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Originally posted by gothweb
Ah, I see. If the way you found out is awkward, it's a tough one. You could find another way that you could have found out (paper obituary?) and then contact her. Even if you were an asshole in the past, it's never too late to be decent. She may not react well, but this way at least you will have tried.
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That wouldn't work, because we live in HB, Cali, and her mom lived in Tucson, AZ. And I doubt they would have a obituary on her, she's never meet her real mom, her mom basically left when she was too, she was a druggie.
she kept asking me if she should she her, and i was like, it is up to you! I can't tell you, ya know? I said, it could be hard on you, it is up to you if you want to see her and you are old enough to make that decision on your own, I can't help you! I said, it could hurt you, or it could make you happier!
she asked me what I would do, and I'm like, I can't say, because that would base your decision most likely! You make up your mind and I will tell you what I would do!
But I feel bad, because my best-friend signed on and said, Kim's signed on, I'm like, "Tell her I died" And thats when she told me what happend to my ex's mother. I got along with her family, she was just kind of mental.
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