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lordsofthekings · 07-19-2003, 08:02 AM

Okay here is my problem for the last 2 years have I been in love with my best friend girlfriend, we had a thing going before the started to date. but now is my problem what the fuck should I do, for the last 2 years have I keeped it in my self all the time, but its fucking hart, every time I see her, I want to tell her how much I really love her....there is not one day where I don't thing about her.

What should I do? come out with it, or keep it in me, and don't lose my best friends.

I should tell me and my friend have been friends for over 7 years now.

if any one have any suggestion plz let me know.

PS sorry for my bad english

chowda · 07-19-2003, 08:04 AM

keep it to urself man

BRISK · 07-19-2003, 08:06 AM

Form a threesome.

afrocreep · 07-19-2003, 08:10 AM

i'll see if i can get Dr. Phil on here. he can help!

C_U_Next_Tuesday · 07-19-2003, 08:18 AM

keep it to yourself and find your own girl...If she were in love with you (returns your ardarous affections)..then she would be with you...telling her and your friend will probably make you lose them both.. get over it. nothing worse than an obsessive guy that loves you and you dont return the affection.

snipah7 · 07-19-2003, 08:24 AM

I will tell you one thing or maybe two...

first you must realize WHAT it is you are really feeling. by this I mean cut through the shit that our retarded brains MAKE UP to make us want things more than we do. Like SHE IS YOUR FRIENDS GIRL. That always looks nice. One thing I can garantee is that if for some reason your friend wasn't going out with her you prob wouldn't even be thinking about her. Second thing is that HE prob started liking her because he felt that you liked her or saw you flirting with her. This shit always happends. It drives guys crazy. they want the friends girl cuz she's the one they can't have the most.

GARENTEED: if for some reason you told your friend and he gave her up to you and you two were finally together, it would not be how you think.("everything is perfect now that I have her") cuz that never workes. there is so much build up expectation and anticipation put into this magically non existant relationship that you are doomed to be disapointed weather you never get her or if you do.

in conclusion: if you are going to be disapointed either way then just be loyal to you bud and keep your hands off. theres like what 4 billion women in the world so here is one more garantee:

YOU WILL FINE SOMEONE ELSE THAT IS EVEN MORE RIGHT FOR YOU THAN YOU THINK!

lordsofthekings · 07-19-2003, 08:35 AM

Yes mabey its the best to keep it to my self, but now it have taken 2 years, and I still thing of her all the time, I have been with a few other girls, but there is nothing like her.

but mabey with time, can I forget about her..

But the problem is that I don't know if she have any felling for me, some times when we are together, I am getting mix signales.
but mabey is nothing, or mabey she still have felling for me ( I hope ) :-)

Sassyass · 07-19-2003, 08:36 AM

Jessie was a friend.
You know he was a good friend of mine.
But hes got himself a girl.........

lordsofthekings · 07-19-2003, 09:26 AM

And everytime I thing of her, this song is coming in the radio
"If You're Not The One" by Daniel Bedingfield

SYNIKAL · 07-19-2003, 09:56 AM

Keep it to yerself... there are plenty of bitches out there

07-19-2003, 08:02 AM	#1
lordsofthekings Confirmed User Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: Stripclub Posts: 145	what should I do? Okay here is my problem for the last 2 years have I been in love with my best friend girlfriend, we had a thing going before the started to date. but now is my problem what the fuck should I do, for the last 2 years have I keeped it in my self all the time, but its fucking hart, every time I see her, I want to tell her how much I really love her....there is not one day where I don't thing about her. What should I do? come out with it, or keep it in me, and don't lose my best friends. I should tell me and my friend have been friends for over 7 years now. if any one have any suggestion plz let me know. PS sorry for my bad english __________________ TheLord Icq 274-786-978

07-19-2003, 08:04 AM	#2
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07-19-2003, 08:06 AM	#3
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07-19-2003, 08:24 AM	#6
snipah7 Confirmed User Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 781	I will tell you one thing or maybe two... first you must realize WHAT it is you are really feeling. by this I mean cut through the shit that our retarded brains MAKE UP to make us want things more than we do. Like SHE IS YOUR FRIENDS GIRL. That always looks nice. One thing I can garantee is that if for some reason your friend wasn't going out with her you prob wouldn't even be thinking about her. Second thing is that HE prob started liking her because he felt that you liked her or saw you flirting with her. This shit always happends. It drives guys crazy. they want the friends girl cuz she's the one they can't have the most. GARENTEED: if for some reason you told your friend and he gave her up to you and you two were finally together, it would not be how you think.("everything is perfect now that I have her") cuz that never workes. there is so much build up expectation and anticipation put into this magically non existant relationship that you are doomed to be disapointed weather you never get her or if you do. in conclusion: if you are going to be disapointed either way then just be loyal to you bud and keep your hands off. theres like what 4 billion women in the world so here is one more garantee: YOU WILL FINE SOMEONE ELSE THAT IS EVEN MORE RIGHT FOR YOU THAN YOU THINK! __________________ ICQ # 273318533 Hit me up for any design, flash, html or any kind work.

07-19-2003, 08:35 AM	#7
lordsofthekings Confirmed User Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: Stripclub Posts: 145	Yes mabey its the best to keep it to my self, but now it have taken 2 years, and I still thing of her all the time, I have been with a few other girls, but there is nothing like her. but mabey with time, can I forget about her.. But the problem is that I don't know if she have any felling for me, some times when we are together, I am getting mix signales. but mabey is nothing, or mabey she still have felling for me ( I hope ) :-) __________________ TheLord Icq 274-786-978

07-19-2003, 08:10 AM	#4
afrocreep Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2001 Location: ON, Canada Posts: 1,074	i'll see if i can get Dr. Phil on here. he can help!

07-19-2003, 08:18 AM	#5
C_U_Next_Tuesday WW4L Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: over the river and through the woods Posts: 10,581	keep it to yourself and find your own girl...If she were in love with you (returns your ardarous affections)..then she would be with you...telling her and your friend will probably make you lose them both.. get over it. nothing worse than an obsessive guy that loves you and you dont return the affection.

07-19-2003, 08:36 AM	#8
Sassyass Confirmed User Join Date: Dec 2002 Posts: 1,101	Jessie was a friend. You know he was a good friend of mine. But hes got himself a girl.........

07-19-2003, 09:26 AM	#9
lordsofthekings Confirmed User Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: Stripclub Posts: 145	And everytime I thing of her, this song is coming in the radio "If You're Not The One" by Daniel Bedingfield __________________ TheLord Icq 274-786-978

07-19-2003, 09:56 AM	#10
SYNIKAL Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2003 Posts: 1,795	Keep it to yerself... there are plenty of bitches out there __________________ ...........