These days kids are staying at home way past 18 , so would you allow it
The cam modelling would provide enough cash for her to get a place of her own.
If your cherished daughter wanted to sit around and jam objects inside herself all day on MFC how could you call yourself a loving parent and hold this against her?
The cam modelling would provide enough cash for her to get a place of her own.
If your cherished daughter wanted to sit around and jam objects inside herself all day on MFC how could you call yourself a loving parent and hold this against her?
When you have kids it's your job to take care of them and try to get them ready for life. The main thing to remember as a parent is that it's their life, not yours.
I wouldn't disallow it (there's that hypocrisy thing again)...but I'd do everything I could to dissuade her and encourage other options.
The best way to dissuade them is to show them how much more money there is from the business owner side vs. the talent side. Turn your business into a family business.
The best way to dissuade them is to show them how much more money there is from the business owner side vs. the talent side. Turn your business into a family business.
+1
altho the talent side can make $, there typically isn't longevity in working as talent
Reverse logic: I know a cam girl who put her mom in cam. The mom ended up making more money than the daughter. Would you put your mom in cam?
My mom can do whatever the fuck she wants. One day she started telling me about this tantra sex session she had with her boyfriend and I went: STOP. TMI!
I didn't notice any hypocrisy reading the reactions ....
As I am probably one of the more qualified to answer this one for 1) being a woman 2) being a cam whore (amongst the many other stuff I do: yes Mark some of us actually have an education and have other interests and businesses) 3) being pregnant 8.5 months with identical twin girls ( Yes you guessed right: 100's of (MFC) requests for privates with my twin girls when they turn 18 .... pervs never change )
Would I forbid my girls to work in the cam industry? Well with 18 the girls would be able to decide what they want to do for themselves wouldn't they?
And no I would not forbid them to do this kind of work... as I do the work with great pleasure myself most of the time ..and that without 'ramming toys up my butt ' all day on MFC......
Would I react in the same way when they would like to start working as hookers? No I wouldn't , the diference between being on cam and actual physical contact with all risks involved would at least bring me so far as to advice them not to do that ..... and I hope I will raise them in such a way that they can see the dangers and risks involved...
Some of us made the choice to to work on cam and when you are one of the lucky few that make a very healthy income on cam it is a pretty damn good job with a lot of freedom ..... For those less fortunate (the great majority) it is very hard work with lots of hours for a few $$ per hour and a lot of verbal abuse by freeloaders and unpleasant pervs....
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I'd say if she were strong and secure enough in her own sexuality, then why not. I'd hope that she would do it not because she has to, but because its something that she want's to do. But of course, that's spoken by someone who has a son so take what I say with a grain of salt.
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I didn't notice any hypocrisy reading the reactions ....
As I am probably one of the more qualified to answer this one for 1) being a woman 2) being a cam whore (amongst the many other stuff I do: yes Mark some of us actually have an education and have other interests and businesses) 3) being pregnant 8.5 months with identical twin girls ( Yes you guessed right: 100's of (MFC) requests for privates with my twin girls when they turn 18 .... pervs never change )
Would I forbid my girls to work in the cam industry? Well with 18 the girls would be able to decide what they want to do for themselves wouldn't they?
And no I would not forbid them to do this kind of work... as I do the work with great pleasure myself most of the time ..and that without 'ramming toys up my butt ' all day on MFC......
Would I react in the same way when they would like to start working as hookers? No I wouldn't , the diference between being on cam and actual physical contact with all risks involved would at least bring me so far as to advice them not to do that ..... and I hope I will raise them in such a way that they can see the dangers and risks involved...
Some of us made the choice to to work on cam and when you are one of the lucky few that make a very healthy income on cam it is a pretty damn good job with a lot of freedom ..... For those less fortunate (the great majority) it is very hard work with lots of hours for a few $$ per hour and a lot of verbal abuse by freeloaders and unpleasant pervs....
Very well stated,
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I didn't notice any hypocrisy reading the reactions ....
As I am probably one of the more qualified to answer this one for 1) being a woman 2) being a cam whore (amongst the many other stuff I do: yes Mark some of us actually have an education and have other interests and businesses) 3) being pregnant 8.5 months with identical twin girls ( Yes you guessed right: 100's of (MFC) requests for privates with my twin girls when they turn 18 .... pervs never change )
Would I forbid my girls to work in the cam industry? Well with 18 the girls would be able to decide what they want to do for themselves wouldn't they?
And no I would not forbid them to do this kind of work... as I do the work with great pleasure myself most of the time ..and that without 'ramming toys up my butt ' all day on MFC......
Would I react in the same way when they would like to start working as hookers? No I wouldn't , the diference between being on cam and actual physical contact with all risks involved would at least bring me so far as to advice them not to do that ..... and I hope I will raise them in such a way that they can see the dangers and risks involved...
Some of us made the choice to to work on cam and when you are one of the lucky few that make a very healthy income on cam it is a pretty damn good job with a lot of freedom ..... For those less fortunate (the great majority) it is very hard work with lots of hours for a few $$ per hour and a lot of verbal abuse by freeloaders and unpleasant pervs....
I never said that the girls (or boys for that matter) aren't educated... but really, do you represent the majority or the 0.00000001%?
I'd say if she were strong and secure enough in her own sexuality, then why not. I'd hope that she would do it not because she has to, but because its something that she want's to do. But of course, that's spoken by someone who has a son so take what I say with a grain of salt.
That's how I feel. The reality is there are plenty of girls that embrace their sexuality and do it because it is fun and pays. I wouldn't mind in that instance. If she were doing it just to make ends meet, I'd encourage her to try something else but it is her life.
As someone else said, I'd be against and concerned about prostitution. Online is about virtual fantasy and fun... Offline opens someone up to a lot more risks.
I didn't notice any hypocrisy reading the reactions ....
As I am probably one of the more qualified to answer this one for 1) being a woman 2) being a cam whore (amongst the many other stuff I do: yes Mark some of us actually have an education and have other interests and businesses) 3) being pregnant 8.5 months with identical twin girls ( Yes you guessed right: 100's of (MFC) requests for privates with my twin girls when they turn 18 .... pervs never change )
Would I forbid my girls to work in the cam industry? Well with 18 the girls would be able to decide what they want to do for themselves wouldn't they?
And no I would not forbid them to do this kind of work... as I do the work with great pleasure myself most of the time ..and that without 'ramming toys up my butt ' all day on MFC......
Some of us made the choice to to work on cam and when you are one of the lucky few that make a very healthy income on cam it is a pretty damn good job with a lot of freedom ..... For those less fortunate (the great majority) it is very hard work with lots of hours for a few $$ per hour and a lot of verbal abuse by freeloaders and unpleasant pervs....
^^^^really well stated
anyone who works in this field realizes that there isn't one monolithic cam girl 'experience' so for me my main concern would be why my daughter chose to get into this line of work. It can be the best job in the world for those who earn well and enjoy the freedom that comes with the nature of the work, but it can be a horrible job for those who dislike the work, struggle to earn and have few options. In that sense those who work within the field mirror larger society. Not everyone is born into equal circumstances, and some people have a wider range of options and resources to draw upon based on factors such as health, access to education and family background (read: $$$$) Often those three factors are entwined. The reasons why individual women (and men) get into camming are largely based on those factors.
For some this work is a choice amongst many options, a way to bump a middle-class income available in other forms of work into the -upper range. For some this work is the only viable option to put food on the table and keep a roof over their head, a way to keep grinding, absolute poverty at bay. For others camming provides the funding to achieve other goals. None of these groups are less 'moral' or worthy of condemnation than the others
If I had kids (I don't) or planned upon doing so (fuck no) I'd probably want for them what I imagine every parent wants. I'd want my daughter to be in the position to make choices in her life based on what she wants, not what she is forced to do by circumstance. I wouldn't want my daughter to have no choice but to cam, but I wouldn't want her to have to work work in a sweatshop in Bangladesh for 12 cents an hour or be a low-paid food service worker in North America either.
If she wanted to cam I can't imagine having an issue with it, provided it was a choice she entered into understanding both the risks and benefits involved. I'd want her to be safe, healthy, happy. How my hypothetical 18 year old daughter would chose to define that would be up to her.
I am one of the lucky few ...yes..... but I also know the other side very well ......
And that's the very reason that I'd advise against it (to put it mildly).
Especially since my daughter grows up in a place where she can get a doctors degree or any other for free and become anything she wants (if she's able to get the grades to get in of course).
for me my main concern would be why my daughter chose to get into this line of work.
For money: I can tell 95% of the cam girls you can find in the major cam sites, live in cities where good jobs bring about $200 per month, and needs to go in work place every day and be there slave of boss/customers for 8+ hours every day. That would be not-capital cities of romania, moldova, ukraine, russia, philippines, colombia, the 95% of cam girls population.
For something else than money: most of US,CA,AU,GB,DE,FR girls. Matter "hey I am so shocking cool, have so many piercings in strange places AND I am a cam whore!".
As a mom of a 26 and a 21 yr old, I hope that they make the right decisions for themselves - I'd like to think that I've educated them enough to know that whatever you put on the internet is forever.
However, that being said, ultimately they are adults so I cannot stop them.
And that's the very reason that I'd advise against it (to put it mildly).
Especially since my daughter grows up in a place where she can get a doctors degree or any other for free and become anything she wants (if she's able to get the grades to get in of course).
totally agree and understand ...... I bet very few parents would be jumping for joy at the idea of a daughter or son in the adult industry .... I was and am lucky with the kind of money I make and that is only for the lucky 2-4% ... Would I like to see my girls going into cam and work for $5-7 per hour like so many do (my deepest respect for them) ... of course not but in the end it is their choice ... My girls becoming doctors ...hmmm or maybe becoming a banker like their dad ...
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