Company Owners: Do You Have Regular Gatherings, Dinners, etc. with your Employers? - GoFuckYourself.com

MediaGuy · 11-30-2012, 12:10 PM

We find it important to have more than just online connections with customers and staff, employees and contractors, etc... so we regularly have gatherings and parties involving only just those peeps, no un-involved folk if you know what I mean.

It keeps our network and relations "real" and so on, better than if we always and only transacted on a business level...

How about you guys? Do you do it? Do you know why, or is it just "tradition" and so on?

:D

Sam - Mr. Skin · 11-30-2012, 12:18 PM

For employees we have a company wide lunch or cookout at the office every other week and probably about 10 out of office cocktail hours or parties throughout the year to celebrate milestones, major project launches and other events.

For partners and other companies that we work with we host one major party every summer on our anniversary to celebrate and show appreciation for our "family" and friends.

I can't say that we get a whole of face time with our customers since in our case they are online surfers. That might be a little scary.

Harmon · 11-30-2012, 12:18 PM

It's extremely important that you keep a "hand on" relationship with those you are involved in business with. Not just paper mail like invoices. You are doing it right. It puts that personal touch.

People tend to gravitate towards people that appreciate them. The smallest things you do make people happy. And it keeps them coming back.

If I can buy a soda here for a dollar and they guy is a cock, but I buy the one for a dollar twenty five and I sit down, shoot the shit, talk about bitches WITH the guy that sold it to me?... and then guess what?

I'm out of fucking soda? Im loving it for that moment.

Where did the Coke go? "I'll take another..."

Good business...

MaDalton · 11-30-2012, 12:24 PM

i read "hard on" first

LeRoy · 11-30-2012, 12:25 PM

Yes and we have a great time too.

Lunches, Happy Hours, Birthdays , Christmas Holiday and an Annual Team Trip

One year we went on a snow hike in San Jacincto Mtns and This year we went deep sea fishing.

LeeD · 11-30-2012, 12:29 PM

The few times I had a job I really enjoyed and appreciated when we had these kinds of gatherings. However, when I ran my contracting company before, I bought everyone lunch one day at Christmas. We always took an hour lunch everyday off the clock. This one time I decided to buy, everybody had something to gripe about. A few complained wanting the hour to be paid, some complained about the restaurant we ate at. Not one said thank you, so I said the hell with it I'll never do it again.

RevSand · 11-30-2012, 12:30 PM

We have a nice little family vibe at my place that we encourage w/ "family dinners" and other semi-regular low-key activities. I also have ppl coming in this weekend (on time off) to decorate our office tree and hang out.

MediaGuy · 11-30-2012, 12:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Harmon

It's extremely important that you keep a "hand on" relationship with those you are involved in business with. Not just paper mail like invoices. You are doing it right. It puts that personal touch.

People tend to gravitate towards people that appreciate them. The smallest things you do make people happy. And it keeps them coming back.

If I can buy a soda here for a dollar and they guy is a cock, but I buy the one for a dollar twenty five and I sit down, shoot the shit, talk about bitches WITH the guy that sold it to me?... and then guess what?

I'm out of fucking soda? Im loving it for that moment.

Where did the Coke go? "I'll take another..."

Good business...

Very true. We take the same approach with webcam girls - using an analogy of mine:

Suppose every day you walk trhough a mall hallway to get to the Metro (subway in Montreal) and you have two competing coffee shops, one on either side.

One shop has great coffee, the other good coffee. The great coffee is actually cheaper than the good coffee because it's a major chain brand, but the counter girl (person) at the more expensive place is pleasant, remembers what you like, and throws in some personal convo while you're paying and waiting for the brew.

The other side, maybe cheaper maybe better, has a dick/cunt at the cash... where you gonna go for that java next time?

KnowwhatImean?

:D

Harmon · 11-30-2012, 12:32 PM

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Originally Posted by MediaGuy

Very true. We take the same approach with webcam girls - using an analogy of mine:

Suppose every day you walk trhough a mall hallway to get to the Metro (subway in Montreal) and you have two competing coffee shops, one on either side.

One shop has great coffee, the other good coffee. The great coffee is actually cheaper than the good coffee because it's a major chain brand, but the counter girl (person) at the more expensive place is pleasant, remembers what you like, and throws in some personal convo while you're paying and waiting for the brew.

The other side, maybe cheaper maybe better, has a dick/cunt at the cash... where you gonna go for that java next time?

KnowwhatImean?

:D

And that's how I met your mother.

I know exactly what you mean.

That attitude shines through.

Due · 11-30-2012, 12:37 PM

Funny to see a thread like this today.
We have one today

We've been doing something a few times per year for the last couple of years.
My goal next year is to have people in our europe office meet people in our US office face to face, thats going to be a bit of a challenge.

Anyone got tips on how to increase productivity between 2 different locations ?

Harmon · 11-30-2012, 12:43 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Due

Funny to see a thread like this today.
We have one today

We've been doing something a few times per year for the last couple of years.
My goal next year is to have people in our europe office meet people in our US office face to face, thats going to be a bit of a challenge.

Anyone got tips on how to increase productivity between 2 different locations ?

Secret Santa with an essay after the fact via email! What do they like? Dislike about their job? Online Roast of you. Exchange contacts, Facebook each other - hold an impromptu group meeting via dual cams, you come into the room in a clown suit and give everybody $20 Amazon gift cards out of appreciation (people like that shit, as cheap as it is - it shows effort)- the possibilities are endless

geedub · 11-30-2012, 12:50 PM

People love to feel important so even if it's something simple it goes a long way.

I get lunch for my guys pretty regularly and usually from places they might deem as too expensive for them.

xNetworx · 11-30-2012, 12:50 PM

Cash bonus for doing a good job > awkward outings on company amex

the Shemp · 11-30-2012, 12:53 PM

i take myself out for lunch at least twice a week ...

_Richard_ · 11-30-2012, 12:55 PM

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Originally Posted by the Shemp

i take myself out for lunch at least twice a week ...

im about to do that now!

seeme · 11-30-2012, 01:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by the Shemp

i take myself out for lunch at least twice a week ...

ftw

MediaGuy · 11-30-2012, 01:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Due

Funny to see a thread like this today.
We have one today

We've been doing something a few times per year for the last couple of years.
My goal next year is to have people in our europe office meet people in our US office face to face, thats going to be a bit of a challenge.

Anyone got tips on how to increase productivity between 2 different locations ?

Use our miricam networking video feature - this is a demo but perfectly usable, you just can't brand it - http://www.2much.net/miricam/index.php

You'll have to work at timezones for the appointment though :P

:D

AJHall · 11-30-2012, 02:00 PM

We don't do it as much as we should but with customers and especially with the rest of the Elevated X guys we always have a great time when we do get together. Doing more of this is a good New Year's resolution for me in 2013!

MediaGuy · 12-01-2012, 11:50 AM

Hey thanks guys - post here/let me know if I can quote some of this for an article, and give me the URL you want me to promote....

Danke!

:D

epitome · 12-01-2012, 11:53 AM

A week long trip with employees and significant others after the Christmas holiday.

Regular events throughout the year.

Morale is high and everybody is friends.

epitome · 12-01-2012, 11:55 AM

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Originally Posted by CamBoss

Cash bonus for doing a good job > awkward outings on company amex

Not everywhere. Many companies yes, but if you have the right vibe going on, then no.

epitome · 12-01-2012, 12:01 PM

A good example of trips is HARPO.

I have a friend that works there and every year Oprah takes all 400ish employees and a guest on a 7 to 10 day luxury vacation where no expense is spared.

She charters two huge jets for everyone. Most recent one was a Mediterranean cruise where she rented a cruise ship. Another was a trip to Hawaii.

It is the thing employees look forward to most each year. She also attends so it's a chance for those that don't interact with her daily to get some quality time with the boss.

MediaGuy · 12-01-2012, 01:29 PM

For people we work directly with (albeit online) we have an annual Chrismas dinner, along with a few favored clients, at some nice Montreal restaurant, with limo service, free champagne, the works....

There's no immediate, discernable ROI on that kind of thing, all I can say that it's good to press the flesh as it were and talk outside the "biz box" every now and then....

:D

kane · 12-01-2012, 04:21 PM

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Originally Posted by LeeD

The few times I had a job I really enjoyed and appreciated when we had these kinds of gatherings. However, when I ran my contracting company before, I bought everyone lunch one day at Christmas. We always took an hour lunch everyday off the clock. This one time I decided to buy, everybody had something to gripe about. A few complained wanting the hour to be paid, some complained about the restaurant we ate at. Not one said thank you, so I said the hell with it I'll never do it again.

It never ceases to amaze me how people with bitch about free stuff.

I used to work for a large tech company. Once per quarter they had a big meeting to talk about the company/earnings etc. It lasted about an hour and when you went into the meeting room they had chips, sandwiches and soda to drink. This meeting didn't take place during lunchtime so you still got your lunch break and every time it seemed like a lot of the people bitched that they didn't have the right kind of soda (they also had water) or the right kind of sandwich or something. It just amazed me. They could have done nothing.

11-30-2012, 12:10 PM	#1
MediaGuy Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Montrealquebecanada Posts: 5,500	Company Owners: Do You Have Regular Gatherings, Dinners, etc. with your Employers? We find it important to have more than just online connections with customers and staff, employees and contractors, etc... so we regularly have gatherings and parties involving only just those peeps, no un-involved folk if you know what I mean. It keeps our network and relations "real" and so on, better than if we always and only transacted on a business level... How about you guys? Do you do it? Do you know why, or is it just "tradition" and so on? :D __________________ YOU Are Industry News! Press Releases: pr[at]payoutmag.com Facebook: Payout Magazine! Facebook: MIKEB! ICQ: 248843947 Skype: Mediaguy1

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Harmon ( ͡ʘ╭͜ʖ╮͡ʘ) Industry Role: Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 20,010	It's extremely important that you keep a "hand on" relationship with those you are involved in business with. Not just paper mail like invoices. You are doing it right. It puts that personal touch. People tend to gravitate towards people that appreciate them. The smallest things you do make people happy. And it keeps them coming back. If I can buy a soda here for a dollar and they guy is a cock, but I buy the one for a dollar twenty five and I sit down, shoot the shit, talk about bitches WITH the guy that sold it to me?... and then guess what? I'm out of fucking soda? Im loving it for that moment. Where did the Coke go? "I'll take another..." Good business... __________________ [email protected] Last edited by Harmon; 11-30-2012 at 12:19 PM..

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LeRoy Porn Pusher Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: It's a dry heat Posts: 13,341	Yes and we have a great time too. Lunches, Happy Hours, Birthdays , Christmas Holiday and an Annual Team Trip One year we went on a snow hike in San Jacincto Mtns and This year we went deep sea fishing. __________________ JAPANESE CAMS AND CONTENT SITES Teams - leroy.rowland2 Telegram - @lroddd

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RevSand Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: Porn Valley Posts: 8,151	We have a nice little family vibe at my place that we encourage w/ "family dinners" and other semi-regular low-key activities. I also have ppl coming in this weekend (on time off) to decorate our office tree and hang out. __________________ BadBitchesGoodWeed Hire me for all your video shooting needs!! Skype = RevSandx

11-30-2012, 12:18 PM	#2
Sam - Mr. Skin Registered User Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2010 Posts: 1,688	For employees we have a company wide lunch or cookout at the office every other week and probably about 10 out of office cocktail hours or parties throughout the year to celebrate milestones, major project launches and other events. For partners and other companies that we work with we host one major party every summer on our anniversary to celebrate and show appreciation for our "family" and friends. I can't say that we get a whole of face time with our customers since in our case they are online surfers. That might be a little scary.

11-30-2012, 12:29 PM	#6
LeeD Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: May 2012 Posts: 142	The few times I had a job I really enjoyed and appreciated when we had these kinds of gatherings. However, when I ran my contracting company before, I bought everyone lunch one day at Christmas. We always took an hour lunch everyday off the clock. This one time I decided to buy, everybody had something to gripe about. A few complained wanting the hour to be paid, some complained about the restaurant we ate at. Not one said thank you, so I said the hell with it I'll never do it again.

11-30-2012, 12:37 PM	#10
Due Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Mar 2001 Location: Murrieta, CA Posts: 3,620	Funny to see a thread like this today. We have one today We've been doing something a few times per year for the last couple of years. My goal next year is to have people in our europe office meet people in our US office face to face, thats going to be a bit of a challenge. Anyone got tips on how to increase productivity between 2 different locations ? __________________ I buy plugs Skype: Due_Global /Due

11-30-2012, 12:50 PM	#12
geedub Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: concrete jungle Posts: 3,489	People love to feel important so even if it's something simple it goes a long way. I get lunch for my guys pretty regularly and usually from places they might deem as too expensive for them. __________________ Reliable web host that actually cares, tell em geedub sent ya. Vacares

11-30-2012, 12:50 PM	#13
xNetworx So Fucking What Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Whore Island Posts: 14,445	Cash bonus for doing a good job > awkward outings on company amex

11-30-2012, 12:53 PM	#14
the Shemp congrats to the winners Industry Role: Join Date: Nov 2001 Location: Echo Beach Posts: 10,891	i take myself out for lunch at least twice a week ... __________________ i use Vacares...so should you Submit your picture galleries to my site...Outlaw TGP

11-30-2012, 02:00 PM	#18
AJHall Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: Southern California Posts: 1,306	We don't do it as much as we should but with customers and especially with the rest of the Elevated X guys we always have a great time when we do get together. Doing more of this is a good New Year's resolution for me in 2013! __________________ Owner, Elevated X - The 4 Time Award Winning Adult CMS Software Company Used by More Than 2000 Adult Sites.

12-01-2012, 11:50 AM	#19
MediaGuy Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Montrealquebecanada Posts: 5,500	Hey thanks guys - post here/let me know if I can quote some of this for an article, and give me the URL you want me to promote.... Danke! :D __________________ YOU Are Industry News! Press Releases: pr[at]payoutmag.com Facebook: Payout Magazine! Facebook: MIKEB! ICQ: 248843947 Skype: Mediaguy1

12-01-2012, 11:53 AM	#20
epitome So Fucking Lame Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: St. Petersburg, FL Posts: 12,156	A week long trip with employees and significant others after the Christmas holiday. Regular events throughout the year. Morale is high and everybody is friends.

12-01-2012, 12:01 PM	#22
epitome So Fucking Lame Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: St. Petersburg, FL Posts: 12,156	A good example of trips is HARPO. I have a friend that works there and every year Oprah takes all 400ish employees and a guest on a 7 to 10 day luxury vacation where no expense is spared. She charters two huge jets for everyone. Most recent one was a Mediterranean cruise where she rented a cruise ship. Another was a trip to Hawaii. It is the thing employees look forward to most each year. She also attends so it's a chance for those that don't interact with her daily to get some quality time with the boss.

12-01-2012, 01:29 PM	#23
MediaGuy Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Montrealquebecanada Posts: 5,500	For people we work directly with (albeit online) we have an annual Chrismas dinner, along with a few favored clients, at some nice Montreal restaurant, with limo service, free champagne, the works.... There's no immediate, discernable ROI on that kind of thing, all I can say that it's good to press the flesh as it were and talk outside the "biz box" every now and then.... :D __________________ YOU Are Industry News! Press Releases: pr[at]payoutmag.com Facebook: Payout Magazine! Facebook: MIKEB! ICQ: 248843947 Skype: Mediaguy1