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JDog · 07-10-2003, 06:56 PM

just died. Do you guys think I should say some? Give her my sympathoy? I mean, I'm really good friends with her cousin, I've actually know her cousin for 3 yrs longer. What would you do?

jDoG

twistyneck · 07-10-2003, 06:57 PM

If you think you should, you should.

gothweb · 07-10-2003, 07:04 PM

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Originally posted by twistyneck
If you think you should, you should.

Well said. I would add: "If you think maybe you should, you should." How can it hurt to be nice to someone?

TurboAngel · 07-10-2003, 07:06 PM

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Originally posted by JDog
just died. Do you guys think I should say some? Give her my sympathoy? I mean, I'm really good friends with her cousin, I've actually know her cousin for 3 yrs longer. What would you do?

jDoG

Send a card and flowers!

JDog · 07-10-2003, 07:13 PM

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Originally posted by TurboAngel

Send a card and flowers!

I would, but I don't want her to know I know, unless she tells me, ya know? If she doesn't tell me, I dont' want her to get pissed off at my best-friend, because she would be the only one to tell me. Ya know? Yea next time I hear from her, I'll say something! What about if I was dick when we broke up? I'm the one that broke up with her, and kicked her out of my apartment that night @ 8 PM? Would it wise to even talk to her?

jDoG

JDog · 07-10-2003, 07:15 PM

One more thing, we did talk every once in a while after we broke up? She is kindof special to me, she was my first! Ya know? Yea I'll give her a call!

Thanks Guys,

jDoG

TurboAngel · 07-10-2003, 07:15 PM

Ya, but that would be in the paper.

Mr Pheer · 07-10-2003, 07:16 PM

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Originally posted by JDog

I would, but I don't want her to know I know, unless she tells me, ya know? If she doesn't tell me, I dont' want her to get pissed off at my best-friend, because she would be the only one to tell me. Ya know? Yea next time I hear from her, I'll say something! What about if I was dick when we broke up? I'm the one that broke up with her, and kicked her out of my apartment that night @ 8 PM? Would it wise to even talk to her?

jDoG

It would probably not be wise to talk to her now while she's hurting... but show some class, send a nice floral arrangement to the funeral home

gothweb · 07-10-2003, 07:16 PM

Ah, I see. If the way you found out is awkward, it's a tough one. You could find another way that you could have found out (paper obituary?) and then contact her. Even if you were an asshole in the past, it's never too late to be decent. She may not react well, but this way at least you will have tried.

JDog · 07-10-2003, 07:23 PM

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Originally posted by gothweb
Ah, I see. If the way you found out is awkward, it's a tough one. You could find another way that you could have found out (paper obituary?) and then contact her. Even if you were an asshole in the past, it's never too late to be decent. She may not react well, but this way at least you will have tried.

That wouldn't work, because we live in HB, Cali, and her mom lived in Tucson, AZ. And I doubt they would have a obituary on her, she's never meet her real mom, her mom basically left when she was too, she was a druggie.

she kept asking me if she should she her, and i was like, it is up to you! I can't tell you, ya know? I said, it could be hard on you, it is up to you if you want to see her and you are old enough to make that decision on your own, I can't help you! I said, it could hurt you, or it could make you happier!

she asked me what I would do, and I'm like, I can't say, because that would base your decision most likely! You make up your mind and I will tell you what I would do!

But I feel bad, because my best-friend signed on and said, Kim's signed on, I'm like, "Tell her I died" And thats when she told me what happend to my ex's mother. I got along with her family, she was just kind of mental.

jDoG

TurboAngel · 07-10-2003, 07:24 PM

Give her a call!

HEARTBREAKER · 07-10-2003, 07:25 PM

just show her that your sympathetic and supportive of her whatever happened.

JDog · 07-10-2003, 07:45 PM

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Originally posted by MSB
just show her that your sympathetic and supportive of her whatever happened.

Yea I'm gonna send her flowers. I feel sorry for her. Hell maybe it will bring closure to her?
jDoG

07-10-2003, 06:56 PM	#1
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07-10-2003, 06:57 PM	#2
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