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C_U_Next_Tuesday · 10-24-2003, 01:23 AM

personality rules... looks dont mean shit if i cant stand the fucker

smack · 10-24-2003, 01:23 AM

the girl gotta have both man. she has to be attractive and have a personality. and she can't be fat. god i hate fat chicks.

goBigtime · 10-24-2003, 01:28 AM

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Originally posted by Zoe_Zoebaboe

Gotta love the Scottish

Fess up girls... you know the guy above resembles at least one of your ex lovers.

... that long blonde maine, the pot belly, the... well you know...

Furious_Female · 10-24-2003, 01:30 AM

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Originally posted by TiGrrPrr
whats your vote Furious_Female?

My vote is for Personality. To be honest, looks are the last thing I even think about and I am not just saying that. I have no particular "taste" appearance wise... like it was said above, some of the most beautiful people can be ugly inside and vice versa.

Personality: intelligence, common sense, sense of humor, loyalty etc are all I care about. Everything else is just a bonus. I think that "pretty boys" are usually boring, dumb, arrogant and disloyal. I prefer a guy who can use his brain and be nice looking, without thinking they are God's gift to women... all in one package. People become even more attractive to me, as their personality grows on me.

Zoe_Zoebaboe · 10-24-2003, 01:30 AM

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Originally posted by goBigtime

Fess up girls... you know the guy above resembles at least one of your ex lovers.

... that long blonde maine, the pot belly, the... well you know...

Haha, he had brown hair, not blonde. And no pot belly :P

goBigtime · 10-24-2003, 01:31 AM

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Looks - I am a male 14 45.16%
Personality - I am a male 6 19.35%

Yeah right. It's hard-wired for us. The poll for guys should have just been:

Looks - I am a male 14 45.16%
Personality - I haven't had sex in over a year

6 19.35%

goBigtime · 10-24-2003, 01:33 AM

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Originally posted by Zoe_Zoebaboe

Haha, he had brown hair, not blonde. And no pot belly :P

Uh huh.. that might be how you remember him

Zoe_Zoebaboe · 10-24-2003, 01:34 AM

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Originally posted by goBigtime

Uh huh.. that might be how you remember him

right, exactly. His wang was just so amazing I forgot to realize he resembled a pygmy pony. My bad.

Furious_Female · 10-24-2003, 01:36 AM

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Originally posted by smack
the girl gotta have both man. she has to be attractive and have a personality. and she can't be fat. god i hate fat chicks.

Same ole shallow smack. tsk tsk

goBigtime · 10-24-2003, 01:42 AM

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Originally posted by Zoe_Zoebaboe

right, exactly. His wang was just so amazing I forgot to realize he resembled a pygmy pony. My bad.

Err..

I was just referring to the pot belly...

Whatever powers your tractor I guess.

Zoe_Zoebaboe · 10-24-2003, 01:44 AM

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Originally posted by goBigtime

Err.. I was just referring to the pot belly...

Whatever powers your tractor I guess.

Oh dear.

This is why I need sleep. *cries*

Im going to Phoenix tomorrow to see Rasputina

goBigtime · 10-24-2003, 01:47 AM

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Originally posted by Zoe_Zoebaboe

Im going to Phoenix tomorrow to see Rasputina

Are you hitting on me?

Zoe_Zoebaboe · 10-24-2003, 01:49 AM

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Originally posted by goBigtime

Are you hitting on me?

Um, was " going to see Rasputina" slang for hitting on someone? Im not up to date with the new lingo.

goBigtime · 10-24-2003, 01:51 AM

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Originally posted by Zoe_Zoebaboe

Um, was " going to see Rasputina" slang for hitting on someone? Im not up to date with the new lingo.

I thought you knew I was near phoenix and my favorite group (next to the guy who wrote the teletubbies theme song) was Rasputina. My bad.

Furious_Female · 10-24-2003, 01:52 AM

Love is in the air

goBigtime · 10-24-2003, 01:54 AM

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Originally posted by Furious_Female
Love is in the air

If only.

johnbosh · 10-24-2003, 01:56 AM

Both, she mus tlook good on first sight and have a great personality

Furious_Female · 10-24-2003, 01:58 AM

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Originally posted by goBigtime

If only.

How cute

Zoe_Zoebaboe · 10-24-2003, 02:01 AM

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Originally posted by goBigtime

I thought you knew I was near phoenix and my favorite group (next to the guy who wrote the teletubbies theme song) was Rasputina. My bad.

Haha, no

But its 10 bucks at the door. How can you beat that.

Zoe_Zoebaboe · 10-24-2003, 02:04 AM

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Originally posted by Furious_Female

How cute

Aww

goBigtime · 10-24-2003, 02:05 AM

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Originally posted by Zoe_Zoebaboe

Haha, no

But its 10 bucks at the door. How can you beat that.

Feel the flaming arrows Zoe, you can be one of the fakes

Zoe_Zoebaboe · 10-24-2003, 02:07 AM

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Originally posted by goBigtime

Feel the flaming arrows Zoe, you can be one of the fakes

Im so confused.

goBigtime · 10-24-2003, 02:08 AM

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Originally posted by Zoe_Zoebaboe

Im so confused.

Damn I thought you were hardcore.

Go listen to Hunters Kiss & Leechwife.

Zoe_Zoebaboe · 10-24-2003, 02:09 AM

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Originally posted by goBigtime

Damn I thought you were hardcore.

Go listen to Hunters Kiss & Leechwife.

Sorry, was thinking of the band Flaming Arrows and got confused.

milambur · 10-24-2003, 02:14 AM

I judge girls after:
brains 40% IQ > 120
Personality 30%
Fitness 20%
Looks 10%

They need to have enough money to be selfsupportive cause I'm a cheap bastard!

Note : Im single......

quiet · 10-24-2003, 02:17 AM

intelligence is number one. i can't stand idiots... nothing physical can mask sheer stupidity. i like girls who are a little different from the usual, who naturally think outside the mainstream.

i'm also partial to redheads

goBigtime · 10-24-2003, 02:17 AM

Actually I've never heard of Rasputina before 15 minutes ago... did I come off as knowing more about them them Zoe? Woo... fear the convincing powers of manipulation

Zoe_Zoebaboe · 10-24-2003, 02:19 AM

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Originally posted by goBigtime
Actually I've never heard of Rasputina before 15 minutes ago... did I come off as knowing more about them them Zoe? Woo... fear the convincing powers of manipulation

*sigh* This is why I shouldnt stay up late posting on message boards.

goBigtime · 10-24-2003, 02:21 AM

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Originally posted by Zoe_Zoebaboe

*sigh* This is why I shouldnt stay up late posting on message boards.

Aww don't worry Zoe, it just shows I'm willing to listen to you and give your interests more than a passing thought

(and also that you should stay on your toes)

Zoe_Zoebaboe · 10-24-2003, 02:24 AM

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Originally posted by goBigtime

Aww don't worry Zoe, it just shows I'm willing to listen to you and give your interests more than a passing thought

(and also that you should stay on your toes)

*yawn*

myjah · 10-24-2003, 05:48 AM

i voted for personality...but then again i'm already married and my hubby is HOOOTTT! so i'm not sure if my vote should really count - lol

Libertine · 10-24-2003, 06:01 AM

Intelligence, personality, attractiveness are all necessary. There is no "more important" - if one of those things is lacking there's no chance in hell of a relationship working.

basschick · 10-24-2003, 06:47 AM

i've been with two guys who were 10s and they sure weren't the great relationships of my life *shudder* punkworld, i totally disagree. my fiance is great, we've been totgether 5 years - and most people would rate him average, but WHAT a wonderful, funny, caring person!

ever notice that some truly outstanding-looking women date average to homely men? i know women who have been happy with their mate for over 10 years and their men are actively homely.

i was doing research for a relationship site for someone, and on all these boards for women, looks wasn't even fourth of things that the average woman looks for. sense of humor was the number one thing women wanted while men thought it was their looks or their money. (btw, guys - that didn't include a mean sense of humor or an overbearing sense of humor)

at least women know where they stand with most men - it's looks *LOL*

nofx · 10-24-2003, 06:51 AM

personality is always nice, looks is just an added bonus

LadyMischief · 10-24-2003, 06:54 AM

I always think about it this way.. Personality is really important, if it's a keeper.. Looks are icing on the cake. Why? Because looks fade. things can happen that mar the looks, and if a relationship is based solely on skin deep, if something happens or time wears that away, you don't have anything left. Personality doesn't just go away with time.. It's the true keeper.

tony286 · 10-24-2003, 07:42 AM

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Originally posted by Holly
Neither. The most important ones - intelligence and wit. But I definitely think looks are lower down on the importance scale for females, than males.

Thats really a myth two examples I worked in a small strip club, fat and old girls would make money and do very well. I defy you to find a fat male stripper it doesnt exist. I am a big man, good looking , funny but fat. When I was single every girl wanted be my friend but not date me. A fat chick can have her dance card filled every night and we are talking good looking men no one who is desperate. My wife has fans that look like male models. I think females are much more visual than men and saying they look for more makes them feel like they are deep . lol

FATPad · 10-24-2003, 07:49 AM

Personality (including intelligence, humor, etc) by far.

IntenseCash · 10-24-2003, 07:57 AM

I met my gf off a internet match-making site. So I knew her personality first, I saw a small picture, but still never saw the details of her.

I met her and she was so beautiful, its been a great 5 months thus far.

So really I got the best of both worlds

bigdog · 10-24-2003, 08:22 AM

hey what about money you never see a athlete with a average looking wife

Furious_Female · 10-24-2003, 09:16 AM

Isn't it interesting how not one woman voted for looks?

I don't think it necessarily means we think men are ugly, if they have a good personality... I think women get turned on sexually by emotions more than physical attractions.

Tipsy · 10-24-2003, 09:53 AM

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Originally posted by Furious_Female
Isn't it interesting how not one woman voted for looks? I don't think it necessarily means we think men are ugly, if they have a good personality... I think women get turned on sexually by emotions more than physical attractions.

I'd disagree totally and say it proves a lot of women lie including to themselves. Most women are at least as shallow as men on the looks/personality front but like to think of themselves as not being so.

tootie · 10-24-2003, 09:53 AM

Wow, so far 0% of females admit to liking looks over personality? Either women are far cooler than men or we're bigger liars.

Oh, and how far does the personality over looks thing go? Those who said personality... do you mean you want someone with a good personality but they can be a little less than attractive (like maybe 20 pounds overweight or having a big nose), or do you mean you'd date a 250 pound woman with a hairy mole on her face if she was really sweet and could cook a mean lasagna? LOL

I'm curious as to whether there are any people who can truly say that if they fell in love with someone for their personality over the phone and then met that person in real life and they were truly hideous... would you still love them?

I chose personality. I've dated some truly gorgeous men and I've dated a couple of really, really homely guys who had outstanding personalities. So I'm not hypocritical when I say I choose personality. But I am curious about other people. Is anyone out there who truly doesn't care ANYTHING about looks?

Tipsy · 10-24-2003, 09:55 AM

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Originally posted by tony404

Thats really a myth two examples I worked in a small strip club, fat and old girls would make money and do very well. I defy you to find a fat male stripper it doesnt exist. I am a big man, good looking , funny but fat. When I was single every girl wanted be my friend but not date me. A fat chick can have her dance card filled every night and we are talking good looking men no one who is desperate. My wife has fans that look like male models. I think females are much more visual than men and saying they look for more makes them feel like they are deep . lol

Great example of my statement.

Holly · 10-24-2003, 10:18 AM

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Originally posted by tony404
Thats really a myth two examples I worked in a small strip club, fat and old girls would make money and do very well. I defy you to find a fat male stripper it doesnt exist. I am a big man, good looking , funny but fat. When I was single every girl wanted be my friend but not date me. A fat chick can have her dance card filled every night and we are talking good looking men no one who is desperate. My wife has fans that look like male models. I think females are much more visual than men and saying they look for more makes them feel like they are deep . lol

That may be a myth for people who are picking their dates/mates at strip clubs, but as I have never done that, I don't think that applies to me.

I think the only thing your example proves is that good looks are more important for strippers, which I guess anyone knows. Unless you're wanting to have a relationship with or date a stripper (which is fine, btw, not meaning that's bad) then I don't see how that applies to everyone else.

And you're most definitely the first person I've ever come across to say seriously that "females are much more visual than men", lol. I guess the whole world of internet porn must have a flawed business model, right?

I'm surprised anyone is making any money fooling with all you men.

Furious_Female · 10-24-2003, 10:19 AM

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Originally posted by tootie
Wow, so far 0% of females admit to liking looks over personality? Either women are far cooler than men or we're bigger liars.

Oh, and how far does the personality over looks thing go? Those who said personality... do you mean you want someone with a good personality but they can be a little less than attractive (like maybe 20 pounds overweight or having a big nose), or do you mean you'd date a 250 pound woman with a hairy mole on her face if she was really sweet and could cook a mean lasagna? LOL

I'm curious as to whether there are any people who can truly say that if they fell in love with someone for their personality over the phone and then met that person in real life and they were truly hideous... would you still love them?

I chose personality. I've dated some truly gorgeous men and I've dated a couple of really, really homely guys who had outstanding personalities. So I'm not hypocritical when I say I choose personality. But I am curious about other people. Is anyone out there who truly doesn't care ANYTHING about looks?

I can testify to this, not the phone but the internet. I met a guy over the internet years ago and was crazy about him, regardless of what he looked like. Back in the day, when I wasn't too umm computer savvy, I didn't know how to open pic files on AOL (back in 96-97) Once it was downloaded and popped on the screen, that's about the ONLY time I would see it LOL ...So what he looked like, didn't even matter because I didn't see him like you normally would offline in the beginning. So it was all about personality and I got to a point that I didn't care what he looked like, as long as his personality made me melt.

I was with him for 6 years

Cassie · 10-24-2003, 10:23 AM

im gonna have to add to this poll and say in order:

1. ambition
2. personality
3. looks

a 300lb guy with no ambition to succeed is instantly 86'd from my book. take that same 300lb guy WITH ambition to succeed and everything else will fall into place cause he will have the personality i am looking for and he will be attractive to me.

evilklown · 10-24-2003, 10:23 AM

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Originally posted by chodadog
I'll admit, i was initially attracted to my girlfriend because of her looks. But the fact that her personality is as wonderful as it is, and she's as smart as she is, is the reason i've been with her for as long as i have. What someone looks like is important. You should be attracted to your partner on a physical level.

I have to say i agree. You dont walk through the mall and say "look at the morals on her." No you pull out "The Game" and if she turns out to be psycho hose beast hit the hills

smack · 10-24-2003, 10:36 AM

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Originally posted by Furious_Female

Same ole shallow smack. tsk tsk

same sad old jenn out on her crusade to promote morality. heh. i knew just by putting that you would qoute it and cry about it later.

KILL FAT GIRLS!!!!!!!!!!

Libertine · 10-24-2003, 10:42 AM

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Originally posted by basschick
punkworld, i totally disagree.

How can you disagree with that? That's like disagreeing with someone when they are telling what *their* favorite food is

Furious_Female · 10-24-2003, 10:42 AM

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Originally posted by smack

same sad old jenn out on her crusade to promote morality. heh. i knew just by putting that you would qoute it and cry about it later.

KILL FAT GIRLS!!!!!!!!!!

Yeah I knew you said it just to infuriate me. I can't stand hateful people. It's just WRONG

View Poll Results: What's more important? Looks or personality?
Looks - I am a male	33	40.24%
Personality - I am a male	29	35.37%
Looks - I am a female	1	1.22%
Personality - I am a female	19	23.17%
Voters: 82. You may not vote on this poll

10-24-2003, 01:23 AM	#52
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10-24-2003, 01:52 AM	#65
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10-24-2003, 02:14 AM	#75
milambur Mainstream since 2010 Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2003 Posts: 1,327	I judge girls after: brains 40% IQ > 120 Personality 30% Fitness 20% Looks 10% They need to have enough money to be selfsupportive cause I'm a cheap bastard! Note : Im single...... __________________ Alea iacta est

10-24-2003, 02:17 AM	#76
quiet we'll miss you our friend. RIP Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2001 Location: Fernie, BC Posts: 25,115	intelligence is number one. i can't stand idiots... nothing physical can mask sheer stupidity. i like girls who are a little different from the usual, who naturally think outside the mainstream. i'm also partial to redheads __________________ we'll miss you our friend. RIP

10-24-2003, 01:23 AM	#51
C_U_Next_Tuesday WW4L Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: over the river and through the woods Posts: 10,581	personality rules... looks dont mean shit if i cant stand the fucker

10-24-2003, 01:56 AM	#67
johnbosh Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: The Netherlands, Rotterdam Posts: 8,965	Both, she mus tlook good on first sight and have a great personality

10-24-2003, 02:17 AM	#77
goBigtime Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 7,761	Actually I've never heard of Rasputina before 15 minutes ago... did I come off as knowing more about them them Zoe? Woo... fear the convincing powers of manipulation

10-24-2003, 05:48 AM	#81
myjah Back in the harbor Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 11,482	i voted for personality...but then again i'm already married and my hubby is HOOOTTT! so i'm not sure if my vote should really count - lol __________________ VP of Marketing AVN Media Network Skype: AVNJill [email protected]

10-24-2003, 06:01 AM	#82
Libertine sex dwarf Join Date: May 2002 Posts: 17,860	Intelligence, personality, attractiveness are all necessary. There is no "more important" - if one of those things is lacking there's no chance in hell of a relationship working. __________________ /(bb\|[^b]{2})/

10-24-2003, 06:47 AM	#83
basschick Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: el lay, ca usa Posts: 2,540	i've been with two guys who were 10s and they sure weren't the great relationships of my life shudder punkworld, i totally disagree. my fiance is great, we've been totgether 5 years - and most people would rate him average, but WHAT a wonderful, funny, caring person! ever notice that some truly outstanding-looking women date average to homely men? i know women who have been happy with their mate for over 10 years and their men are actively homely. i was doing research for a relationship site for someone, and on all these boards for women, looks wasn't even fourth of things that the average woman looks for. sense of humor was the number one thing women wanted while men thought it was their looks or their money. (btw, guys - that didn't include a mean sense of humor or an overbearing sense of humor) at least women know where they stand with most men - it's looks LOL __________________ Got Gay and For Women Traffic?

10-24-2003, 06:51 AM	#84
nofx Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: Virgin Mary's womb Posts: 16,826	personality is always nice, looks is just an added bonus __________________ Often times I wonder why There's love and hate, theres live or die. When sickness comes I must decide: When feelings go, theres suicide.

10-24-2003, 06:54 AM	#85
LadyMischief Orgasms N Such! Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: Oakville, Ontario Posts: 18,135	I always think about it this way.. Personality is really important, if it's a keeper.. Looks are icing on the cake. Why? Because looks fade. things can happen that mar the looks, and if a relationship is based solely on skin deep, if something happens or time wears that away, you don't have anything left. Personality doesn't just go away with time.. It's the true keeper. __________________ ICQ 3522039 Content Manager - orgasm.com [email protected]

10-24-2003, 07:49 AM	#87
FATPad Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2001 Posts: 6,693	Personality (including intelligence, humor, etc) by far. __________________ <a href="http://www.adultcontent.co.uk">Adult Content UK - Great British Content</a>

10-24-2003, 07:57 AM	#88
IntenseCash Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Colorado Posts: 2,421	I met my gf off a internet match-making site. So I knew her personality first, I saw a small picture, but still never saw the details of her. I met her and she was so beautiful, its been a great 5 months thus far. So really I got the best of both worlds __________________ IntenseCash.com ~ Chuck \| ICQ: 444887112 Top converting sites: BrokeStraightBoys.com, CollegeDudes.com & CollegeBoyPhysicals.com Last edited by IntenseCash; 10-24-2003 at 07:59 AM..

10-24-2003, 08:22 AM	#89
bigdog Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 6,964	hey what about money you never see a athlete with a average looking wife

10-24-2003, 09:16 AM	#90
Furious_Female Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Upstate, New York Posts: 8,187	Isn't it interesting how not one woman voted for looks? I don't think it necessarily means we think men are ugly, if they have a good personality... I think women get turned on sexually by emotions more than physical attractions. __________________ Skype: j3nn.com ICQ 160370494 My current favorite high-converting sponsor: CrakRevenue Last edited by Furious_Female; 10-24-2003 at 09:19 AM..

10-24-2003, 09:53 AM	#92
tootie Confirmed User Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: Planet Earp Posts: 6,041	Wow, so far 0% of females admit to liking looks over personality? Either women are far cooler than men or we're bigger liars. Oh, and how far does the personality over looks thing go? Those who said personality... do you mean you want someone with a good personality but they can be a little less than attractive (like maybe 20 pounds overweight or having a big nose), or do you mean you'd date a 250 pound woman with a hairy mole on her face if she was really sweet and could cook a mean lasagna? LOL I'm curious as to whether there are any people who can truly say that if they fell in love with someone for their personality over the phone and then met that person in real life and they were truly hideous... would you still love them? I chose personality. I've dated some truly gorgeous men and I've dated a couple of really, really homely guys who had outstanding personalities. So I'm not hypocritical when I say I choose personality. But I am curious about other people. Is anyone out there who truly doesn't care ANYTHING about looks? __________________

10-24-2003, 10:23 AM	#96
Cassie Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: NJ Posts: 3,139	im gonna have to add to this poll and say in order: 1. ambition 2. personality 3. looks a 300lb guy with no ambition to succeed is instantly 86'd from my book. take that same 300lb guy WITH ambition to succeed and everything else will fall into place cause he will have the personality i am looking for and he will be attractive to me. __________________ ICQ: 309756847 ]