I am considering artificial insemination...any thoughts?
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Why do that when there are so many willing "active" donors to help out..Originally posted by kaylacam
I am considering artificial insemination...any thoughts?
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You have to post more details than that to get our thoughts.Comment
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Don't you have a significant other?Comment
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I have a bf...but things are FAR from stable with us...plus, he is not ready for a baby, he is pretty much one himself! He is younger than I am...27...I am in my 30's.Originally posted by turbo
Don't you have a significant other?Comment
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Here is my thing:
Men flake ANYWAYS...I would rather know there will be no one there to help out and be spared the clumbsy attempts of an unwilling father to try to 'help' (when convenient for the father) and be spared any court-ordered visitation and such.
I am a fairly strong woman and I think I could do this on my ownComment
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Originally posted by kaylacam
I have a bf...but things are FAR from stable with us...plus, he is not ready for a baby, he is pretty much one himself! He is younger than I am...27...I am in my 30's.
To what address should I send the "sample"
Last edited by wethoney; 02-18-2003, 01:56 PM.Comment
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If you aren't able to have a stable relationship with an adult, you shouldn't bring another child into the world.
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i agree with you Gothweb 100%Originally posted by gothweb
If you aren't able to have a stable relationship with an adult, you shouldn't bring another child into the world.Comment
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/me signs up for donation.Im fuckin retired
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Originally posted by gothweb
If you aren't able to have a stable relationship with an adult, you shouldn't bring another child into the world.
Beat me to the punch!
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I don't mean to be harsh. But having a child isn't about you... It is about the person you are going to have to create, and take care of. It doesn't sound like you are in a stable enough place to take on that responsibility.
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Are you thinking about bringing a baby into this world because you want someone to love you unconditionally? Not trying to offend you but what in life are you missing? And why aren't you willing to wait until you find the right guy for you?
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No, I think it is because I have miscarried and not gotten over it, to be quite honest.Originally posted by DrinkingHard
Are you thinking about bringing a baby into this world because you want someone to love you unconditionally? Not trying to offend you but what in life are you missing? And why aren't you willing to wait until you find the right guy for you?
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Gothweb is making me rethink...Comment
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Amen.Originally posted by gothweb
If you aren't able to have a stable relationship with an adult, you shouldn't bring another child into the world.Comment
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I would have too agreeOriginally posted by gothweb
If you aren't able to have a stable relationship with an adult, you shouldn't bring another child into the world.Comment
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Quite frankly I think that some children would be much better off with only one parent from the start.
With so many marriages ending in divorce I don't really see the absolute necessity of having two parents, especially if they are going to use the child(ren) as a pawn... which happens way too often.
The non-custodial parent often does very little other than pay child support, this I've seen in so many situations I cannot even count. Of course alot of non-custodial parents don't pay child support unless the courts force them to do so.
I'm not specifically talking about men here either, I have seen a few women do the same sort of things and it is just as ugly as when a man does it.
And saying that someone should wait to find the right man, well thats just nonsense to me.
If Kayla really wants a child for the right reasons then I say go for it.
Of course she should also be prepared to do 24/7 duty all by herself for years and to shoulder the entire financial burden on her own, both of which are not easy and not something you can get out of if you get bored or tired or just don't feel like doing it. There is no one to relieve you, no one to talk about that first step, first word, or first arrest other than friends or other family members that won't feel exactly the same way about it that she does...Comment
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kayla imsorry about the miscarriage. i know my mom miscarried about 5 or 6 yrears before she had my brother and i know how she felt. .Comment
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bah artificial insemination!
go to Clonaid!
only way to do it!
who is the only person u want to take care of!?
YOU!
let these people help!Comment
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