Why Relationships Fail?

[yuu.design]

I'm starting to think that i'm the wrong one :S

[#23]

It's her not me

[L-Pink]

I'm a cheating asshole.

[CurrentlySober]

IMHO, every 7 years you change significantly so as to be a different person with different views, dreams and expectations of life. Sure people stay together for long periods, but more often than not, that is just out of need or circumstance.

2 people that start out compatible may not be quite as compatible in 7 years time. Even less so 14 years on... Let alone 21...

I just think people are not really supposed to stay together in this day and age. Sure, years ago, when life was much harder and difficult an there was a much lower life expectancy etc, it made sense for one man and one woman to pool the recourses and stick together working for each others survival.

In this day and age of easy living and the need for frivolous instant gratification, a lot of relationships fail...


Its no big deal really. Life is too short to be unhappy. Just move on and dont dwell on it.

[MiamiBoyz]

IMHO, every 7 years you change significantly so as to be a different person with different views, dreams and expectations of life. Sure people stay together for long periods, but more often than not, that is just out of need or circumstance.

2 people that start out compatible may not be quite as compatible in 7 years time. Even less so 14 years on... Let alone 21...

I just think people are not really supposed to stay together in this day and age. Sure, years ago, when life was much harder and difficult an there was a much lower life expectancy etc, it made sense for one man and one woman to pool the recourses and stick together working for each others survival.

In this day and age of easy living and the need for frivolous instant gratification, a lot of relationships fail...


Its no big deal really. Life is too short to be unhappy. Just move on and dont dwell on it.

Sound advice and totally true

[LetterTwenty7]

IMHO, every 7 years you change significantly so as to be a different person with different views, dreams and expectations of life. Sure people stay together for long periods, but more often than not, that is just out of need or circumstance.

2 people that start out compatible may not be quite as compatible in 7 years time. Even less so 14 years on... Let alone 21...

I just think people are not really supposed to stay together in this day and age. Sure, years ago, when life was much harder and difficult an there was a much lower life expectancy etc, it made sense for one man and one woman to pool the recourses and stick together working for each others survival.

In this day and age of easy living and the need for frivolous instant gratification, a lot of relationships fail...


Its no big deal really. Life is too short to be unhappy. Just move on and dont dwell on it.

Wise words, my friend, but still we all need love, and that's why there's no giving up, yuu! Maybe you are 'the wrong one' for the previous girls, but the girl for you is out there. You need to believe
Sorry mate, just watched the x files. Man, I still love that show. It will never let me down.

[L-Pink]

Hey CS, nice post.

[bronco67]

IMHO, every 7 years you change significantly so as to be a different person with different views, dreams and expectations of life. Sure people stay together for long periods, but more often than not, that is just out of need or circumstance.

2 people that start out compatible may not be quite as compatible in 7 years time. Even less so 14 years on... Let alone 21...

I just think people are not really supposed to stay together in this day and age. Sure, years ago, when life was much harder and difficult an there was a much lower life expectancy etc, it made sense for one man and one woman to pool the recourses and stick together working for each others survival.

In this day and age of easy living and the need for frivolous instant gratification, a lot of relationships fail...


Its no big deal really. Life is too short to be unhappy. Just move on and dont dwell on it.

You're very insightful when not talking about poo.

[ErectMedia]

Too easy to find new pussy
She won't take it in da pooper
I'm an asshole with commitment issues at the 2-2 1/2 year mark

just a few

[BlackCrayon]

You're very insightful when not talking about poo.

just a guess but i doubt he's very happy with his life.

[pimpmaster9000]

you are pedestalling the pussy...unrealistic expectations...get whores...its true love...you love your dick, she loves your money...

[SilentKnight]

Happily married (and faithfully monogamous) 18 years...together for 21.

And to think it started online.

Before that - like L-Pink...I had way too much fun being a cheatin' asshole.

[Relic]

you are pedestalling the pussy...unrealistic expectations...get whores...its true love...you love your dick, she loves your money...

I am her world. I saved her

[Rochard]

People change over time. People change a lot over a long period of time.

I've been married twenty years now; We've changed a lot since then.

[Best-In-BC]

SEX, is the main reason, even before money. If your in a relationship and your not getting it, its going to be not that long till your going somewhere else thanks to biology.

[CurrentlySober]

just a guess but i doubt he's very happy with his life.

I'm not. Its no secret, I've said it before

However, does pointing that out to everyone make you feel better about your life?

[BlackCrayon]

I'm not. Its no secret, I've said it before

However, does pointing that out to everyone make you feel better about your life?

not at all. i wasn't trying to put you down or anything. even though i think your constant poop posting is a bit disturbing and makes me wonder why you choose poo.. you seem like a decent guy.

my point being people often say, no point being unhappy in a relationship but what if its not the relationship that is making the person unhappy but just that they are predisposed to being unhappy and look for something to blame ie the relationship? they just may never be happy. be it a chemical imbalance or just never satisfied, always wondering if there is something more, always looking for 'whats missing' even though they'll probably never find it, etc.

[CurrentlySober]

OK thanks - My bad - I just thought you were being snarky - Sorry

Why poo? The answer is simply '8 Letters' - People posted 'I like Pie' etc (8 chars) and I took it one step further to 'i like poo'... Then (excuse the pun) it kinda *stuck* and the rest his history

My poo persona is indeed an escape from an unhappy life

[MakeMeGrrrrowl]

I'm starting to think that i'm the wrong one :S

Didn't you already think this a few months ago?

[MakeMeGrrrrowl]

OK thanks - My bad - I just thought you were being snarky - Sorry

Why poo? The answer is simply '8 Letters' - People posted 'I like Pie' etc (8 chars) and I took it one step further to 'i like poo'... Then (excuse the pun) it kinda *stuck* and the rest his history

My poo persona is indeed an escape from an unhappy life

So then you don't really have a poo fetish?

[CurrentlySober]

So then you don't really have a poo fetish?

CurrentlySober has...

[LovinNothin]

Relationships and marriages fail for one reason only:

You failed in life and you expect your partner to make you happy and fill in all the holes that you created.

Nobody can do that, so the relationship ends.

All events caused by and leading to the break up are incidental of that premise.

[MakeMeGrrrrowl]

CurrentlySober has...

And here I thought you were there sitting in diapers pooping yourself daily.

[CurrentlySober]

And here I thought you were there sitting in diapers pooping yourself daily.

Would be tempting - I'm 5500 miles away from all my friends and loved ones and unable to return

And in 100% total honesty - Today is my 9 year anniversary of being deported, so its especially prevalent in my mind today...

[Spunky]

Maybe a chemical imbalance.I'm never satisfied and have issues

[crockett]

Men are easy to please.. Give us sex and don't bitch too much. Woman on the other hand are why most relationships fail.. because they never want to give it up and they bitch too much..

[L-Pink]

Men are easy to please.. Give us sex and don't bitch too much. Woman on the other hand are why most relationships fail.. because they never want to give it up and they bitch too much..

You need to find a chubby Republican girl and settle down.

[MikeAMS]

I guess talking is key..

[RyuLion]

Also some people rely too much on someone else, they don't know how to be independent so, they sometimes they just stay together but miserably..

[Frank]

Because they get bored with their partner and miss the single life.

[diablom]

In my personal experience, girs just do not know what they want mostly.

[CaptainHowdy]

The answer:

[MakeMeGrrrrowl]

Would be tempting - I'm 5500 miles away from all my friends and loved ones and unable to return

And in 100% total honesty - Today is my 9 year anniversary of being deported, so its especially prevalent in my mind today...

Why were you deported? Why can't you return?

I had a friend who was deported and not supposed to come back but eventually he did and even runs a business here. Not sure how, but he does.

[MakeMeGrrrrowl]

Men are easy to please.. Give us sex and don't bitch too much. Woman on the other hand are why most relationships fail.. because they never want to give it up and they bitch too much..

I never - ever - ever - bitch about anything. I'm not about that life. I don't like to argue, I don't like confrontation. If an argument must be done, say what you have to say and let's move on with the day.

Sex - well, that's another story. My legs are were quite often closed.