Suicidal Ex (help)

[Shonine]

My girlfriend just left me yesterday and I let her go. I am finally happy to be away from her because I was miserable in the relationship. Now she is comming by here telling me that she has no reason to live and to make sure her brother gets her truck..blah blah blah. I do not know how to handle this situation. Should I call her parents ?

[buddyjuf]

how old is she? has she attempted suicide before?

[stocktrader23]

Maybe. Most times it's a cry for attention. Just in case it's not you may want to let someone know so they can keep an eye on her.

[Shonine]

how old is she? has she attempted suicide before?

She is 25 and she has told me that she has thought about it before the last time we broke up. I took her back last time because she was acting like this and I just can not do it again.

[Jeff aka NIGHTfall]

call her a pussy and tell her she wont do it... taunt her..

[AWC]

it's all on you... she wants attention and this is working... ignore the bitch

[Katlicious72]

OMG this is awful I feel for you. But the best thing is to let her go. If you still love her you will let her go, don't take her back. That means don't call, dont' come over, etc. I would tell her parents but that's just me cause then they'll have to deal with her not you.

[jimmyf]

ask her if she needs money for bullets, or pills... if you have any give her some drugs, let her know you will help her 2 die..

I'm not kidding, the woman will leave you alone if you do this.

My 1st wife's sister used try 2 kill herself, I told my wife if she ever tried it, she would die because I would not help her. Well she tried it and I said die because I will not help you.
She didn't die ( got real sick, pills ) and never tried it again.

[angeleyes]

I would get in touch with someone that can watch her. As someone stated, it could be a cry for attention, but it's better to be safe than sorry.

Also, even if she wanted to "stage" a suicide attempt in an effort to get you back, another form of a cry for attention: That could end up back firing and actually working. (Example: Taking a few pills not thinking it would actually kill her, etc.)

Just be careful.... and Goodluck.

[Fletch XXX]

fuck her in the booty one last time!

[cypocrypt]

far cry for attention.....call her bluff and tell her u dotn give a shit if she does it or not

[jimmyf]

Originally posted by Fletch XXX
fuck her in the booty one last time!

after asking her if she needed money for bullets

[TexasGuy]

If she is 25, she is on her own.

You cant help her.

[Doctor Dre]

She's on her own ... don't carry her . If you start carrying somebody your life will become truly miserable . Just talk and try to help her out ... but don't go and fuck her and get back with her

[merlin77]

Alot of the times it is a cry for attention, an attempt to get you back, HOWEVER do not assume anything! Let someone know and they can watch/help her. That is all you can do. Don't try and help her yourself, because this will turn into a continuous circle. You help her, she's happy, you leave, she wants to die. Let others who love and care for her be the ones to help her through this. That is the best that you can do.

[count blingula]

Originally posted by Jeff aka NIGHTfall
call her a pussy and tell her she wont do it... taunt her..

yes! get back w/ us on the results

[crackheadcurly]

Originally posted by Jeff aka NIGHTfall
call her a pussy and tell her she wont do it... taunt her..

Dare her to do it, just do it on the phone and dont dare her at your place, you dont want that mess on your carpet. But I like the response of taunting her

[sexyclicks]

tell her you are gay

[KRL]

She's trying to mind fuck you. Don't let her.

Put on the shoes with the steel tip toes and say adios. You don't want to be in a relationship anyway with a girl that tells you she wants to kill herself. What the fuck are you thinking. The minute they go there, its time to leave, and fast.

Whenever you go out with a new girl, always take a quick glance at her wrists. If you see scars you know you've got a problem to be.

[LadyMischief]

Originally posted by Shonine
My girlfriend just left me yesterday and I let her go. I am finally happy to be away from her because I was miserable in the relationship. Now she is comming by here telling me that she has no reason to live and to make sure her brother gets her truck..blah blah blah. I do not know how to handle this situation. Should I call her parents ?

She's an attention whore. Tell her to fuck off and come talk to you when she's not going to be a baby :P

[smokingdawn]

Originally posted by Shonine
My girlfriend just left me yesterday and I let her go. I am finally happy to be away from her because I was miserable in the relationship. Now she is comming by here telling me that she has no reason to live and to make sure her brother gets her truck..blah blah blah. I do not know how to handle this situation. Should I call her parents ?

I would tell someone...better safe than sorry

[Shonine]

She's an attention whore. Tell her to fuck off and come talk to you when she's not going to be a baby :P

That is the reason we are breaking up. Deffinate attention whore.

[TheFrog]

[suesheboy]

Let her go but tell her family

[Digipimp]

she sounds like content

[emmanuelle]

Suicide only punishes the ones who are left behind. I've been there and wouldnt wish it on anyone. That guilt NEVER goes away.

1. Call her parents
2. Call 911

One or the other will lock her up for a few days of drug-induced bedrest. Hopefully she will wake with clearer thinking and will have professional help at her side.

[SlickRick]

It may be a call for help. But if she does this how is that going to make you feel. Get her in some phyc ward to get help. I couldnt live with myself if someone killed themselves over a brake up.

[StRoGE]

Ive been there.
I didnt handle it how I should have. My ex-girlfriend from like 3 years ago threatened to slit her wrists and I was so fed up with her stupid bullshit that I whipped out my knife, handed it to her and told her to go to the fucking bathroom cuz I didnt want any blood on my carpet. She took it, but came back 5 minutes later crying and telling me never to give her a knife again. I knew she was bluffing, but it was still stupid of me.
Your best bet is to call her best friend and have her (or him) go over to talk to her and stay with her. Try to convince her to call the suicide crisis hotline (every town/city has one) and talk to the professionals. Its free. I've had to get a few people to call it over the years and it actually does help. It also wouldnt be a bad idea to go through her house and take excess drugs etc for now.

[digifan]

Originally posted by StRoGE
Ive been there.
I didnt handle it how I should have. My ex-girlfriend from like 3 years ago threatened to slit her wrists and I was so fed up with her stupid bullshit that I whipped out my knife, handed it to her and told her to go to the fucking bathroom cuz I didnt want any blood on my carpet. She took it, but came back 5 minutes later crying and telling me never to give her a knife again. I knew she was bluffing, but it was still stupid of me.
Your best bet is to call her best friend and have her (or him) go over to talk to her and stay with her. Try to convince her to call the suicide crisis hotline (every town/city has one) and talk to the professionals. Its free. I've had to get a few people to call it over the years and it actually does help. It also wouldnt be a bad idea to go through her house and take excess drugs etc for now.

That's the best tip one can give so listen to him... yor ex is mature enough so it sounds like emotional blackmail to me which has worked for her in the past.

[EviLGuY]

Originally posted by Shonine
My girlfriend just left me yesterday and I let her go. I am finally happy to be away from her because I was miserable in the relationship. Now she is comming by here telling me that she has no reason to live and to make sure her brother gets her truck..blah blah blah. I do not know how to handle this situation. Should I call her parents ?

Help her purchase some sleeping pills. Friends help friends.

[Mr Pheer]

Turn your back and pretend she doesnt exist. Threaten to get a restraining order if she wont leave you alone. Follow up with the threat if she doesnt take you seriously.

[bad_girl]

I would tell her friends and her family. IF she is serious, she'll get the help - and not from you. If she isnt serious, people will see what kind of a whack job she really is.