Real problem

[Devious Angel]

So, I was talking to a friend of mine that's also a cam model.. she told me about this guy that she's seeing..
The guy looks great but when it comes to getting it up..oh, well, it doesn't get up.
He's in his 30's so no problem there, he's a gym addict and takes very good care of himself.
So what could be the problem?
Is he maybe intimidated?

[EddyTheDog]

Gym addict? - Steroids possibly...

[GFED]

Steroids.

[Matt-ADX]

So, I was talking to a friend of mine that's also a cam model.. she told me about this guy that she's seeing..
The guy looks great but when it comes to getting it up..oh, well, it doesn't get up.
He's in his 30's so no problem there, he's a gym addict and takes very good care of himself.
So what could be the problem?
Is he maybe intimidated?

I have heard of that happening to a few guys. Sometimes a gorgeous girl can have that effect on guys. Once he knocks it out 1 time should be cured.

[Devious Angel]

Gym addict? - Steroids possibly...

That's what I said but the guy just had himself tested for his job.. no steroids were found.

[Devious Angel]

I have heard of that happening to a few guys. Sometimes a gorgeous girl can have that effect on guys. Once he knocks it out 1 time should be cured.

Well this wasn't one time, they saw each other a few times but still..nothing..

[CaptainHowdy]

If he had to fuck himself, he'd probably get it up ...

[GFED]

1. Steroids
2. Cocaine
3. He's Gay

[Bladewire]

That's what I said but the guy just had himself tested for his job.. no steroids were found.

What kind of job does he have getting tested for steroids?

She needs to play with his taint and slowly slip him the finger next time. It's biologically impossible for a man not to get hard having his prostate stimulated.

[EddyTheDog]

That's what I said but the guy just had himself tested for his job.. no steroids were found.

As she is a cam model he may well assume she is highly sexual and is just worried he wont perform well - Serious suggestion, poppers - They really work...

Just make sure they have not got any cardiac problems before they try it.....

[GFED]

As she is a cam model he may well assume she is highly sexual and is just worried he wont perform well - Serious suggestion, poppers - They really work...

Just make sure they have not got any cardiac problems before they try it.....

poppers? N2O?

[Bladewire]

As she is a cam model he may well assume she is highly sexual and is just worried he wont perform well - Serious suggestion, poppers - They really work...

I've had friends where poppers absolutely kill their wood and/or give them an explosive headache so it's a hit and miss but definitely can make sex more intense.

Pot works great for wood issues too.

[Adraco]

Your friend is maybe not hot enough?

Or he is gay!

[Spunky]

Maybe she should try putting on a strap on.

[yuu.design]

we will need pics of your friend to know if she is the problem :P ( naked pics ) :P

[pimpmaster9000]

Gym addict? - Steroids possibly...

well it depends...there are some steroids that will give you erectile dysfunction for a period of time while others will not give you wood they will give you rock blood viscosity and total volume go up so on some forms of testosterone you will want to visit a doctor to show off the metal pipe you have between your legs

[Bama]

Could be she has "stinky coochie syndrome"

[JesseQuinn]

if he can't get it up when she's not there it's likely a physical issue and he should see a doc

if the issue is intermittent it's prob a psychological issue. if that's the case he may be intimidated by her or has some sort of other mental block (maybe madonna/whore, is messed up about sex because of how he was raised, it could be anything really)

whatever it is he needs to solve it though, there's not much she can do but be supportive and encouraging.

how much does she like the guy? if he's not fucking her he's a friend. which is fine, friends are fun. friendship doesn't replace a sex life though, if nothing changes at some point she'll need to decide whether not fucking this dude works for her. there's a whole wide world out there of peeps with working equipment

in the meantime he has two hands and a tongue

[PR_Glen]

surprised nobody has mentioned stress yet.

[john1975]

either steroids or he's a heroin addict.

[Busty2]

Gym addict? - Steroids possibly...

[Jigster715]

Does your friend have a bigger cock than he does?

[LovinNothin]

He's either depressed, and possibly on anti depression meds, which make it very difficult to get an erection because the medication will suppress his sex drive.

OR

He masturbates chronically. Men that masturbate 3, 4, 5 times or more a day, can not achieve erections without an intense level of visual and physical stimulation.

OR

The last guess would be he has a deep fear of intimacy and personal confidence. His addiction to exercise might indicate that he is trying to over compensate for something. He may have genital low self esteem, small cock or he feels he has a small cock and doesn't feel confident.

It's easy to say he is gay but doubtful, unless he doesn't know what he wants and is going thru the motions with your friend.

If it's not a medical reason, they try a good old fashioned bottle of wine and administer an old remedy: The Blow Job. IF she can't get him hard with wine and a blow job, he's either on meds, needs to open up emotionally, or is just not turned on and doesn't know he is gay yet.


Last thought, and this just might be the reason...

If she is a cam model, and masturbates for money for hundreds of strange men, he might not be ok with that. Even though he is attracted to her, he may be holding back on his thoughts that she is a camera prostitute and it doesn't sit well with him. A great deal of men simply don't like whores in their personal life, even if they are just camera whores, fun to look at, but you don't want to take one home with you. It might be a turn off that he's going to have sex with the same woman that hundreds of men masturbate to on a daily basis. Sex is a very intimate situation and she has turned it into public display, and some men can't deal with that, ergo, no hard on.

A man can lie to himself, but his cock keeps him honest.

[Andreweb]

Steroids or GH may be one of the reasons ! Or maybe he has just a health issue in that area!

[Devious Angel]

Ok, OMG thank you all for your 2 cents.
So, the guy loves eating her pussy so no smelly coochie syndrome there. And he's not gay.
As she told me, he's got a proper dick.
My friend is gorgeous but I can't give you a photo of her, for obvious reasons LOL.

Poppers were the pills that made your asshole widen, right? LOL
Should he pop in a Viagra?

[marlboroack]

I have a liquid sex product for sale that will make his cock rock hard for hours. Contact me and I'll send you a sample.

[ContentBay]

It is steroids, no brainer here. Or he's a homo on steroids.

[Relic]

Is he Caucasian or Cuckasian op?

[freecartoonporn]

cant tell without seeing your friend's nudes.

[TheSquealer]

There is no job that tests for steroids. "steroids" includes almost 4 dozen drugs, most of which have their own tests for detection. Thats beyond absurd and would require a very expensive series of blood tests.

So,.. you can safely add "liar" to "impotent".


Why is this even puzzling? It could be a physiological problem, it could be that he's not turned on by her, it could be drugs/drug addiction, alcohol abuse, steroids or any number of psychological reasons. I could imagine a lot of reasons for this.

Why are you asking a bunch of unqualified dipshits to diagnose someone with no facts as if you're asking about simple and one dimensional such as what to do when a lightbulb stops working?

[Barry-xlovecam]

en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Internal_iliac_artery

Internal_iliac_artery clots or blockage

[Barry-xlovecam]

Check the Internal_iliac_artery
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Internal_iliac_artery

[TheDynasty]

Could be any of the 100 things mentioned or not

[Bladewire]

Check the Internal_iliac_artery
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Internal_iliac_artery

[davidCRM]

can be psychological, yea.. does he get it up easily when rubbing one out? that answers it.