single? hell yeah :)

[quiet]

i'm single, and finally, feeling really good about it. cheers to those not tied down...

[WiredGuy]

Been over 2 years single for me too... not too sure if its a good or bad thing but nevertheless, options are open, so cheers

WG

[Adorno]

Its nice. For the first time in a few years my life is nag fucking free. And you cannot put a price on that peace of mind.

[KRL]

Yep

[Sosa]

Fuck being single, hopefully in a few days I won't be single

[50 Cent]

Hell yeah I love every aspect of being solo =) no wifeys no GFs none of that bullshit - just fuck and don't exchange numbers, once Im done with a hoe I never want to see her face again.

[TahoeDrunkardG29]

Being single is fucking awesome....hookin up w/ random ass girls is great

[quiet]

Originally posted by WiredGuy
Been over 2 years single for me too... not too sure if its a good or bad thing but nevertheless, options are open, so cheers

WG

been 18 months for me

[Amputate Your Head]

been single since '97.... plan on staying that way too.

[quiet]

Originally posted by Amputate Your Head
been single since '97.... plan on staying that way too.

sigh ;)

let me change the title to:

not living with, or seriously seeing anyone. in my case, for about 18 months.

[XxXotic]

cheers

[onlymovies]

[Amputate Your Head]

Originally posted by quiet


sigh ;)

let me change the title to:

not living with, or seriously seeing anyone. in my case, for about 18 months.

that's not single.... I'm single.... what you described is called "alone".

[boardersweetie]

You can tie me up but you can't hold me down. I'm LOVIN' the single life. I'm not about to be anyone's wife.

[Adorno]

So singles bars are for people with live in girlfriends?

[quiet]

Originally posted by Amputate Your Head


that's not single.... I'm single.... what you described is called "alone".

i think you can be married and be very alone.

and, not see the same girl everyday, yet be very far from "alone".

anyone else agree?

[XxXotic]

Originally posted by quiet


i think you can be married and be very alone.

and, not see the same girl everyday, yet be very far from "alone".

anyone else agree?

well said

[KRL]

Originally posted by quiet


i think you can be married and be very alone.

and, not see the same girl everyday, yet be very far from "alone".

anyone else agree?

Very true. One of the reasons married people get restless and start to have affairs.

[Holly]

Uh oh. I sense more drama on the horizon.

Being "alone" beats being miserable, anyday. But being with someone you're happy with, is pretty good, too.

[Joe Citizen]

Originally posted by quiet


i think you can be married and be very alone.

and, not see the same girl everyday, yet be very far from "alone".

anyone else agree?

Yup. Sure do.

I hardly ever feel "alone" in my own company. Even though I DO enjoy the company of others, I'm a loner at heart and always will be.

[Holly]

Originally posted by KRL


Very true. One of the reasons married people get restless and start to have affairs.

Yeah. Or they decide they wanna fuck some blond chick at the gym. Either, or. ;>)))

[quiet]

hey, i'd still like to meet someone. as in someone.

but life is good regardless

[XxXotic]

Originally posted by quiet

but life is good regardless

thats all that really matters though in the long run isn't it?

cheers to life being good even when you're "alone"

[Amputate Your Head]

I was "alone" for roughly 5 years straight once..... kept telling myself the whole time it was awesome, complete freedom, do what I want, when I want, where I want, it was great....

it sucked.

[quiet]

Originally posted by Amputate Your Head
I was "alone" for roughly 5 years straight once..... kept telling myself the whole time it was awesome, complete freedom, do what I want, when I want, where I want, it was great....

it sucked.

was marriage better?

[Amputate Your Head]

Originally posted by quiet


was marriage better?

nope... was during marriage actually.

[Amputate Your Head]

part of it anyway

[XxXotic]

ive been "alone" for almost 3 years now.. honestly i dont miss having a nag, i mean girlfriend... i cant say that i'm overly joyous to be alone, but im not crying myself to sleep either. it has its advantages and disadvantages

[onlymovies]

Originally posted by Joe Citizen
Even though I DO enjoy the company of others, I'm a loner at heart and always will be.

That about sums it up. The 'company' is also very few and far between. Probably the same for some.

[WiredGuy]

Originally posted by quiet
hey, i'd still like to meet someone. as in someone.

but life is good regardless

Same here, always looking, never finding.... one day
WG

[JDog]

I've been for 8 months now! Life couldn't be better!

jDoG

[Holly]

Originally posted by Amputate Your Head
I was "alone" for roughly 5 years straight once..... kept telling myself the whole time it was awesome, complete freedom, do what I want, when I want, where I want, it was great....

it sucked.

Yeah, but you have to take into account that lot of the people in this thread sound like they've just had big break-ups. It doesn't suck if you're coming off something like that. It's smart. I just got divorced last Dec/Jan, and I think it would have been really stupid to run out and jump into another relationship. The breaking up part sucked, but being "alone" has actually been nice.

[Amputate Your Head]

Originally posted by Holly

Yeah, but you have to take into account that lot of the people in this thread sound like they've just had big break-ups. It doesn't suck if you're coming off something like that. It's smart. I just got divorced last Dec/Jan, and I think it would have been really stupid to run out and jump into another relationship. The breaking up part sucked, but being "alone" has actually been nice.

that's very true.... and everyone needs a different length of time to regroup. I would have been good with about a year. After that it just started sucking. But I got five instead.

[Zoe_Zoebaboe]

SIngle for..8 days now?

Still having troubles sleeping alone.

[quiet]

i've never been married.

however, since i was 19 yrs old, i've never been without a girlfriend. so basically, i've never been single in the past 10 years (except for a couple months here and there), until early 2002. 4 gf's over those 10 years.

anyway, i'm enjoying the change.

[Holly]

Originally posted by Zoe_Zoebaboe
SIngle for..8 days now?

Still having troubles sleeping alone.

Yeah, the beginning is the worst. But it will either get better, or you'll get back together. Don't know which is better, though. ;>))

[maxjohan]

Originally posted by Amputate Your Head
I was "alone" for roughly 5 years straight once..... kept telling myself the whole time it was awesome, complete freedom, do what I want, when I want, where I want, it was great....

it sucked.

I haven't met a friend on over 2 months. Not even over the phone..5 years holy molly that's a long time.

[quiet]

Originally posted by Holly

Yeah, the beginning is the worst. But it will either get better, or you'll get back together. Don't know which is better, though. ;>))

i thought so as well. until month 4 came up. much, much worse lol.

[WiredGuy]

Originally posted by quiet
however, since i was 19 yrs old, i've never been without a girlfriend. so basically, i've never been single in the past 10 years (except for a couple months here and there), until early 2002. 4 gf's over those 10 years.

I think I'm kinda the opposite, only had two gf's and they both ended up cheating on me so I'm kinda hesitant to get back into something. Would like to be in a relationship again but those last 2 gf's left me really messed up...

WG

[quiet]

Originally posted by WiredGuy


I think I'm kinda the opposite, only had two gf's and they both ended up cheating on me so I'm kinda hesitant to get back into something. Would like to be in a relationship again but those last 2 gf's left me really messed up...

WG

not sure exactly how we are opposite. since i have some serious trust issues myself ;)

[Holly]

Originally posted by quiet
i've never been married.

however, since i was 19 yrs old, i've never been without a girlfriend. so basically, i've never been single in the past 10 years (except for a couple months here and there), until early 2002. 4 gf's over those 10 years.

anyway, i'm enjoying the change.

Remember what I mentioned to you the other day, and you said you were being pressured about? Did you buckle, yet? Don't lie, either.

[XxXotic]

Originally posted by WiredGuy


I think I'm kinda the opposite, only had two gf's and they both ended up cheating on me so I'm kinda hesitant to get back into something. Would like to be in a relationship again but those last 2 gf's left me really messed up...

WG

i feel ya there man... last g/f burnt my ass hard.. i almost considered turning gay but then i realized i really have no desire to love the cock

[Joe Citizen]

Originally posted by quiet
i've never been married.

I was married nine years. From eighteen to twenty-seven.

Life is a trip.

[quiet]

Originally posted by Holly

Remember what I mentioned to you the other day, and you said you were being pressured about? Did you buckle, yet? Don't lie, either.

lol. not yet, but i guess i should. i have the installer on my desktop now...

[Holly]

Originally posted by quiet


lol. not yet, but i guess i should. i have the installer on my desktop now...

Do it. ;>)

[WiredGuy]

Originally posted by quiet
not sure exactly how we are opposite. since i have some serious trust issues myself ;)

Good point, we seem to have similiar ways of thinking about financial spending and security issues of women

WG

[Zoe_Zoebaboe]

Originally posted by Holly

Yeah, the beginning is the worst. But it will either get better, or you'll get back together. Don't know which is better, though. ;>))

Yeah, I know, but itll get better. I was the one to end it, so it could have been worse.

I was in this last relationship for a year, and the guy before it for 3 years. Everything else doesnt really count.

[Pornwolf]

I have trust issues as well. My un-protected cock will not get hard for any woman I don't trust. Seriously. Only when I wear condoms will it get hard for those women. If that isn't a good indicator of trust issues then I dunno what is?! My issues have probably saved my life a few times.

[KRL]

I've been married twice, with my last one being with her since 1988, 15 years.

So this is the first time I've been single for a long long time. I'm not really single and alone since I have a son so its always lively here and I get all the family kinds of sounds without the ones that drove me nuts from my ex. LOL

Now, I just like casual dating and going out with girl "friends" more than searching for that "someone" as Quiet mentioned above.

If that "someone" pops in great, but I've come to the conclusion this is the happiest I've been in my life and why go back to the grind of marriage again.

Aaaahhh, the good life, with no more bitchy wife . . .

[com]

hrmmm to rain on this celebration, im getting married this summer (most likely) unless plans change