First dates.. your rules??

[infecto]

Originally posted by Doctor Dre
Be real and straight with him ... and you will know when it has to happen . Take your time if you want something serious ;)

Yup this is probably the best advice. If he can't accept what you do then there is no point in continuing a false relationship. I remember when I told my current girlfriend and I was a bit worried about it but afterwards she was fine with it. And taking your time is excellent...if its a mutual thing of wanting a serious relationship it doesn't matter when sex occurs.

[quiet]

Originally posted by collegegirlvids
See.. I definitely wanted to jump him...
is there a magical number of dates or a number of days before I can w/o seeming slutty?? Like, is it 10 dates or a month??

normally this shit just sort of happens naturally. i wouldn't try to consciously worry about it too much. i slept with my last gf the first night we went out, and we were together for years afterwards.

[collegegirlvids]

Originally posted by spanno
I am beta testing the new GeoIPGender database and looked up your IP it said you're a M A N ok

LOL... cause it's my roomies IP.. Steve

[s9ann0]

Originally posted by collegegirlvids
LOL... cause it's my roomies IP.. Steve

oh ok actually thats not what I have here it said John but then its not 100% yet its a nice module though I am experimenting with adding in iframe dialer links into the freehost headers for all males over 21 in Finland

I must go back to work now

[http]

Originally posted by Young
If a girl sleeps with me on the first night then any kind of relationship beyond something physical is out of the question.

Don't get me wrong I definately want some on the first night, and I definately go for it. But if you give it up, then you can forget about anything serious. And if you don't give it up then I probaly won't call you for a couple of weeks.

hy·poc·ri·sy ( P ) Pronunciation Key (h-pkr-s)
n. pl. hy·poc·ri·sies
The practice of professing beliefs, feelings, or virtues that one does not hold or possess; falseness.
An act or instance of such falseness.

[emthree]

1] Invite him over to hang out,
2] Have a few drinks, untill things get sexual
3] He'll think he has the upper hand, and will take that next step
4] Fuck him and get it out of the way, it will be alot easier to go further this way.

If he ever fucks up ... you blaim him for getting you drunk, and fucking you

[Meloman]

There is no secret number on how long to wait. It should just come naturally.

Overal though the longer u make him wait the more wooped and into you he's gonna be. If he likes you it's just gonna drive him nuts and make him want to see you more. If he gets bored waiting and dumbs you then he was just after sex rather than you.

General rule of thumb....the quicker u sleep with a guy the more likely you'll just end up being fuck friends.

If you want a real relationship with him then make him wait several, several dates and then plan something romantic like a weekend getaway.

Oh wait, you're just a college girl living with roomies.....in that case go to a kegger, get wasted and fuck him wherever j/k

[collegegirlvids]

I'll just tease him to death for like a month... lol

[naitirps]

Originally posted by collegegirlvids
he tried to kiss me, but i said not on the first date...lol
only once have i ever slept with a guy on the second date...
this one is different tho... marriage potential maybe...

lol im sorry but that cracks me.. only once u slept with the guy on the second date, but the marriage potential guy gets his hand? lol i'll never get that ;-)

[Young]

Originally posted by http
hy·poc·ri·sy ( P ) Pronunciation Key (h-pkr-s)
n. pl. hy·poc·ri·sies
The practice of professing beliefs, feelings, or virtues that one does not hold or possess; falseness.
An act or instance of such falseness.

my middle name

[collegegirlvids]

Originally posted by naitirps
lol im sorry but that cracks me.. only once u slept with the guy on the second date, but the marriage potential guy gets his hand? lol i'll never get that ;-)

LOL... i know... I just don't want to come off as easy..
even though i might be... hehehe

[Lykos]

Always my rules

[Kard63]

What inspired a college girl to greate a site like yours ? Thats a little uncommon. Enough so to be interesting.

[collegegirlvids]

Originally posted by Kard63
What inspired a college girl to greate a site like yours ? Thats a little uncommon. Enough so to be interesting.

A friend of mine is a fashion photographer... has even shot covers for Vogue and Elle... and then he started shooting nudes. I am a Computer Science major.. and offered to build a site and run it... hired on a bunch of hourlies.. and here I am now... lol

[ModelPerfect]

First of all, it's 2004: You can kiss on the first date. As for sex, it all depends on the emotion involved. If there's mutual feelings then things can go faster without him thinking you normally give it up so quickly. Also, since he's a guy, I'm sure he'll be cool about the porn thing, although you might want to hold off on telling him, since the natural tendancy would be to wonder if your "talent". Wait until it looks like things are going to be serious.

[Living For Today]

That would be pretty sweet if I was going out with a girl and she told me she ran a porn site. hehe. very unexpected!

[OG LennyT]

your fuckin hot dude, especially being a CS Major

I have fucked chicks on the first date that were "keepers" and waited for some lame-ass.. lesson is: let that shit come naturally, dont over-analyze. (Although your analytical thinking is stemming from your studies)

[polish_aristocrat]

Originally posted by Lucy

Do you like anal?

[polish_aristocrat]

Originally posted by collegegirlvids
I don't claim to be anything out of the ordinary...




And no, I don't have any nudes =) lol

You are actually cute :D

[kowntafit]

Originally posted by juicylinks
I like to fuck on first dates.

Yes, don't we all...

[collegegirlvids]

Originally posted by ModelPerfect
First of all, it's 2004: You can kiss on the first date. As for sex, it all depends on the emotion involved. If there's mutual feelings then things can go faster without him thinking you normally give it up so quickly. Also, since he's a guy, I'm sure he'll be cool about the porn thing, although you might want to hold off on telling him, since the natural tendancy would be to wonder if your "talent". Wait until it looks like things are going to be serious.

Not talent, so nothing to worry about on that end =)

[collegegirlvids]

Tonight I am going over to his place....
and I told myself this morning that I wouldn't shave my legs or my bikini line, and that I would wear granny panties... to keep myself from being bad!!

[polish_aristocrat]

Originally posted by collegegirlvids
Tonight I am going over to his place....
and I told myself this morning that I wouldn't shave my legs or my bikini line, and that I would wear granny panties... to keep myself from being bad!!

keep us updated

[Rookie]

Originally posted by collegegirlvids
Tonight I am going over to his place....
and I told myself this morning that I wouldn't shave my legs or my bikini line, and that I would wear granny panties... to keep myself from being bad!!

And your gonna last a month...don't think so. Don't worry though. I slept with my wife on the first date

[benc]

The best advice for a girl would be to wait like 3 months. Chances are a month from now you will think Mr Right is a dickhead and feel stupid for going all the way with him.

[Mogulman]

Originally posted by collegegirlvids
he tried to kiss me, but i said not on the first date...lol
only once have i ever slept with a guy on the second date...
this one is different tho... marriage potential maybe...
so how slow should i take it?? and when should i come clean about running the pron site?? he thinks i am just a real estate buyer...

I'm jumping into this late so maybe someone already responded, but this "..marriage potential maybe.." is an idiotic statement uttered by too many women. Nothing against you personally. I'm just saying that 1 date and you've already had a thought of marriage?? That's crazy. Unless you know what a person is like on a day to day routine (and not after a week...I mean months/years) then you have no idea of "marriage potential"

[collegegirlvids]

Originally posted by Mogulman
I'm jumping into this late so maybe someone already responded, but this "..marriage potential maybe.." is an idiotic statement uttered by too many women. Nothing against you personally. I'm just saying that 1 date and you've already had a thought of marriage?? That's crazy. Unless you know what a person is like on a day to day routine (and not after a week...I mean months/years) then you have no idea of "marriage potential"

Women think of marriage before even talking to a guy.. it's in our genes =) lol