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TheAgent · 03-21-2008, 11:00 AM

So last Friday I was introduced to this girl by my cousin at a lounge in the city, we seemed to hit it off..I was nice, gentlemenly so to speak, we exchanged numbers. On Saturday through my cousin I find out that she wanted to hook up with me but didnt feel it was appropriate cause my cousin was there.

On Sunday just texted her to let her know I had a good time and such, she replied, then I was like your an interesting girl I had fun blah blah...she didnt reply

I texted her on wednesday, no reply

So question is should I even bother? Or should I give it one more shot?

tranza · 03-21-2008, 11:02 AM

If she didn't reply to your last 2 messages I'd let go.

AZSarah · 03-21-2008, 11:04 AM

don't bother, she will text you if she's interested.

If she doesn't, you could always get your cousin to find out what the deal was later for you... if you care that much to know.

LauraLee · 03-21-2008, 11:06 AM

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Originally Posted by AZ_Sarah_Maxcash

don't bother, she will text you if she's interested.

If she doesn't, you could always get your cousin to find out what the deal was later for you... if you care that much to know.

Honestly, I couldn't say it any better.

hollinator · 03-21-2008, 11:08 AM

Ditto what the other two ladies said ;o)

O MARINA · 03-21-2008, 11:09 AM

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Originally Posted by TheAgent

On Saturday through my cousin I find out that she wanted to hook up with me but didnt feel it was appropriate cause my cousin was there. ?

^ hearsay, speculations

& is your cousin a guy? I think they had something going on ...

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Originally Posted by TheAgent

On Sunday just texted her So question is should I even bother? ?

so call don't text

TheAgent · 03-21-2008, 11:09 AM

Thanks ladies

I just went ahead and deleted the number

I finally realized being ignored is the worst feeling ever, cause your wondering if you did something, said something, or maybe its not even me

but yea more fish in the sea

AZSarah · 03-21-2008, 11:11 AM

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Originally Posted by LauraLee

Honestly, I couldn't say it any better.

Yeah, chicks are weird. It doesn't mean she didn't like him but between that date & the last text, she could have met another guy that she's more into, gotten back together with an ex (it happens) or of course maybe she's just a flake or turned off by too much attention.

Some bitches like to be ignored & want to chase. What can you do?

AZSarah · 03-21-2008, 11:14 AM

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Originally Posted by O MARINA

^ hearsay, speculations

& is your cousin a guy? I think they had something going on ...

haha, paranoia

CosmicTang · 03-21-2008, 11:14 AM

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Originally Posted by TheAgent

Thanks ladies

I just went ahead and deleted the number

I finally realized being ignored is the worst feeling ever, cause your wondering if you did something, said something, or maybe its not even me

but yea more fish in the sea

Dude, maybe there's a reason for her not texting you back. She might be blowing you off, or there might be something going on that just has her attention right now. Premature to delete her number IMO.

payd2purv · 03-21-2008, 11:15 AM

If she is actually blowing you off and shes not sick in bed...

You texted her she actually replies..

and YOU SEND BACK ANOTHER MESSAGE TELLING HER SHE IS A COOL GIRL ETC?!?!

what did you expect?

You should have CALLED her and forgotten the "nice guy" bs.

O MARINA · 03-21-2008, 11:15 AM

Whatever you do, don't listen to Sarah

L-Pink · 03-21-2008, 11:16 AM

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Originally Posted by O MARINA

Whatever you do, don't listen to Sarah

TheAgent · 03-21-2008, 11:17 AM

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Originally Posted by AZ_Sarah_Maxcash

Yeah, chicks are weird. It doesn't mean she didn't like him but between that date & the last text, she could have met another guy that she's more into, gotten back together with an ex (it happens) or of course maybe she's just a flake or turned off by too much attention.

Some bitches like to be ignored & want to chase. What can you do?

Yea very true, you win some you loose some

Sometimes I think I am better being my asshole self frankly; girls find it attractive haha

AZSarah · 03-21-2008, 11:17 AM

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Originally Posted by CosmicTang

Dude, maybe there's a reason for her not texting you back. She might be blowing you off, or there might be something going on that just has her attention right now. Premature to delete her number IMO.

AZSarah · 03-21-2008, 11:19 AM

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Originally Posted by O MARINA

Whatever you do, don't listen to Sarah

Tiho suka ...

TheAgent · 03-21-2008, 11:20 AM

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Originally Posted by CosmicTang

Dude, maybe there's a reason for her not texting you back. She might be blowing you off, or there might be something going on that just has her attention right now. Premature to delete her number IMO.

Thats true, she is a working woman just like I work so possibilities are endless

AZSarah · 03-21-2008, 11:21 AM

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Originally Posted by TheAgent

Yea very true, you win some you loose some

Sometimes I think I am better being my asshole self frankly; girls find it attractive haha

correction: IMMATURE GIRLS find it attractive.

L-Pink · 03-21-2008, 11:21 AM

Real men don't text message, use the phone.

Linguist · 03-21-2008, 11:30 AM

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Originally Posted by AZ_Sarah_Maxcash

Tiho suka ...

catfight!

Lighter · 03-21-2008, 02:13 PM

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Originally Posted by L-Pink

Real men don't text message, use the phone.

yep

end of thread.

I would ignore your text msg's too

DjiXas · 03-21-2008, 02:20 PM

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Originally Posted by TheAgent

So last Friday I was introduced to this girl by my cousin at a lounge in the city, we seemed to hit it off..I was nice, gentlemenly so to speak, we exchanged numbers. On Saturday through my cousin I find out that she wanted to hook up with me but didnt feel it was appropriate cause my cousin was there.

On Sunday just texted her to let her know I had a good time and such, she replied, then I was like your an interesting girl I had fun blah blah...she didnt reply

I texted her on wednesday, no reply

So question is should I even bother? Or should I give it one more shot?

More you keep bothering care, lower your value is

woj · 03-21-2008, 02:29 PM

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Originally Posted by L-Pink

Real men don't text message, use the phone.

Yea, no shit, are you 12 or something? Call her, leave a message, if she doesn't call me back you'll know...

Elli · 03-21-2008, 02:40 PM

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Originally Posted by payd2purv

If she is actually blowing you off and shes not sick in bed...

You texted her she actually replies..

and YOU SEND BACK ANOTHER MESSAGE TELLING HER SHE IS A COOL GIRL ETC?!?!

what did you expect?

You should have CALLED her and forgotten the "nice guy" bs.

This bears repeating.

moeloubani · 03-21-2008, 02:53 PM

when girls ignore me I turn into Achmed!

CosmicTang · 03-21-2008, 03:25 PM

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Originally Posted by AZ_Sarah_Maxcash

I hope so.

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TheAgent Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Dirty Jersey Posts: 265	Thanks ladies I just went ahead and deleted the number I finally realized being ignored is the worst feeling ever, cause your wondering if you did something, said something, or maybe its not even me but yea more fish in the sea __________________ I think Big, I think Fast and I think Ahead

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payd2purv Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Toronto Posts: 2,727	If she is actually blowing you off and shes not sick in bed... You texted her she actually replies.. and YOU SEND BACK ANOTHER MESSAGE TELLING HER SHE IS A COOL GIRL ETC?!?! what did you expect? You should have CALLED her and forgotten the "nice guy" bs.

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