Interesting philosophy.

So you are saying that going into a strip club is like cheating on your wife?

Well, what does that say for the strippers that are married?

I dated strippers and I would date again but would not take it to seriously...

If you like her, fuck what everyone says and enjoy the ride. Just don't get set your expectations and hopes to High Bro

:2 cents:

I agree!:thumbsup

Ouch....!

There's some real harshness going down towards strippers here!

I've dated a few -- and have to say they have been among the best girlfriends I've had.

No regrets!

Lay off the strippers guys!

lived with one for about a year. best year of my life!

http://members.aol.com/awaken101/roomies.jpg

Bullshit...you make it sound like strippers are fucking Harvard Graduates.

Sure I think there are some smart girls out there but if you are asking in a general sense if strippers are good girls to date fom experience I say FUCK NO!

most have abuse in their history...drugs....etc

I have not done a double blind poll to see what percentages are completely fucking out of it but I have worked very very closely with the biggest chain of high end strip clubs in the world.....in general the girls are fucking head cases....this is not some jab against women ladies it is a mere fact!

You can sit here andf try to trell me the majority are savvy sexy sex in the city sophisticated ultra successful entrpreneurs and you and i maintain....You are full of shit.

If this kid wants to go hook up with a stripper go right the fuck ahead .....hell best sex I ever had was with a deja vu showgirl of the year...does not mean she would have been a good wife...or even girlfriend

you can man bash all day ladies but you are never going to convince anybody that strippers are actually great business minds and its the guys who are all fucked up.

everyone of us are fucked up in one way or another but to try and paint the picture that you are trying to paint ....makes you seem like man bashers with a very very weak argument.

They are great to party with...great to hang out with....I have NEVER seen a relationship that was healthy when a girl is dancing. If you tell me different i will go to the grave believing you have bold face lied to me.

Oh ok men are all dumb and strippers will run the world

most stories are I use to date a stripper or I once had a gf who was

This is my perspective I know it to be real and I could give a shit if you try to refute it.

there you go.....the point is the girls party the girls are fun...but hey all of yo uI am woman hear me roar types back the fuck off...unlesss you are a lesbian who dated stripppers which im sure we will get many claimers saying "I have and the stripper I dated could cure cancer and owned three buildings in Manhattan"

The point they are fun girls....watch your step because they get expensive very fast.

proceed with caution is the rule with dancers

hope you got money, and don't mind blowing it!

go ball deep

AMEN!!! Hallelujah! Preach on brother!

since you did not notice and just want to try to tear me down... my posts about guys being fucked up was a sarcastic one for all the fucks in here saying crazy ass shit and generalizing a certain profession as one group of fucked up bitches (or other not so nice terms)....you see, I could man bash.. but i prefer to not do that... i dont like to place all men in one category...cause they are individuals

I never said that there werent any fucked up strippers.. there are plenty...as there are plenty of fucked up non-strippers. All this stripper bashing is silly..and as i have stated before, why hang out with these fucked up chicks if everyone seems to have a major bad attitude about them.

ask my hubby about our relationship... we have been together for nine years... and our relationship was just fine when i was dancing.. probably better cause i wasnt at home all the time..lol..but i guess i am just telling you a bold faced lie.. there is no hope for me.. lol

the moral of the story boys and girls...

everyone is an individual... its a beautiful thing.

I'll say give her a shot.

But there is one thing true with all strippers. They're money hungary little bitches, typically with low self esteem. They want money so they can get cosmetic surgery. Remember, they'll do basically anything for money.

Well, I love strippers, this is true, when they are working. Unfortunately most of the ones I know personally do have some serious issues. I say most, however.

A couple of my good friends are married to former strippers, but former may be the operative word.

classic.

:1orglaugh

Actually I take this back.

If the stipper seems emotionally unstable, and chances are that she is, she'll cause a lot of problems for you.

I have had stripper friends who have seemed nice and normal, and I'd go out with them. But I've known a lot of fucked up strippers who will flip out over the smallest things.

And I agree with the rest of the board, chances are that she's fucked up or has some sort of emotional problems that you don't want to have to deal with.

There's maybe a small percent of stippers that are relatively normal (maybe 5 percent), but no matter how normal they are, they're still money hungary.

I'm going to say that you shouldn't take the risk.

who on this board does not like to make money?..
don't everyone raise their hand at once now..lol

what exactly is the definition of money hungry?

I have seen you around the boards...you seem to have your shit together...don't blow that by trying to stand the ground of being the super stripper defender.

We saw your point...we get it that not all strippers are head cases.If you take this personally on some level...you have my apology.

I certainly do not want to take the time to break down every detail of my life as to why I think I am an authority but...yeah I am a self proclaimed authority on this particular subject.

The kid asked if it was a good idea...I provided my own personal experience combined with my professional dealings with the pinnacle of gentlemen?s clubs.

If your upset about the generalization that is truly unfortunatebut in the real world stereotypes exist for a reason some warranted some not but there is always a grain of truth in general stereotypes...

oh God forbid we say something like that!

You are in a healthy relationship that began when you danced as you have mentioned.

Congratulations....you have beat the odds....with that I wish you well...I mean no harm or ill will...but we can agree to part with a difference of opinion

of course mine being the right one...lol

Winnipeg has had a burgeoning burlesque trade for decades now. Tons of strippers live here or work their way through here, and I've met several over the years.


There are two kinds of strippers in this world.....

- Those that are into the whole lifestyle, the game..... the show, drugs, fucking on the side for money, etc etc. (the majority)

- Those that are running it as a business..... they arrive at a bar, they do their shit, and they get out, climb into their $40,000 SUV and drive to their next gig. (the minority)


The girls in the first category are a waste of time for anything other than partying and the odd casual banging with a double rubber. The girls in the second category are either cold as ice or smart as hell. Some of the ones that are smart as hell might make for great girlfriends, they be a rare find. Beautiful, intelligent, and most of them have a 5-year business plan.

Come on down to the clubs in Houston, TX. You'll never want to leave. :)

lol..ok ok ok..

Hell yes i felt i had to be the great stripper denfender of the universe...it was inevitable.

so i promise not to bitch slap you if we ever shall meet and I'll buy the first drink :1orglaugh

so to sum it up, if a guy is single and has money would it be good to date(bang)a stripper for a while?

it's jack and coke and ten bucks says I duck and you miss...reason for that too but again....


The details of my life are In-con-se-quential

Hey God bless you for standing up and having an opinion you're willing to go toes on.....however wrong it maY BE...no im kidding have a good weekend im out ...lol...lol

and for you people on the sidelines...fuck off you know who you are...you're the same punks walking on my lawn...now get out of here...and stay off my lawn


100

I married a bi-sexual stripper. No shit. Best fucking four years of my life.

Still married?

hehe... strippers are fun. :Graucho

I love the look on strippers faces when they ask me what I do for a living and I say:

"I work for Hustler"

hehe... strippers are fun. :Graucho

I bet most of them then say- can you get me a photo shoot?

Yup... and each one has there own "way" of asking :Graucho

Money hungry(in the case of strippers) = wanting money to the point that you'd be willing to subject yourself to demoralizing acts like stripping.

C_U_Next_Tuesday,
I'm not trying to say that all strippers are nut cases, but there has to be sort of underlying problems someone must have to become a stripper. Anything such as:

Not having money, and/or coming from a poor family.
Being overly greedy.
Wanting money to get plastic surgery.
Wanting attention.
so on...

I know a lot of strippers, and most of them tell me that they don't like being around or lap dancing for the a lot men that they perform for, and that they only do it for the money. They feel demoralized a lot of the time, and call a lot of the guys they meet on a daily basis- Jerks.

Just being a stipper causes a lot of emotional problems, even to women that are perfectly normal.

I've also had strippers flip out on me because I wouldn't give them money, or because I talked to other women(even though I wasn't interested in them) and so on.

I do know strippers who are relatively normal, a lot are just in college, and need some money(like stated above).

And, I'm not saying that just because you're a stripper that you can't have a healthy relationship. But chances are that the stripper has some sort of emotional problems or baggage that you don't want to get involved with.

I wouldn't date a stripper unless I knew them well(not someone I just met at random). And I wouldn't date any women who I felt had serious emotional problems(regardless to what their occupation was).

But anyways, C_U_Next_Tuesday, why did you strip in the first place just curious? What got you into the business?

Best sex in my life...

... Worst Drama Ever!

Same with 95 out of 100 pornographers. How many people in committed relationships in the industry have you seen cheat on their SOs at industry events?

No one gets out alive.

Dont seriously date strippers, then all have some sort of major issues. I date a few of them and one is still a fuck buddy of mine but id never date her seriously

I wouldnt call it "dating"........ :1orglaugh

I don't even know any strippers.

Does your mom count?

im not a les, so my answer is no.

but i have kissed a few :thumbsup

Exactly...

wouldnt touch them thats for sure

seeing 2 of them now
met them both at same club.. on different nights
they don't know about each otehr

and now 1 works somewhere else
so just having fun till it lasts! :thumbsup

Strippers usually like people for their money. Oh wait, 90% of girls are like that. :2 cents:

MY nickname for her was the monster lol If that gives you a idea

hmm this thread is old