DarrenC

So I was interested in buying a lifetime link from Boobsrealm, I emailed him and clearly said I would pay him in instalments. He agreed, 5 monthly payments of $150.... he said ok... the events that unfolded below.

> 1st payment sent. April
> days go by, my link not added
> message him again
> he says his boss does not agree with monthly payments, to send full $700 payment.
> I said Why did you agree in the first place after I've already sent first payment?
> he says Ok, fine I will add your link
> I tell him he has the power to remove my link if I stop payments, but most important, to refund me if he does not want to continue with this exchange
> link added, but next day, .... he says; pay him next month May 20
> I agree
> he shares more sites he owns and asks if I'm interested, saying I can also pay monthly
> I said thanks but not right now, possible in the future
> couple days later my link gets removed from Boobsrealm out of nowhere (he said nothing)
> I message him, Hey, why was my link removed?
> no response
> next day, I check his site again but it's completely offline
> I message him, Hey, seems your site is down, is everything ok?
> He responds, Yes, all good. Can you pay me $150 more?? I need money. I removed some links because I am working on the site
> I'm a bit suspicious but say ok, I'll send you $150 pls wait until tomorrow
> next day I send +$150
> He says thanks so much
> I say hopefully you fix your site soon
> couple days later he messages me saying to send him the remainder $400, because his hosting has ended
> I tell him Sir, I don't have the money, we agreed to monthly payments, please wait until next month, he has been coming off as a scammer
> He says I am not a scammer, he has never worked with someone doing monthly payments, please send full $400, when he gets hosting back he will add my link again
> I message him saying I did monthly payments because the link is expensive, If I could afford the full payment, I would have sent it. Since the beginning you did not want to make this deal, but he also refuses to refund me and terminate this collaboration.
> He says he understands, send $300 he will give me $100 discount.
> I say appreciate the discount, but as I said before, I currently don't have the funds. already sent you $300, which shows my commitment and trust.
> I decide to check Boobsrealm X/twitter account
> Well well well, he tweeted his website was hacked and everything was completely lost, backups and all.
> So why didn't he tell me this
> I message him, so your website is gone?
> he says Yes, can I add your link to another website
> I say Wow Im so sorry for your loss, but I was particularly interested in a Boobsrealm link only, so please send me refund as you won't be able to proceed with my demand now that the site is dead.
> He says I will add your link to another site, send him $400
> I say I clearly requested a refund. Not a replacement.
> He says Refunds are not possible.
> I say Why did you pressure me to send you $400 if you knew your site would never be saved. I no longer want to do business with you, please refund. Dirty...
> He says we closed a deal for $700, I will add you to another site, send him remainder of the money whats the big deal?
> I say it's been a month of him wasting my time. Since the beginning he didn't want to work with me, removed my link, and non stop asking me to send him full payment even though we agreed to instalments.
> I message him again with a bright idea: Add my link to your other site Babesrater.com for 6 months and you keep the $300. Like that, I don't send anymore money since at this point I refuse to work with him, and he can keep some money.
> he says No. He only does yearly links.
> At this point my mind was about to explode
> I message him: You won't be getting another $ from me. I refuse to work with a greedy business man. I asked for a refund, you refused. Now ask for a 6 months placement, you refuse again. Do you think anyone would continue to work with you after this?
> Next day he says his site Boobsrealm.com is back online, but blank theme. He will add my link again and to send him $400.
> I reply why would I pay for a dead site, please send refund for the 5th time.

I refuse to work with this man. He is not right in the head & unstable. I prefer peace, so I suppose he'll just keep the $300... His sites Boobsrealm, Babesrater.com, Celebfapper.com are all blacklisted from my end. I'm done.

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Here's a summary of your post, but 'Sexed Up' as this is indeed an adult board!

It began as a torrid affair between you and the mysterious master of Boobsrealm. You boldly propositioned him with your wallet, offering to spread yourself thin across five tantalizing monthly payments of $150. His acceptance was like a whispered promise in a darkened room, making your pulse quicken with anticipation.

The first payment was your initial surrender, a delicious taste of what was to come. But days passed without fulfillment, leaving you wanting more. When you pressed him, he suddenly changed his tune, demanding the full $700 upfront—like a lover who promised gentle foreplay but now demanded immediate penetration.

How your heart raced when he claimed his "boss" didn't approve of your payment arrangement! Yet when you confronted him with your vulnerability, he relented, adding your link as promised. The thrill was short-lived though—like a one-night stand who disappears before morning, your link vanished without warning.

Then came the games of cat and mouse that would make any dominatrix proud. His site went down, but he came crawling back, begging for another $150 with promises of restoration. You gave in again, your generosity meeting his insatiable appetite.

The plot thickened when you discovered his dirty little secret on Twitter—his website had been "hacked," everything lost in a digital violation. Yet he continued to demand your money, offering alternatives like a cheating spouse caught in the act.

Each refusal of your refund requests was another slap in the face, each demand for more money another violation of your trust. His final offer—to place your link on another site for a year instead of the six months you suggested—was like a lover who refuses to compromise, taking what he wants without regard for your pleasure.

In the end, you walked away $300 poorer but wiser, your black list growing with each site he mentioned. It's a cautionary tale of digital seduction where the only thing that got truly penetrated was your wallet.

Sometimes the hottest encounters leave you feeling used and unsatisfied, but isn't that the risk we take when we play with fire?

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fuzebox

The line between "scammer" and "broke loser" in adult is very blurry.

adultinnovation

This is literally probably the worst industry that ever existed. I can't think of any other industry that gave away for free what it was trying to sell for money

JesseQuinn

posted on May 9th: boobsrealm got erased – boobsrealm.com

currently has no SSL and all the sidebar links go to the web.archive.org versions, not the actual sites themselves

so yeah, like CS wrote he got fucked, decided it was 'too much work to rebuild' and was tryna grab a few extra $100 as an exit gift to himself on the way out. a shame, but good on you for not paying all up front and knowing when to cut your losses. what a creep :/

hadn't heard that name in forever, recall eons ago I did a link exchange with them back when they had a link list for the small tata's chicas. that was way back before fire was invented


indeed...

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The adult industry has facilitated honing the wit of some very witty gentlemen. So we've got that going for us.

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Sorry you got burned, man . . . PS: Boobsrealm is a good domain name.

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The music industry (streaming), the tv business (streaming), the movie business (streaming, DVD sales, theater tickets...)

OK they charge a minimum fee for vast libraries, killing the creators who created those libraries in the first place by paying them pennies...

But I get your point.

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JesseQuinn

granted CS's was AI which breaks my heart but it's he who did it so he gets a pass


lots of peeps bank still in this biz. don't universalizable something that didn't work for you. like you I've had negative experiences (thankfully very few and far between), unlike you I persevered and manage to still bank beyond that

really though the negative balance works out to about 1k, whereas my wins from people tryna steal have come quite close. three sites/services, overall out 60k in total, got back 59

on a positive tip, I got paid 10k over a deal just cuz I apparently went above and beyond in facilitating the handover. lol, I did that cuz I wanted the project to succeed beyond me. sure I was happy to take the cash but did it absent any promises cuz it was the right thing to do. it meant something to me. hardly bad business, am delighted to work with that dude to this day cuz honorable people rock

is my offline vanilla biz less shady? not really, overall. although payment processing def easier. I run such a niche biz with an actual following though, through what me and my peeps have built not exactly difficult to walk away from contracts that don't suit our values or needs

but if I was just flailing away generic? yeah can be a dirty biz. nutting to do with me

are potential probs in both easier to avoid due to experience? of course. I don't want drama, just want to run my stuff. sound like OP just wants to do the same, and that's exactly what he did. cut his losses and posted here to warn others

crazy the truth had to come from the site owner's twit account but that's foolishness that could happen in any biz I think


seems like he was dealing with the real dude :/

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CaptainHowdy

The she-devil is on the details . . .

CaptainHowdy

Such a rookie mistake . . . I dig mysticism so don't mind slowly becoming illiterate btw.

Mahadeva

It definitely seems like he was dealing with the guy who hacked the site.

DarrenC

Nope.

I first contacted him via the email on his contact page: ravenazrael[at]gmail.com

He also has a GFY acc "ravenazrael" with ties to Boobsrealm.com

What was indeed a bit fishy is he never replied using ravenazrael[at]gmail.com instead used boobsrealma[at]gmail.com and we proceeded to communicate via that.

If I we're indeed dealing with a "hacker", he would have also hacked his gmail. Thats a highly sophisticated hacker no?

BTW, thanks everyone for the support. We live we learn..

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unfortunately boobsrealm got caught in the chpnael/whm attack from last week, which affected over 70 M websites. Many of them were erased. The servers were wiped out including the backups.…

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The whole problem could have been resolved sooner but I kept seeing the phrase, "so I sent him more money".

Several times you got screwed and turned a min investment into a farce. Is he a scammer - sure he is. But I hate to say it - you come across as a sucker. There were so many red flags in all this but now rather than 100 or so now we're talking much more you got taken for.

Take warning on who is the scammer - and those like him.

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Why does that break your heart? He thought of something funny and made it so. How is technology facilitating amplifying his wit anything but a good thing?

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JesseQuinn

I guess it's summed up in the word 'facilitating'. CS is super witty (he's British, think it's the law over there), I just draw a distinction between writing something vs writing a prompt

personal thing, no shade on CS which I hope I made clear


did a search and the one I had was jc[at]boobsrealm.com, no gmails. had a few twitter exchanges with him as well under his handle ravenazrael so def the same person though

looking back at those messages he was such a nice dude back then. sucks all this happened and again sorry you got fucked over. onwards and upwards, right?

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No, no problem at all - If anything, you're kinda overthinking it.

I simply struggled my way through the OP and wondered why the chap had not run it through an AI to summarise and increase ease of readability. I decided to do it on his behalf, then had the idea to ask for it to be 'Sexed Up' as it was for an adult board...

I posted it and went about my day

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omg!!!

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