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  • iBanker
    Confirmed User
    • Dec 2004
    • 2758

    #1

    HELP! Need some advice here.

    Alright here is the problem. My girlfriend wants to tag along to Vegas to the show, wants to hang out by the pool, drink, gamble, dance...that sort of thing.

    I never have, never would cheat, that is not the issue why I wouldn't bring her. But in reality I do the same thing for this company I am working with now, that I have done for the last 19 companies I have taken public.

    We have a very healthy relationship, 7 months (I've known her for almost 2 years though), she rocks, knows I'm an investment banker/financer officer, shes 24, just perfect in every way, and thinks im the best think since chocolate chips.

    I am concerned that she will have a little shell shock from what these shows are like (I used to go to ComDex due to other companies I was subcontracted for, and the Internext show was always the week before or after).

    What would you do? Take her? Take her but don't let her "in"? help here

    www.JasonandAlex.com
    Christopher's ICQ: 268-843-170
  • Theo
    HAL 9000
    • May 2001
    • 34515

    #2
    i would

    j/k take her

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    • shima
      Confirmed User
      • May 2003
      • 1753

      #3
      You better take her with you, and take her in. This is your world and she deserves to get into it.

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      • azguy
        Confirmed User
        • Nov 2004
        • 5167

        #4
        take her

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        • sean416
          Confirmed User
          • Feb 2004
          • 3633

          #5
          if she means so much to you, its always best to be open about ALL of you, nto just the parts she wants to see.

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          • WebTitan
            Confirmed User
            • Mar 2003
            • 5114

            #6
            Originally posted by iBanker
            ...We have a very healthy relationship...
            if so, then why do you even have to question to take her?

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            • BuckLover
              Confirmed User
              • Feb 2003
              • 1656

              #7
              Take her along!.....I'll keep her company by the pool

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              • jennym
                Confirmed User
                • May 2003
                • 1622

                #8
                As long as she already knows it is adult, I would take her. She will probably imagine much worse than it is if you go without her. It may make her very insecure in the relationship.

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                • iBanker
                  Confirmed User
                  • Dec 2004
                  • 2758

                  #9
                  Originally posted by WebTitan
                  if so, then why do you even have to question to take her?
                  Because there is a difference between having a healthy relationship and having her know I am taking a porn co. public, and going to a show where it is blasted in your face, might make her wonder.....
                  www.JasonandAlex.com
                  Christopher's ICQ: 268-843-170

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                  • martyVP
                    Confirmed User
                    • Aug 2004
                    • 1917

                    #10
                    Originally posted by iBanker
                    Alright here is the problem. My girlfriend wants to tag along to Vegas to the show, wants to hang out by the pool, drink, gamble, dance...that sort of thing.

                    I never have, never would cheat, that is not the issue why I wouldn't bring her. But in reality I do the same thing for this company I am working with now, that I have done for the last 19 companies I have taken public.

                    We have a very healthy relationship, 7 months (I've known her for almost 2 years though), she rocks, knows I'm an investment banker/financer officer, shes 24, just perfect in every way, and thinks im the best think since chocolate chips.

                    I am concerned that she will have a little shell shock from what these shows are like (I used to go to ComDex due to other companies I was subcontracted for, and the Internext show was always the week before or after).

                    What would you do? Take her? Take her but don't let her "in"? help here

                    Take her but explain the consiquences and the type of industry you are dealing with before hand.

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                    • iBanker
                      Confirmed User
                      • Dec 2004
                      • 2758

                      #11
                      Originally posted by BuckLover
                      Take her along!.....I'll keep her company by the pool
                      lol....what an offer...
                      www.JasonandAlex.com
                      Christopher's ICQ: 268-843-170

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                      • emthree
                        Dialer Kingpin
                        • Jun 2003
                        • 10816

                        #12
                        Tell her it will be too busy, and it's best she stays home.
                        Buisness and chicks do not mix well. (no matter how good or understanding she is)

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                        • iBanker
                          Confirmed User
                          • Dec 2004
                          • 2758

                          #13
                          Originally posted by jennym
                          As long as she already knows it is adult, I would take her. She will probably imagine much worse than it is if you go without her. It may make her very insecure in the relationship.
                          Now that is good advice, thanks.
                          www.JasonandAlex.com
                          Christopher's ICQ: 268-843-170

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                          • iBanker
                            Confirmed User
                            • Dec 2004
                            • 2758

                            #14
                            Originally posted by emthree
                            Tell her it will be too busy, and it's best she stays home.
                            Buisness and chicks do not mix well. (no matter how good or understanding she is)
                            Well business and chicks is cool, no problem there, I seem to date very outgoing smart women that can carry their own in a conversation. She is one of them. She could only complement me from that standpoint.
                            www.JasonandAlex.com
                            Christopher's ICQ: 268-843-170

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                            • iBanker
                              Confirmed User
                              • Dec 2004
                              • 2758

                              #15
                              Originally posted by martyVP
                              Take her but explain the consiquences and the type of industry you are dealing with before hand.
                              You taking the wife Marty?
                              www.JasonandAlex.com
                              Christopher's ICQ: 268-843-170

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                              • iBanker
                                Confirmed User
                                • Dec 2004
                                • 2758

                                #16
                                Originally posted by iBanker
                                You taking the wife Marty?
                                If so maybe we could give them a couple grand and send them shopping together?
                                www.JasonandAlex.com
                                Christopher's ICQ: 268-843-170

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                                • jennym
                                  Confirmed User
                                  • May 2003
                                  • 1622

                                  #17
                                  Originally posted by iBanker
                                  Now that is good advice, thanks.
                                  Anytime. Just have a shot of tequila for me!

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                                  • iBanker
                                    Confirmed User
                                    • Dec 2004
                                    • 2758

                                    #18
                                    Originally posted by jennym
                                    Anytime. Just have a shot of tequila for me!
                                    Yuk....how bout whisky? ;)
                                    www.JasonandAlex.com
                                    Christopher's ICQ: 268-843-170

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                                    • AdServicesNW
                                      Confirmed User
                                      • Nov 2004
                                      • 4628

                                      #19
                                      I sent ya an icq...

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                                      • jennym
                                        Confirmed User
                                        • May 2003
                                        • 1622

                                        #20
                                        Originally posted by iBanker
                                        Yuk....how bout whisky? ;)
                                        whatever floats your boat. Enjoy!

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                                        • reynold
                                          Too lazy to set a custom title
                                          • Oct 2002
                                          • 51271

                                          #21
                                          take her

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                                          • SleazyDream
                                            I'm here for SPORT
                                            • Jul 2001
                                            • 41470

                                            #22
                                            got any pics?
                                            This dog, is dog, a dog, good dog, way dog, to dog, keep dog, an dog, idiot dog, busy dog, for dog, 20 dog, seconds dog!

                                            Now read without the word dog.

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                                            • DesignWise
                                              Confirmed User
                                              • May 2004
                                              • 3575

                                              #23
                                              take her!
                                              www.highendcreatives.com Galleries that sells.. . ICQ: 294696371

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                                              • iBanker
                                                Confirmed User
                                                • Dec 2004
                                                • 2758

                                                #24
                                                Originally posted by SleazyDream
                                                got any pics?
                                                Yup, but I don't think I could ever sleep with her again knowing that you had seen her naked. She is far too good for that.
                                                www.JasonandAlex.com
                                                Christopher's ICQ: 268-843-170

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