Shit, you all sound like a bunch of crybaby highschool boys that just got played by their first ho."Oooo,boo-hoo! I'd make a big scene and throw her shit out on the lawn and scream"SLUT" from the fuckin' rooftop..." WHERE ARE THE PIMPS? Turn this shit to you're advantage! Play it like a playa'! All I see is content. And lots of it.:cool-as-a :

Son of a bitch. Man, I'm really sorry for you and wish the best. I wouldn't wish this on almost anyone! Damn them. Be kind to yourself and move on.

Brad

what no pics? I scrolled 2 pages and not one fucking pic....

These days, it's not easy to find a Good Woman in the Sea of Bad Girls.

Keep your chin up bro. What she did is seriously fucked. She knows it to. You shouldn't even consider getting back with her, because it will never go away.

Maybe a solution, which would also help the rest of the "Good" fellas out there (Take one for the team, and coin the term "Dead Beat Moms"), would be this...

Keep your daughter.
File for full custody.
File for child support.
Fuck her world up.

Now to take care of your xbro, get him where it hurts. You should know him well enough to know the 1 thing that he cares about. Fuck that shit up man. Whatever it is, make sure he doesn't have anything left of it, but, a tormenting memory, that will echo his bad judgement for the rest of his life.

:2 cents: :2 cents: :2 cents:

That sucks buddy, good luck.

And then I'm through with it, there's nothing else to do with it
Pass it to the homie, now you hit it
Cause she ain't nuthin but a bitch to me
And y'all know, that bitches ain't shit to me

Sorry to hear about your problem. Now is the time to act like a mature adult if you want to have custody. Document everything. How long until she calls and asks about her kid? If it's like a month you may be able to get her for abandonment. If she does call you'll have to talk to her like an adult. No accusations and yelling, just get the childs interests taken care of. There is no better revenge than living well. Remember that. When you and your daughter are living high on the hog with your porn money she'll still be a ho moving from one loser to another.

She found a better man.


Lifes a bitch then ya marry one then ya die.

get a lawyer
dont know the laws in quebec
but if a girl lives with you for several years and then splits
she can come crying for 1/2 of everything you own/make)

dont get violent.. never ends up to nothing

get legal advice as to what you should do about your child

times like this make me happy because i am married now
NO MORE BULLSHITT:)

i've been in your shoes and it aint pretty
good luck!

Erick G

That really sucks No Carrier, I really hope that everything works out ok and you get to keep your daughter with you. Keep calm around your ex, hard as that might be, so that just in case the worse happens and she gets your child she won't try to make it harder for you to see her.

just make sure you do what is best for you and your child.. don't forget about the kid they are the most important thing right now.if she is to young to understand then you should explain it as soon as possible. But don't use your child to get back at her though cause it be very hard on her and you.. sorry to her dude be strong..

Turn to the dark side Luke

Well teh 50/50 split after so much time is a Urban legend in Canada, someone from Nova-Scotia went to supreme court for that and the court actually dropped the case because they never found that law in the books, except for somewhere in the Northen Terrotory (damn my spelling sucks). So If your not Married you don't have to give 50% of your stuff to her, check with around, it was on the news around xmas time.

I don't see what the big deal is. Sit down with her and talk about the idea of having an open relationship. Lots of people have them. You might just wind up in a swinging relationship with the ability to fuck as many women as you want. Bonus, your daughter gets to keep mommy.

Sorry, but nothing is less true. Marriage never stopped anybody from cheating when they want to:2 cents:

Good luck to you too.

Satan had this to say about you're predictament:

Damn, with friends like that, who needs enemies? Forget that stupid bitch, you'll have a trillion more worthless girls in your life before you find the special one that will only kind of hate you.

It's the relationship with your friend you should be worried about. There's an unspoken rule between decent guys that you wait until your friend has a new girl before you go sniffing at his used goods. This guy's shallowness and disloyalty, while endearing to me, isn't doing you a damn bit of good.

Axe them both.

Regards
NastyJack

You've got a kid. I don't care how big a whore your girlfriend looks like over this, you can't just walk away. Maybe there's no way to salvage, but anyone who says not to try should never be a parent or allowed near children.

Why will he lose in the end if it goes to court??
I know a few single father who have won custody battles.

I won't get into all the revenge crap. I will say thay be very careful about giving her another chance. Character is pretty much a constant. People can alter their behavior one way or another but their character at this point (mid 20s I am guessing) is pretty much set in stone.

At least she has exposed her self for what she is early enough on in your marriage. IMHO, take your 3 year old and make a fresh start.

As for your friend, there is no hole deep enough.

The upside is now you have a good story that should help you get chicks. Women will want to prove to you that they are not all like that.

-TNVEric.

100! I always wanted to do that!

Way to put a silver lining around that dark cloud. It is actually a pretty good idea!

Warden

Violence is not the answer. Do you want to have restricted access to see your daughter? You would havea social worker watching your every move when you are with her. Fuck that. You should play the cool, calm and innocent roll.

Failing that pay me $500 and give me a plane ticket and I will cut his bollocks off with a pair of rusty bolt cutters....

Go out and nail as many women as possible, then decide.

I tried that when it happened to me...but a fat arse, ugly bastard English man tends to have problems getting nailed at all, let alone in the plural...

A good flick to help you with this is "UNFAITHFUL" richard gere check it out, :glugglug :helpme :BangBang: :feels-hot

Here if you want to beat them up, enjoy this link a few dozen times man.


Sorry to hear that your homie did you that way, that is seriously fucked up that he rolled that way on you.

They could have at least been straight with you and gave you the deal face to face instead of being the way they did it.

I'd still have to issue a beatdown to someone if this happened and I think that most here really would if it happened to them.

http://www.hoslap.net/

Okay...

My advice is probably going to be a little different than what you're used to. I ask you this:

Do you love her?

If the answer is 'yes' then I recommend that you forgive her (which will take a lot of time and work).

Let me also ask you:

If you had a chance and were horny enough, would you cheat on her? If the answer is 'no' you're most likely lying. If the answer is 'yes' then you need to consider a few things. Mainly, IF you cheated on her, would that mean you didn't love her? Not at all.

Just because she fucked your friend does not mean she doesn't love you. She's human. It's human nature to want to sleep around. Most people fight that urge, but that doesn't mean it doesn't exist.

What I'd do (I've been through this) is to let her see how much you're hurting. Don't hide it from her. But try not to let the wounded ego hurt her either, meaning: Don't start yelling at her and being an ass to her in order to protect your ego. You'll be more effective if you just let her see you cry and go through the grieving process. If she loves you she'll feel like shit when she witnesses your grieving first hand. So many people hide it and just display anger. That does no good for anyone. It actually makes it easier on the cheater if you have a "Go Fuck Yourself" attitude. Because if she loves you and can see for herself how much she tore you up she'll truly regret what she did. Let her see you cry like a baby, right in front of her. Don't push her away if she tries to hug you and hold you while you cry. Let her do it.

I'm telling you, bro, if you love her and she loves you, your relationship will be better because of this. Seriously.

Call me... I know how you feel:

888-235-0962 toll free.

That movie actually is worth seeing. If you're watching it and paying attention, there are a lot of valuable lessons to be learned from it.

Nair in shampoo bottle

Hey, this is GFY. Stop that shit!

I see that NoCarrier hasn't posted in this thread since he said he was going to go get drunk. He musta really slammed some liquer! Dude we need an update! Has she called yet?

no offense dude but you are way wrong... if you love someone you dont cheat on them... plain and simple... the fact that it was with his best friend just makes matters worse... that goes beyond just being horny and cheating with some random person (which is grounds for dismissal alone)

Oh,jesus.:throwup

The thing that bugs me is that he was gone to get groceries and by the time he came back, they were at it.
How long does it take to get groceries? An hour? Hour and a half at most?
This sets the notion that the instant he left, she called the best friend and had him come over. This wasn't a one-time thing that happened by accident... he just "happened" to drop by and he just "happened" to get me so horny I couldn't wait until you got home.
They've been doing this for a while.
Which establishes a relationship - and taking her back will NOT simply make that relationship go away. Even if she doesn't fuck him again, she'll start to resent everything. She'll be focusing on every negative aspect she can wrap her mind around and build up this fantasy about how being with the best friend was/would be so much better. Hell, she's most likely already been doing that, seeing as she's acted on it.

Get your lawyer to demand a drug test from the court and pray that it comes out dirty. Especially if she says this was a one-time thing; use that to your advantage and say "well then *something* must have impaired your judgement - we want proof that you weren't doing drugs".

Maybe you could talk this over and work it out. No one knows that but you and her - and you won't know until you talk to her and find out what her motivation behind this is. Is she not happy with her whole fucking life? Is she just hitting that stage of 25 or so yrs old where she feels like she didn't live enough before "settling down" and she's really missing out on something? Or does she truly care for this guy - and I mean truly, not just a lustful, he's an escape kind of thing.

Your little girl is what's important. What you tell her is important. Staying sober and in control is important.
Your daughter:
Be somewhat straight with her and tell her that Mommy did something that hurt you very badly, and she has gone to have a "time out". Once you and Mommy aren't mad anymore, you will talk about what to do next... just like when your daughter gets in trouble and you give *her* a time out, then talk to her about it after she's stopped throwing her tantrum.
Put it in terms that SHE can understand. She doesn't need to know the details, she just needs to have a concept of what is going on and why.

Best of luck to you. This is the hardest decision you'll ever make, and no matter what you decide, you'll be convinced it was the wrong one for at least a year.
But things WILL get better. Just stay focused on being Daddy - that has always been far more important than being Boyfriend.

Here's a start: Stop drinking Jack Daniels. You have a 3 year old girl.

Hey everyone,

Thanks for everyone's advice. Don't worry, when I was drinking my little girl was safe and I didn't get drunk, just to shake up the mind a little bit. I really wanted to call Tony Sopranos and ask him to take care of my ex-girlfriend and ex-friend, but I did not. We know that we all have the feeling to kick the shit outta the guy who did it, but she is as responsible as he is about the situation.

Anyway, she returned home yesterday and we had a long conversation.

First of all, I won't go into details, because now I guess I was too stupid to start a thread about my personnal life wich seems it was taken from a bad soap opera :1orglaugh I almost can't believe it myself.

She cried and begged that I forgive her. I told her that right now the priority was our little girl and myself. I'm going to think about this relationship in the coming weeks.. That's it for the update.

Oh, and for the other asshole, I was supposed to invest some cash and help him for his company, 4k to be precise, he should expect to receive a one cent check instead.

I don't think I will have a press conference every day about this, but thanks for all the advice again boys and girls.. Until then.. I will try to keep posting some stupid images and replies, and you can start ignoring me again

:1orglaugh

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Don't let that bitch play you dog.

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