I'll weigh in on a few things.
- "Cam Boy Toy" is a brand, people do google strange domains
- I appreciate that you feel the affiliate is being dramatic, but it's a pretty serious error. At best, it shows a major failure to do some basic testing before you made a system live to people, at worst deliberate fraud.
- At this point, you're expecting us to "trust" the way you say your system works, and people getting credit for joins with no links on them, etc. This would be more believable if you had been quicker to respond to the affiliate's initial problem e-mails.
- When you fuck up, don't belittle your affiliate. It's unbecoming.
- We're evaluating white labels, and Failed has given me some things to consider, and some tests to run on all of our partners before we select one. I believe this was his goal.
Bugs happen, but "bugs" are also used to cover a lot of "fraud" so the suspicion is fair.