Yeah... politically correct... I am in the porn industry. You forget your common sense on the way to work today?

but thanks for posting my pic - that makes me feel like you really care.

I do care.

Well... no... you are actually making assumptions and drawing irreverent conclusions not based on what is being said, unfortunately. The law defines that type of "rape" differently for good reason but not at the expense of someone still being considered victimized. So, yes, we can all agree that it is a form of "rape" but clearly it is not the same as forced sex. Either way, this is not about whether or not that person is a victim, which I clearly agree that he or she is, so stop trying to paint it any differently. This is about society thinking some people "deserve" it.

What is your point anyway?

I admit this is a subject I am very sensitive about so sorry for coming off angry about it but seriously, what are you trying to prove? If I didn't know any better I would've guessed will76 was writing your material.

I'm not interested in discussing this with you.

Note: You should not take this as an invitation to ICQ me with a bunch of bullshit like you did last time.

I'm not a slut,I'm just popular

it's considered rape because it's considered an abuse of power. the threat in this case is not a threat of force or violence, its a threat of loss of priviledge or access or rights.

arguably things like teacher student sex involves a number of other complex issues, such as the ownership of children by their parents, making it a property crime as well. our society has a number of odd moral beliefs that have traditionally been applied to rape, usually in the property crime area. Therefore, rape of a married woman has in he past been considered a property crime against the husband, rape of an unmarried woman a property crime against the father. But except for children, the property crime model of rape is considered obsolete now.

Far-L technically is incorrect legally calling rape a hate crime, most rape is considered a violent crime.

Hate crimes have specific meanings - for example, so-called "corrective rape" does technically fit the definition of a hate crime.

However, arguably many rapes, such as the digital rape of Lara Logan in egypt, fits the model of a hate crime. As do many military rapes, and rape murders.

ADG

Since I had not seen that term before I will paste the definition for others:

Corrective rape is a criminal practice, whereby homosexual individuals, both lesbian women and gay men, are raped by persons of the opposite sex, sometimes under supervision by members of their families or local communities, purportedly as a means of "curing" them of their sexual orientation.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Corrective_rape

Slut is such a hateful word. No one is really a slut. It's just a pathetic, jealous or puritanical person venting their frustration onto someone that is exhibiting normal human behavior.

I may use these terms when I make adult blogs but I realize they are not acceptable in normal speech.

Thank you. I do stand corrected and appreciate your explanation. I just hope the peanut gallery can bow to its wisdom and we can all agree....

rape is bad and no one "deserves" it.

nope. next question, please.

nope. cause comments cannot prevent rape.
next question please.

ok, got it.
you're not even trying to have an actual conversation here.
i can move along.

maybe not to you or i, but in SOMEONE'S eye's she damn sure does.
see where im going here?

scaaaaaary little path you're walkin dude.

well yeah.
that's like smokescreen 101.

that's what you do when deep in your heart, you know you're full of shit.
you twist the subject.

notice how yall aint even talkin bout the same thing anymore?

:thumbsup

the point you're missing is that EVERY female on the planet has "lots of cocaine in their pockets" and every one knows it no matter how they dress.

huh? she is making assumptions, i inquired about it.

riiiiight

my point is your point about 'society thinking they deserve it' is hilarious while you try to explain that statutory rape isn't really rape and those victims 'wanted it' or better known as 'deserving it'

the IRS will still be auditing rape victims.. that still is the big missed point in this huge mess, rather than stupid peoples opinions.

100 Slut walks

gaaaa the master

I call hysteria. Those "sluts" couldn't handle a full-blown rape ...

there was a case here in ottawa where a guy was targetting girls who had been in the downtown market drinking, offering them rides and then sexually assaulting them. again, rape/sexual assault can happen to anyone but this guy was seeking out traits that made the girls 'easy' targets, much like dress can be taken. i don't know why people take such offense to the idea that there are assholes out there who will see short skirts and think, i want me some of that and won't be nice about it. it doesn't mean anyone deserves it, it doesn't mean that you won't get raped wearing 20 pounds of clothes either. it just means there are many reasons why rape/sexual assault happens and sometimes dress can be factor.

What on earth are you talking about?

There you go again. I never said it wasn't rape, just that it was different and that laws are in place to reconcile the grey areas and protect against the victimization accordingly. At this point all you are doing is trying to bully someone that has actually had to deal with rape on a very personal level.

Happy?

Does that fulfill some sort of GFY keyboard warrior tough guy aspiration? Stand in my shoes for a second and you would see what an insensitive and pathetic effort that truly is.

You read something into what I was saying that was never there to begin with, now apparently you are too consumed with appearing somehow so superior that you can't just apologize for your own misunderstanding. Impressive. So much righteousness and so little to show for it in the way of actually being right.

Bully for you, smartypants...

I know I am, but thanks for agreeing :thumbsup

:thumbsup

if he were capable of that, do you REALLY think you'd be having this discussion with him?

The question "What was the victim wearing?" shouldn't even be asked in a rape trial. The ONLY relevant point of fact is did the guy do it or didn't he? If he did it shouldn't matter the reason, put him away for a very long time and move on to catching the next rapist sicko.

This whole blame the victim mentality people have baffles me. That it's coming from a cop, well, that actually doesn't surprise me at all.

I love the notion of slut herding.

Thank you....well put.

The person I have been talking to simply says 'mid june'. Which made me think that it might be around the same time as your show and I could totally see getting industry 'sluts' out there. Plus, the last day of the show is the first day of Pride.

Okay..you do get that those were general 'he and she's' right? Yes, if somebody is raped it is the fault of the person that did the raping and not her clothing. I am not sure what was so confusing about that statement for you :)

*standing ovation*

I don't see why either, and it doesn't have ANYTHING to do with blame. ALL fault falls upon the rapist OBVIOUSLY.

One reason I can see for ignoring this is that it negates a need for a "slut walk", and these cock teases need something to do.

it's not confusing at all. What i am confused about is why there is now global protests about something that is not only stupid, but slightly common sense.

this is all happening in the face of cuts to abortion funding and some pretty barbaric laws regarding rape reporting from the US

that has no mention

yes you did say that it wasn't rape, in way of describing rape as crime that only can be 'violent or brutal' or that statutory rape was something the victims 'wanted anyway'

obviously my defending a large portion of rape victims is unsettling for you, and i apologize if my audacity of calling your double standards out was upsetting

as you can see, again, i have not called you a 'lone ranger on a booger patrol' or attempted to use personal past situations to try and strike you emotionally. You have.

good day.

do you have something to say to me that is actually applicable to the conversation?

Ok, can you feel like you got the last word in now and move on? You are free to think whatever you want.

You really done gone an' a schooled me now. I will forever tremble at the sheer geniusness of your immaculate perceptions and absolute authority of standards and measures. You sir are the most worthy of the astuteness of your own all knowingness. Feel vastly secure that no one knows more about less and less about more than ye.