexr · 10-24-2003, 12:28 AM

<---- Shallow

I can hold your breasts underwater for 5 minutes.

MiLo · 10-24-2003, 12:34 AM

im not impressed

WiredGuy · 10-24-2003, 12:35 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by SleazyDream
personality can make an average girl GEORGOUS and a pretty girl UGLY.

Very true

WG

Lonny · 10-24-2003, 12:38 AM

Who give a fuck on both. Don't like me for who I am then

that the way I see things.

goBigtime · 10-24-2003, 12:43 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Honeyslut
Personality !

I find intelligent men to be so SEXXXY

I HAVE A GIGABIT ETHERNET CONNECTION JUST WAITING FOR SOME CLIENT BOXES THAT DON'T BYTE BABY

MetaMan · 10-24-2003, 12:45 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by goBigtime

I HAVE A GIGABIT ETHERNET CONNECTION JUST WAITING FOR SOME CLIENT BOXES THAT DON'T BYTE BABY

jonesonyou · 10-24-2003, 12:46 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by SleazyDream
both are about equal to me.

personality can make an average girl GEORGOUS and a pretty girl UGLY.

Well said!

WiredGuy · 10-24-2003, 12:47 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Holly
What about good panties? And good dancing skills? I've heard those two rank pretty high up on your list.

LOL, that was just a trip to a strip club

They can shake their booties and take off their clothes for $20 but that's just good for eye candy. A real girl should be pleasant to talk to and have a great personality.

I can think of a couple who hang around GFY myself ;)
WG

goBigtime · 10-24-2003, 12:50 AM

So far only 5 guys have lied.. not bad

goBigtime · 10-24-2003, 12:55 AM

But for the women the cats should have been:

A) His look are most important of course
B) Personaility if theres not too much force
C) I'll make > $1 mil when we divorce
D) Who cares, if hes hung like a horse.

Zoe_Zoebaboe · 10-24-2003, 01:18 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by goBigtime

D) Who cares, if hes hung like a horse.

Gotta love the Scottish

View Poll Results: What's more important? Looks or personality?
Looks - I am a male	33	40.24%
Personality - I am a male	29	35.37%
Looks - I am a female	1	1.22%
Personality - I am a female	19	23.17%
Voters: 82. You may not vote on this poll

10-23-2003, 10:46 PM	#1
Furious_Female Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Upstate, New York Posts: 8,187	How shallow are you? What's more important - Looks or Personality? Be honest! What's more important about people you date or have a long term relationship with? Their looks or their personality? Note: Drunk one night stands don't count __________________ Skype:* j3nn.com ICQ 160370494 My current favorite high-converting sponsor: CrakRevenue

10-23-2003, 10:50 PM	#3
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10-23-2003, 10:54 PM	#5
Furious_Male Doing the grind since 99 Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: Buffalo NY Posts: 16,881	Looks.. I just block out everything else. __________________ Living in Virtual Reality Contact: Email (preferred): furiousmale .at. gmail - Skype: live:shanedws

10-23-2003, 10:57 PM	#9
chodadog Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2002 Posts: 9,736	I'll admit, i was initially attracted to my girlfriend because of her looks. But the fact that her personality is as wonderful as it is, and she's as smart as she is, is the reason i've been with her for as long as i have. What someone looks like is important. You should be attracted to your partner on a physical level. __________________ 26 + 6 = 1

10-23-2003, 10:49 PM	#2
eatapeach Confirmed User Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: toto's doghouse Posts: 493	will she lick my ass? if she's licking my ass i don't care what she looks like because i can't see her anyway

10-23-2003, 10:52 PM	#4
grogan So Fucking Banned Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: CHICAGO Posts: 2,284	inability to handle drugs/alcohol then looks and hair

10-23-2003, 10:55 PM	#6
liquidmoe Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: NY Posts: 4,994	I have to agree with sleazy on this one.

10-23-2003, 10:56 PM	#7
MetaMan I AM WEB 2.0 Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2003 Posts: 28,682	where is the both?

10-23-2003, 11:02 PM	#10
corvette Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2001 Location: scottsdale Posts: 7,880	both the attraction has to be there, and you have to be able to stand them as well __________________ If you need a good company for check writing services, then check out checkissuing, and for webhosting, check out Phoenix NAP

10-23-2003, 11:04 PM	#11
Holly Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: Jesusland Posts: 10,017	Neither. The most important ones - intelligence and wit. But I definitely think looks are lower down on the importance scale for females, than males. __________________ War National Damn Champions Eagle

10-23-2003, 11:05 PM	#12
footsex Confirmed User Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: NY Posts: 803	it all starts with looks but looks aren't everything. nothing like trying to talk too a really hot moron.

10-23-2003, 11:11 PM	#13
BRISK Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Feb 2003 Posts: 12,240	I'm not saying hot chicks have a great personality by default, but one thing I've found with fat/ugly girls is that the fact that they're fat and ugly is what fucks up their personality. They have self-esteem issues, they're insecure, they're needy, overly emotional, self-destructive, etc... In general, I've found more fat/ugly girls with personality issues than I have hot girls with personality issues. But that's just my experience. __________________ I post on GFY so that when people ask me what I do, I can tell them that I work with the mentally retarded.

10-23-2003, 11:17 PM	#14
Honeyslut Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Ass Valley, Ca Posts: 6,436	Personality ! I find intelligent men to be so SEXXXY __________________ http://nakedlunchnews.comWhat's up ? Naked Lunch News !

10-23-2003, 11:21 PM	#15
MetaformX Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2002 Posts: 6,704	looks I would say, speaking honestly __________________

10-23-2003, 11:23 PM	#18
Fletch XXX GFY HALL OF FAME DAMMIT!!! Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: that 504 Posts: 60,840	beauty is death. my all time crush. <img src=http://www.newprophecy.net/Elizabeth_Short_Black_Dahlia_3.jpg border="1"> http://www.bethshort.com/ few women, live or dead can compete. __________________ Want an Android App for your tube, membership, or free site? Need banners or promo material? Hit us up (ICQ Fletch: 148841377) or email me fletchxxx at gmail.com - recent work - About me

10-23-2003, 11:23 PM	#19
Eris Registered User Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 9	Personality, totally so long as the guy isn't a total mutant.

10-23-2003, 11:27 PM	#20
BSleazy Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: USA Posts: 6,721	When you're at a bar or anywhere at all, what makes you want to approach someone? Looks or Personality? Girls have a different outlook on this for numerous reasons. __________________ icq 156131086

10-23-2003, 11:29 PM	#21
berg.the.red Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Right Here. Right Now. Posts: 596	looks. everything usually goes to hell in a hand basket before too long. ... yeah --i'm shallow. __________________ Need a Dedicated Box with BALLS ? How about a Dedicated Server starting at just $49 per month.

10-23-2003, 11:33 PM	#22
drunkmonkey Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: behind you Posts:1,075,324 Posts: 799	Honestly, I like my girls good looking and stupid. I have alot of ugly smart girl friends and that is where they will stay: friends. The ability to talk about Quantum physics, having a good sense of humour, being able to talk about movies, books, etc., does not get my dick hard. A nice ass, legs, tits, skin, hair, smile, eyes, etc., brings my man-juice every time. If I want a brain fuck, I come to gfy.

10-23-2003, 11:34 PM	#23
BRISK Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Feb 2003 Posts: 12,240	Biologically speaking, looks should be more important. The evolution of all species depends on finding mates with superior genes. __________________ I post on GFY so that when people ask me what I do, I can tell them that I work with the mentally retarded.

10-23-2003, 11:37 PM	#24
WiredGuy Pounding Googlebot Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: Canada Posts: 34,482	Personality and intelligence. If I can't maintain an interesting conversation with a girl, then there isn't much (other than sex) that we can really do together. So, for a real relationship, I would need a girl who can think on her own and is rather outgoing. It's also important to be somewhat attractive but personality and intelligence are still worth much more to me. WG __________________ I play with Google.

10-23-2003, 11:40 PM	#25
Zoe_Zoebaboe Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: Sin City Posts: 4,463	Its all about the personality. I dated a guy for 3 years that wasnt GQ, but his personality and way of thinking was just sexy as hell. __________________ http://www.myspace.com/jennabea ICQ: 166862923 Email: [email protected]

10-23-2003, 11:45 PM	#27
Fletch XXX GFY HALL OF FAME DAMMIT!!! Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: that 504 Posts: 60,840	i dont even think they are american now. http://www.powermetal.de/cdreview/review-3017.html good shit though. crawling and pretty legs rock. hahaha nevermind. confused. __________________ Want an Android App for your tube, membership, or free site? Need banners or promo material? Hit us up (ICQ Fletch: 148841377) or email me fletchxxx at gmail.com - recent work - About me

10-23-2003, 11:52 PM	#29
jayeff Confirmed User Join Date: May 2001 Posts: 2,944	Looks get my attention. Personality keeps it

10-24-2003, 12:19 AM	#38
TiGrrPrr Confirmed User Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: Penix Posts: 562	whats your vote Furious_Female?

10-24-2003, 12:28 AM	#40
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10-24-2003, 12:34 AM	#41
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10-24-2003, 12:38 AM	#43
Lonny Confirmed User Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: Riverside Ca. Posts: 3,539	Who give a fuck on both. Don't like me for who I am then that the way I see things. __________________ crakrevenue

10-24-2003, 12:50 AM	#48
goBigtime Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 7,761	So far only 5 guys have lied.. not bad

10-24-2003, 12:55 AM	#49
goBigtime Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 7,761	But for the women the cats should have been: A) His look are most important of course B) Personaility if theres not too much force C) I'll make > $1 mil when we divorce D) Who cares, if hes hung like a horse.