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Cassie · 06-02-2003, 10:47 AM

ever have one? you know where the person sucks the ever living life out of you with their problems and misery; no matter how many times you call them an idiot and tell them that their failure in life is their own doing and that person still doesnt get it! thats the type of person i am talking about.

just curious if anyone has this type of person following them around regardless of the fact you tell them that you will help push them off a bridge

Jakke PNG · 06-02-2003, 10:49 AM

Hit them in the face.

Cassie · 06-02-2003, 10:50 AM

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Originally posted by TeenGodFather
Hit them in the face.

and break a nail? now that would really p*** me off!

playa · 06-02-2003, 10:53 AM

not another chick reading that book

Cassie · 06-02-2003, 10:55 AM

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Originally posted by playa
not another chick reading that book

what book?

Bobby Fissure · 06-02-2003, 11:06 AM

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Originally posted by Cassie
ever have one? you know where the person sucks the ever living life out of you with their problems and misery

Pretty much every friend I've ever had. They eat your food, watch your TV, play with your guitar, use your toilet, break your stuff, then they go home.

The hell with people.

loverboy · 06-02-2003, 11:08 AM

im a loner... hehehe

Cassie · 06-02-2003, 11:21 AM

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Originally posted by Bobby Fissure

Pretty much every friend I've ever had. They eat your food, watch your TV, play with your guitar, use your toilet, break your stuff, then they go home.

The hell with people.

thats definitely part of the package. now add in the whining, complaining and constant need of attention and you have the type of person i am talking about!

FillmoreSlim · 06-02-2003, 11:23 AM

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Originally posted by Cassie

just curious if anyone has this type of person following them around regardless of the fact you tell them that you will help push them off a bridge

cut dead weight

Marissa · 06-02-2003, 12:42 PM

OMG! Where should I begin? That describes just about everyone I know give or take a few people. Do people know what it means to take advantage of your friends? Is that what friends are for.....ummmmm, NO! Friends are supposed to be there for support when you need them and vice versa, etc., not to dump their damm kids on you just because they want to go out for the night and party even though don't have a pot to piss in or a window to throw it out of. Or the friend that uses you to do her dirty work like wanting to start a business but lets you do all the footwork and research then decides to jump in for profit, complains about everything under the sun, is so pathetic when you are done talking to her you want to slit your own wrists because she depresses you so much and sucks the ever living life out of you that the only thing left is a shell!

NBDesign · 06-02-2003, 12:47 PM

Yep... got one of those... I actually like talking to him because it makes my trouble seem less important.

Is that bad?

Cassie · 06-02-2003, 12:48 PM

my definition of a friend:

1. someone you have spoken to face to face
2. someone you have known for over 5 years
3. someone who will give you the good advice no matter how harsh it is
4. someone who will support you during bad and GOOD times
5. someone who you would take a bullet for and vise versa

dont meet that criteria, then i cant call a person a friend.

toxic relationships (in any venue) is dangerous and probably more hazardous to your health then cigarettes!

Jakke PNG · 06-02-2003, 12:53 PM

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Originally posted by Marissa
OMG! Where should I begin? That describes just about everyone I know give or take a few people. Do people know what it means to take advantage of your friends? Is that what friends are for.....ummmmm, NO! Friends are supposed to be there for support when you need them and vice versa, etc., not to dump their damm kids on you just because they want to go out for the night and party even though don't have a pot to piss in or a window to throw it out of. Or the friend that uses you to do her dirty work like wanting to start a business but lets you do all the footwork and research then decides to jump in for profit, complains about everything under the sun, is so pathetic when you are done talking to her you want to slit your own wrists because she depresses you so much and sucks the ever living life out of you that the only thing left is a shell!

How fucking creepy is that!? Changing fonts.

Cassie · 06-02-2003, 12:55 PM

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Originally posted by NBDesign
Yep... got one of those... I actually like talking to him because it makes my trouble seem less important.

Is that bad?

depends if you believe in the whole misery loves company thing or if you actually release any anger and gain some laughter by telling your friend what a metally challanged moron he/she is

NBDesign · 06-02-2003, 12:58 PM

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Originally posted by Cassie

depends if you believe in the whole misery loves company thing or if you actually release any anger and gain some laughter by telling your friend what a metally challanged moron he/she is

Not sure what I believe as far as that goes... I mean I cannot handle the guy for too long and I have told him he is a lazy fuck and needed to get off his fat ass and do something with his life so....

But then again, he has done the same to me on occasion.....

Herb Kornfield · 06-02-2003, 12:59 PM

You can only depend on yourself, no one else. Thats just how it really is in life.

As long as you are prepared to be self-reliant and understand that you will be disappointed by people your entire life no matter what roles they play in your life, you should be ok.

Be happy with yourself and you wont need others to tell you why they arent happy with themselves.

Cassie · 06-02-2003, 01:01 PM

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Originally posted by NBDesign

Not sure what I believe as far as that goes... I mean I cannot handle the guy for too long and I have told him he is a lazy fuck and needed to get off his fat ass and do something with his life so....

But then again, he has done the same to me on occasion.....

well then you have to ask yourself, did his advice work on you and vise versa or are you in this circle of self inflected pain for reasons you have yet to discover!?!?

i can handle about one day of someone bitching about their lives before i rail them.

thane · 06-19-2003, 05:33 AM

strike three your out

06-02-2003, 10:47 AM	#1
Cassie Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: NJ Posts: 3,139	toxic friends or aquaintences ever have one? you know where the person sucks the ever living life out of you with their problems and misery; no matter how many times you call them an idiot and tell them that their failure in life is their own doing and that person still doesnt get it! thats the type of person i am talking about. just curious if anyone has this type of person following them around regardless of the fact you tell them that you will help push them off a bridge __________________ ICQ: 309756847 ]

06-02-2003, 10:49 AM	#2
Jakke PNG ex-TeenGodFather Industry Role: Join Date: Nov 2001 Location: Suomi Finland Perkele Posts: 20,306	Hit them in the face. __________________ ..and I'm off.

06-02-2003, 12:42 PM	#10
Marissa Confirmed User Join Date: May 2003 Location: NewYorkCity Posts: 162	OMG! Where should I begin? That describes just about everyone I know give or take a few people. Do people know what it means to take advantage of your friends? Is that what friends are for.....ummmmm, NO! Friends are supposed to be there for support when you need them and vice versa, etc., not to dump their damm kids on you just because they want to go out for the night and party even though don't have a pot to piss in or a window to throw it out of. Or the friend that uses you to do her dirty work like wanting to start a business but lets you do all the footwork and research then decides to jump in for profit, complains about everything under the sun, is so pathetic when you are done talking to her you want to slit your own wrists because she depresses you so much and sucks the ever living life out of you that the only thing left is a shell! __________________

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06-02-2003, 12:48 PM	#12
Cassie Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: NJ Posts: 3,139	my definition of a friend: 1. someone you have spoken to face to face 2. someone you have known for over 5 years 3. someone who will give you the good advice no matter how harsh it is 4. someone who will support you during bad and GOOD times 5. someone who you would take a bullet for and vise versa dont meet that criteria, then i cant call a person a friend. toxic relationships (in any venue) is dangerous and probably more hazardous to your health then cigarettes! __________________ ICQ: 309756847 ]

06-02-2003, 10:53 AM	#4
playa Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: atlanta, GA Posts: 6,432	not another chick reading that book

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loverboy When it rains, it pours Industry Role: Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 20,609	im a loner... hehehe

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Herb Kornfield Is on the 1 Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: Philly Burbs Posts: 4,996	You can only depend on yourself, no one else. Thats just how it really is in life. As long as you are prepared to be self-reliant and understand that you will be disappointed by people your entire life no matter what roles they play in your life, you should be ok. Be happy with yourself and you wont need others to tell you why they arent happy with themselves.

06-19-2003, 05:33 AM	#18
thane Registered User Join Date: Jun 2003 Posts: 46	strike three your out