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Old 08-23-2011, 03:15 PM   #51
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Its kinda sad. Obviously she has some severe personality disorder - and its clearly affecting her life, her ability to conduct business and succeed.
definitely sad situation if your entire biz blows up over $350 and you think it is other peoples fault ! even if it was $1k , it should not be a problem .. you should always have a reserve to pay all the bills for at least 6months without any money coming in at all .. otherwise you are just wasting your time with this shit
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Old 08-23-2011, 03:20 PM   #52
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Old 08-23-2011, 03:21 PM   #53
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I hear ya peabody good luck on your new campaign and relaunch looks good, and thanks for taking time out of your busy schedule to try to help.

I hear what you are saying, I am sorry I am not better prepared for business hiccups, and I am sorry I don't have a 9.95 a month hosting deal...I have been paying 90 to 100 bucks a month for hosting.

I am sorry for not having the ability to flip dns switches never thought of that...you sound like you got all bases covered. I wish we had our shit together like you, but not getting paid does have a way of pissing one off and making them come to the boards for some accountability.

If me coming to the boards and telling my side makes me a lunatic, drama queen, psycho, schizo...you know all the names you guys hurl to make yourselves feel better about yoursleves...so be it....

why not take those same insults and hurl them directly at the companies who default, delay, and lie about payouts....wouldn't that make more sense if we all spoke up and called them names?????

I guess in my world it makes sense to call the thief/fraudsster a name but in the world of some of you guys, its better to call the victim names, and pile on top of victim with mob mentality....

silly me for thinking it was still fucked up and cruddy to fuck with peoples money...I suppose its now permissable excuseable, and routine because now the bastards see how we treat one another...there is no unity, or loyalty in adult even when it comes down to being paid.....

its ashame we have got to this point... oh well its her fault she was not paid...shes a crack whore, shes retarded, all she does is bitch about not being paid.....guess what..... we have not been paid.....

if anything at this point my posts and rants have been validated and clearly demonstrate why you have to watch all of these companies holding your money like a hawk
It's not that you don't have valid points at times, Swirlsgirl, it's how you go about MAKING those points that people *myself included) have tried to "help" with. LOL

(Thanks for the well wishes, BTW, I also have them for you.)

So, to sum up: If you're posting the way you do to try and help your OWN business you are obviously not succeeding. If you're posting the way you do to help others ("the Industry") then the reactions you get on here show your efforts are going unappreciated. So: in the end, you must help yourself. Make better decisions about how to run your business would be Priority #1, and I can promise you flaming out publicly - even if you have a point - does little to help anyone.

Hey, I can cause a Shit Storm when I want to, most of us can....

But when it comes to billing, hosting, etc, in the end you either accept their business practices or you do not and find other solutions. Trying to get billing or hosting companies to change thier ways is ultimately pointless.

I do wish you lcuk. If you can't afford even a $100 (monthly) hosting bill, if cash flow is that tight, then i can understand your edginess, I really can. But I would focus on new traffic sources above anything else. THAT will help your cash flow issues more than any new hosting or billing company ever could. Best of luck.
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Old 08-23-2011, 03:27 PM   #54
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It's not that you don't have valid points at times, Swirlsgirl, it's how you go about MAKING those points that people *myself included) have tried to "help" with. LOL

(Thanks for the well wishes, BTW, I also have them for you.)

So, to sum up: If you're posting the way you do to try and help your OWN business you are obviously not succeeding. If you're posting the way you do to help others ("the Industry") then the reactions you get on here show your efforts are going unappreciated. So: in the end, you must help yourself. Make better decisions about how to run your business would be Priority #1, and I can promise you flaming out publicly - even if you have a point - does little to help anyone.

Hey, I can cause a Shit Storm when I want to, most of us can....

But when it comes to billing, hosting, etc, in the end you either accept their business practices or you do not and find other solutions. Trying to get billing or hosting companies to change thier ways is ultimately pointless.

I do wish you lcuk. If you can't afford even a $100 (monthly) hosting bill, if cash flow is that tight, then i can understand your edginess, I really can. But I would focus on new traffic sources above anything else. THAT will help your cash flow issues more than any new hosting or billing company ever could. Best of luck.
Well said.

SwirlsGirl, you really should listen to some of the advice that you're getting here from level headed people like this.

My offer still stands SwirlsGirl. You chose not to reply to my post, so I assume you're either not interested or you think I'm not serious.
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Old 08-23-2011, 03:41 PM   #55
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Old 08-23-2011, 03:46 PM   #56
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they tried to close our account last month and when I show you the run around and they gave us, along with the pure lies...I mean not even white lies....just big lies.... telling me I have no right to have a credit card logo on my site....they threatened to close my account and hold funds last month if we did not remove a mastercard logo
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Mastercard don't allow their logos to be shown on adult sites/join pages, thought everybody knew that
and I'd be more concerned if a processor didn't have a fraud/abuse department.
They wouldn't last long without one.
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Old 08-23-2011, 03:54 PM   #57
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It's not that you don't have valid points at times, Swirlsgirl, it's how you go about MAKING those points that people *myself included) have tried to "help" with. LOL

(Thanks for the well wishes, BTW, I also have them for you.)

So, to sum up: If you're posting the way you do to try and help your OWN business you are obviously not succeeding. If you're posting the way you do to help others ("the Industry") then the reactions you get on here show your efforts are going unappreciated. So: in the end, you must help yourself. Make better decisions about how to run your business would be Priority #1, and I can promise you flaming out publicly - even if you have a point - does little to help anyone.

Hey, I can cause a Shit Storm when I want to, most of us can....

But when it comes to billing, hosting, etc, in the end you either accept their business practices or you do not and find other solutions. Trying to get billing or hosting companies to change thier ways is ultimately pointless.

I do wish you lcuk. If you can't afford even a $100 (monthly) hosting bill, if cash flow is that tight, then i can understand your edginess, I really can. But I would focus on new traffic sources above anything else. THAT will help your cash flow issues more than any new hosting or billing company ever could. Best of luck.
Thank you Peabody, for that I do appreciate your response, yes I am embittered, because there is more to the story our website generate good money, and we are at wits end from having financial company after financial company fuck with us...it takes its toll on you after a while.....

1. March 2011 Ipayment merchant account company walked away with $700.00 in settlements that they were supposed to pay us from 3 days of sales.

Gone, poof, closed account with no reason, disappeared with our money at a time when we really needed it! Then they went in and debited our account for a few hundred dollars, had to open new account, get my bank wire info updated everywhere was a real nightmare trying to resolve that.

2. May 2011 a company named 200charge...chose not to pay us our money, oneday they closed our account with no reason, no chargeback nothing just closed account and locked us out of admin. They said they werenot paying....I came to gfy posted about it and within 24 hours they agreed to pay me my money.

3 July 2011 Zombaio sends us a closure notice telling us we have to take down all mastercard logos from our site, and if I don't they will close account and payout money after invesitgation...we went round and round with them, and while battling them we get our paypal shut down and I have strong reason to suspect they were involved with that.

4. July 2011 paypal account gets shut down, under very suspicious circumstances had no problem with account for 7 years then within 24 hours of zombaio trying to shut us down we get shut down from paypal...but no conspiracy here...just coincidence

5. August 2011 business bank account had over $1000.00 sucked out of it in fraudulent overdraft fees...

so yes it seems as if more of our time is spent battling with financial companies and maybe it has made us crazy and unstable, all we know is we are capable of generating good money, but are having trouble receiving payouts, and then when we receive them we have a shady bank trying to juice us with ridiulous fees...

so so what I put my business out there, I am a human being, and I am not ashamed to admit that we are struglling to get by...so when I have payouts that I count on, and then they don't arrive, it creates a horrible domino effect, because you are trying to play catch up.

I must also say in spite of all the asshole responses there have been a number of you who have contacted me thru email today in an attempt to help resolve this...some of you know me, and some of you don't but it is very comforting to know that there are real individuals who feel my pain, and can sympathize and offer resources and ideas to get thru this...God Bless you guys, we appreciate it and may have to take some of your ideas and implement them at this point.

Sorry for the rant, I am very frustrated, I never enjoy this, My only motive is to make sure I don't get screwed yet again with my money, and I try to warn others so they don't get screwed ...

Again thanks for all the input even if you don't agree with me, thanks for taking the time to show me that you don't
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Old 08-23-2011, 04:11 PM   #58
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its because of your fuckups and late payments that my hosting could not get paid, and now you want to close my account and take my money because of my site not being up....you are the desperate ass clowns, and I will warn others of the shady slimeball back door tactics and trick bags that you have used and you and your team of clowns will not have a defense for the truth
wow ... month to month ... just fucking amazing!
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Old 08-23-2011, 04:13 PM   #59
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Cant afford the hosting bill for a paysite?

Let me know if you are ready to sell your site before the domain expires.
Yes Buy it please, this sites content could make shitpiles of money, don't know what she is doing but you can make it work I was going to ask myself what was going on, but you can do it asap faster than me I will push it hard, keep us posted.
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Old 08-23-2011, 04:43 PM   #60
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Hosting can cost as little as ten-twenty bucks. A smart business person has their shit backed up on several accounts in case a Host fails or has downtime. Then you simply switch the DNS and you're saved.
Yep. For $6 you can have a copy of a site ready yo go. For $24, an entire spare server.waiting for when you need it. (Clonebox pricing).

Swissgirl, I have some really good news for you that can really turn things around for you. It may not sound like good news at first, but it is. I'll explain why.

You have problems with paypal. You have problems with ccbill. You have problems with 2000charge. You have problems with Zombaio. The common thread inall of those is you. It's not me having problems with paypal, ccbill, or any of the others. It's always you. That's great news for you. You see, uf the problem was Zombaio, paypal, ccbill, 2000charge and all if the others you'd be screwed because there would be nothing you could do about it. Because the problems always involve YOU that means toy have something to do with it and you can do something about it when YOU do.something differently. That's great to know.

If everyone was having problems with every single billing company you'd be out of luck, but because it's always you having problems with every company, you can fix iy changing what you do. Sweet!
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Old 08-23-2011, 05:01 PM   #61
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Swirlsgirl, I think that nothing can be added to everything you have been told. Even if you're right, you lost credibility with your manners. Maybe try to resolve things in a professional way next time.


I won't even go into the details of your hosting depending on such a small amount since I understand things might be rough from time to time, but there are ways to do things, and I don't think you're handling your business properly.

The above being said, there were several alarms about Zombaio last weeks, and if you REALLY got a promise you would be paid on 5th August (being REALLY the keyword) and they didn't pay you, then I understand why are you so mad, and yes, they would be the ones at fault.

Now, being that your opposition is a customer representative who has his own reputation pretty tarnished to say the least, and because of the bunch of people who had trouble last weeks, there's a chance you're in the right. But see how things go? You've behaved in a way you became just annoying rather than informative, hence the flaming you're getting. And the guy who lied to everybody about tens (maybe even hundreds) of millions of dollars being stolen gets more support than you do. That's the perception people has of you. Maybe time to change?
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Old 08-23-2011, 05:12 PM   #62
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Sara email me or icq have some good info and options for you but tried the email we chat on andit bounced, not sure if it goes trough your server first, doesnt look like it but its down.

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