Breaking news: Belinda has a brain and dumps Donny.

[jimthefiend]

One of the hardest things to face has to do with Belinda, whom I've been with nearly 24/7 for almost 6 years. She thinks I've gone temporarily insane. She's very happy with our former life and has no desire to change it, so for now she fully intends to continue producing porn on her own. We're not completely "calling off" our relationship at this point, but we will be taking a break from each other for awhile to explore where our futures take us.

Who didn't see that coming?

[WhoGivesaShit]

so we got to donate money to this too?

[jimthefiend]

so we got to donate money to this too?

[headless ghost]

holly shit bateman
Donny must really be hardup for traffic to pull a stunt like this

[tenderobject]

so we got to donate money to this too?

i love you nick

[jimthefiend]

holly shit bateman
Donny must really be hardup for traffic to pull a stunt like this

Something, that's for sure.

[headless ghost]

so we got to donate money to this too?

I am going broke with all these fund drives

[Pete-KT]

Seen that coming

[MetaMan]

now i aint sayin she a gold digga, but she aint messin with no broke nigga...

[DaddyHalbucks]

Belinda smartened up?

[JUSTB]

Good for her for standing on her own and not being influenced into changing her lifestyle

[AntiDrama]

yeah... this was obviously coming... not a big deal.

[AVM]

I would burn this bitches feet......6 yrs and this bullshit?

[jimthefiend]

I would burn this bitches feet......6 yrs and this bullshit?

Thats bullshit.




MOST women leave when their husband/boyfriend goes insane. Make no mistake. He went insane.

[Lee]

I would burn this bitches feet......6 yrs and this bullshit?

Or perhaps all the religious bullshit dont fly with her?

[TurboAngel]

I feel bad for all 3 of them, Donny never has liked me but I still feel sorry for him as he thinks he's making a better life when his life is really falling apart.

His son is the one who's going to be the worst off IMO, he's just a kid.

[nico-t]

fuck the gold digger shit, i bet she doesnt know the guy anymore after he went berserk....

[AVM]

I think a mid-life crisis accelerated this entire process, not religion. When you're conditioned to be a hollow, superfictial shell - this is somewhat expected later in life. As time goes on and you begin to age, you become more & more aware of the unescapable truth. You feel a spiritual void....intellectuals typically turn to quantum mechanics, philosophy, or live life as normal before ride is over-- for comfort. While others, as in this case - with no self awareness or assurance turn to Christ or any deity-based religion for comfort.

The short of it....albeit I hate organized religion, and typically would classify this abrupt lifestyle change as "INSANE". However when someone turns to it at this point in their life? it's out fear. Not insanity, so if anything, I think he needs support of his dim-witted much much youngersidekick. Such a quick judgment/reaction to this entire circumstance....speaks volumes about her.


I doubt I need your assessment on the situation.

[jimthefiend]

I doubt I need your assessment on the situation.

You're getting it anyway, gnob.




He's a fruitcake and she has NO obligation to stand by him when he's fucking tossing THEIR life into a state of upheaval like he is. You call HER dimwitted? That's a fucking joke.

[AVM]

Or perhaps all the religious bullshit dont fly with her?

Convenient enough?

Come on...religion RARELY, if ever, comes into play during a relationship. In fact unless devowed extremist, I doubt the subject even comes up often with 20-40 yr old couples. Let alone the monumental decision of when it does come up, "leave soon after". Oh, and he quits his job....


heh, never....thought I'd be on the defense for religion.

But I think people (biasly) look at this circumstance as:


Religion (guy) vs Porn (girl)

Meanwhile this is a unique circumstance, of which warrants objective reasoning. You can't simply classify her as the savior, and the "right" of the two because she promotes the less primitive form of society (non-religion). Guy quits high paying job, the biggest issue/subject - money (72k yr concept being milked). Female leaves soon after....piece it together.

[jimthefiend]

Come on...religion RARELY, if ever, comes into play during a relationship.

You really are a dumbass.

[AVM]

You call HER dimwitted? That's a fucking joke.

Call a spade a spade, a homo a homo.


Don't we all wish we can obstruct our reasoning...lie to ourselves, and habitually take the side of the "fallen female". Occurs all too often on GFY, I suppose it's from lack of female interaction. Fuck that, she's in the wrong.

6 yrs is a long time. What was there would have "remained" regardless, given this circumstance. Look at the situation - The connection, initial attraction if you will - was the basis of money. The foundation? Was his great job, of which opens many job opportunities for her. It was all acted upon out of self interest, and we act baffled when he quits his job....and GFY convienently give her the moral high-ground because she's pro-adult.

The guy isn't playing Russian roulette with a bottle of jack and some vicodin. Watching repeat episodes of Family Fued. He simply left his job & found bullshit religion....what was the figure again, 70% in US believe Jesus will return in THEIR fucking lifetime. Operative word being; their. He's not the only dumbfuck.

So many have been fooled by this "Jesus" character. Shit - He almost fucked up the Beatles US career, so he's a little persuasive on culture.

Besides I doubt her thought process even objects to religion rationally, as it's never crossed her mind. It's her job and the industry's stance that has gave her positioning/direction on what side of fence to choose. However I wouldn't doubt if she wore a cross as speak, and or didn't have a true stance on the issue. Aside from the "I don't believe in invisible men" jaded arguement.


Females don't give too shit about religion or stance on it....as long as money is coming in.

[BlackCrayon]

Convenient enough?

Come on...religion RARELY, if ever, comes into play during a relationship. In fact unless devowed extremist, I doubt the subject even comes up often with 20-40 yr old couples. Let alone the monumental decision of when it does come up, "leave soon after". Oh, and he quits his job....


heh, never....thought I'd be on the defense for religion.

But I think people (biasly) look at this circumstance as:


Religion (guy) vs Porn (girl)

Meanwhile this is a unique circumstance, of which warrants objective reasoning. You can't simply classify her as the savior, and the "right" of the two because she promotes the less primitive form of society (non-religion). Guy quits high paying job, the biggest issue/subject - money (72k yr concept being milked). Female leaves soon after....piece it together.

give me a break, its been documented that difference of religion is a huge factor for relationships that don't work out. of course if neither care about religion, don't practice it chances are it won't but then its a moot point, isn't it?

[Donny]

Jim,

Perhaps you should get your story straight before making ridiculous posts.

1. Taking time apart is my decision.

2. We're not "breaking up". We've just been together 24/7 for almost 6 years.

3. Belinda and I started dating when she was barely 19. She was a freshman in college living in the dorms, barely out of mommy and daddy's house. If we're going to do the "forever" thing, I believe she needs some time on her own, whether she agrees or not.

4. She wants to keep producing porn on her own. This is no BS: I told her I'm proud of her running a business on her own. She'll have plenty of support and will learn a lot. This is going to be good for her.

5. I am definitely going through a time in my life where I need some time alone as well. I was with my ex-wife for 10 years. Almost immediately after we broke up, Belinda and I started our relationship. So for 16 years I've lived with someone. I need some time alone right now.

Nobody has been "dumped" at this point. Who knows what the future holds? That's what we're doing this for: to find the answer to that question.

[AVM]

You really are a dumbass.

Guy - you REALLY are the sales rep here.

I'm the one with individual, undeveloped domains like "er.com" - that are worth what, 3-5 yrs of your salary as a sig-slut? I wouldn't be so quick to make 'dumbass' remarks...unless you were being ironic.

[CaptainHowdy]

so we got to donate money to this too?

ROFL !!

[Donny]

By the way, Jim, please don't think I missed the intent of this post. I woke up to an email from your boss. It's quite obvious you're doing everything in your power to please him.


"Bosh man. Bosh man! Lookie lookie! I started a posht on GFY about Donny! Ewww gooodie gooodie! Dramas dramas! Lots of sig views, Bosh! Did I do good bosh? Did I ? Did I? Can I have a cookie, bosh man? "

[Deej]

Jimthefiend....good damn maan, at ssoome pppooint yoou haave too haave aa




GOOD DAMMIT I HATE THIS SKEYBOARD!!!!!!!!!! (toossssed ooout the windoow)




*moment later*




anyway where was I....dude at some point the crudeness has to hit a limit....



Christ man....

Oh....and wheres my money

[tony286]

donny why arent you at work? lol

[Dagwolf]

It's sad to see someone wreck his life over false hope. I understand his desire to get out of the industry; Young women don't realize what they're getting into when they pose for porn, no matter how well you explain it to them.
Or they think because they don't care NOW that people will find out what they do, they won't care in five years.

That part makes sense to me. I can see how he could feel responsibility and even guilt over that; what I don't see is why that would make someone throw away the evidence, reason and logic of a lifetime in exchange for the false emotional security of "religion".

[Dagwolf]

Don't get me wrong, I'd do it if I could.

Emotional security is very appealing... the idea that everything has a purpose, it'll all turn out good in the end, and we're not just a bunch of grungy apes who do some really cool tricks like building skyscrapers rockets but whose sole reason and justification for existance is to breed.

I just don't see that Christianity has merits above any other religion.. and I can't make myself believe any of them.

[dunefield]

I don't get it... Why post all this personal stuff on a blog...

[Deej]

I don't get it... Why post all this personal stuff on a blog...

Isnt that what a blog is for?


that and turnin a buck on some titties

[dunefield]

Isnt that what a blog is for?


that and turnin a buck on some titties

But do you think the gf would like it having their relationship published all over the net...

I mean it's one thing to talk about how you're feeling and what you did for the day but going on about your love life and really close matters like that should be behind closed doors...

[Belinda]

But do you think the gf would like it having their relationship published all over the net...

I mean it's one thing to talk about how you're feeling and what you did for the day but going on about your love life and really close matters like that should be behind closed doors...

You are right... I don't like my personal life all over the net and there are a lot of things that Donny has left out because of that. He needs to express himself and writing helps him to do that. I know he is a big topic right now people but seriously, if you don't like him or his choice then stay away from anything that has his name in it. Not trying to be mean or anything but I am sure you have enough going on in your own lives to keep you busy.. or maybe you don't and you need some entertainment.
To those who call me a gold digger, Donny was barely making any money when I first met him. Shortly after him and I got to gether and I learned some things about this business, I took over most of the production. So no, I did not just sit on my ass and let him support me and buy me things. I saved up money from working for him and bought my first car like most people who work do. We did not have this super easy life where money just came to our feet. It wasn't till after we BOTH were working together, that we started making money.
This break we are taking was decided before he made his choice to follow religion and I am not LEAVING him because of religion or because he wants to throw it all away. After being together so long and with each other everyday you start to feel stress towards each other and you notice a lot more fighting which we hardly ever did. It is true that I have never really been on my own and before I take the big marriage step I need to experience that. Ok enough for now.. gotta get ready for what the day has for me.

[LadyMischief]

You are right... I don't like my personal life all over the net and there are a lot of things that Donny has left out because of that. He needs to express himself and writing helps him to do that. I know he is a big topic right now people but seriously, if you don't like him or his choice then stay away from anything that has his name in it. Not trying to be mean or anything but I am sure you have enough going on in your own lives to keep you busy.. or maybe you don't and you need some entertainment.
To those who call me a gold digger, Donny was barely making any money when I first met him. Shortly after him and I got to gether and I learned some things about this business, I took over most of the production. So no, I did not just sit on my ass and let him support me and buy me things. I saved up money from working for him and bought my first car like most people who work do. We did not have this super easy life where money just came to our feet. It wasn't till after we BOTH were working together, that we started making money.
This break we are taking was decided before he made his choice to follow religion and I am not LEAVING him because of religion or because he wants to throw it all away. After being together so long and with each other everyday you start to feel stress towards each other and you notice a lot more fighting which we hardly ever did. It is true that I have never really been on my own and before I take the big marriage step I need to experience that. Ok enough for now.. gotta get ready for what the day has for me.

Good girl. Life has it's ups and downs, and being apart doesn't mean there's no love, sometimes it's just that.. being apart for a while. Absence makes the heart grow fonder, or it doesn't.. Sometimes that apart time is a better gauge of how good you are together (or not so the case may be). You are doing the right thing, and I hope that it all works out for both of you.

[TheLegacy]

You are right... I don't like my personal life all over the net and there are a lot of things that Donny has left out because of that. He needs to express himself and writing helps him to do that. I know he is a big topic right now people but seriously, if you don't like him or his choice then stay away from anything that has his name in it. Not trying to be mean or anything but I am sure you have enough going on in your own lives to keep you busy.. or maybe you don't and you need some entertainment.
To those who call me a gold digger, Donny was barely making any money when I first met him. Shortly after him and I got to gether and I learned some things about this business, I took over most of the production. So no, I did not just sit on my ass and let him support me and buy me things. I saved up money from working for him and bought my first car like most people who work do. We did not have this super easy life where money just came to our feet. It wasn't till after we BOTH were working together, that we started making money.
This break we are taking was decided before he made his choice to follow religion and I am not LEAVING him because of religion or because he wants to throw it all away. After being together so long and with each other everyday you start to feel stress towards each other and you notice a lot more fighting which we hardly ever did. It is true that I have never really been on my own and before I take the big marriage step I need to experience that. Ok enough for now.. gotta get ready for what the day has for me.

even the truth wont change Jim or those who simply like to believe in their mind what they want. Don and you need to take some time and I hope that your personal stuff gets sorted out at home and NOT on a webmaster board.

All the best to both of you and either one of you - feel free to hit me up if you want to vent or talk things out

[WarChild]

I think a mid-life crisis accelerated this entire process, not religion. When you're conditioned to be a hollow, superfictial shell - this is somewhat expected later in life. As time goes on and you begin to age, you become more & more aware of the unescapable truth. You feel a spiritual void....intellectuals typically turn to quantum mechanics, philosophy, or live life as normal before ride is over-- for comfort. While others, as in this case - with no self awareness or assurance turn to Christ or any deity-based religion for comfort.

The short of it....albeit I hate organized religion, and typically would classify this abrupt lifestyle change as "INSANE". However when someone turns to it at this point in their life? it's out fear. Not insanity, so if anything, I think he needs support of his dim-witted much much youngersidekick. Such a quick judgment/reaction to this entire circumstance....speaks volumes about her.


I doubt I need your assessment on the situation.

Couldn't have said it better.

[jigg]

good for her
6 years or not, she is her own person and has no obligations to follow. Why is it always the girls are expected to follow their man!?!

[Donny]

good for her
6 years or not, she is her own person and has no obligations to follow. Why is it always the girls are expected to follow their man!?!

Apparently you only read the thread title before responding. You missed...

My response

And Belinda's response

Read. Educate yourself. THEN respond.

[BusterBunny]

so we got to donate money to this too?

by far the funniest thing i have read this month

[xclusive]

On the bright side now that there is room the ********* guy can move from the guest room into Donnys

[squishypimp]

i hope everything works out for both of you

[jonesy]

Come on...religion RARELY, if ever, comes into play during a relationship. In fact unless devowed extremist, I doubt the subject even comes up often with 20-40 yr old couples. .

this comment alone shows you havent a clue and shouldnt be commenting on relationships.

[jimthefiend]

Apparently you only read the thread title before responding. You missed...

My response

And Belinda's response

Read. Educate yourself. THEN respond.

STFU


We're talking ABOUT you not TO you.

[dissipate]

It would be nice if people learned to stay the fuck out of other's personal lives.

[jimthefiend]

It would be nice if people learned to stay the fuck out of other's personal lives.

It would be nice if they didnt BLOG about it, then hang out on GFY arguing about the comments people make.

[Donny]

It would be nice if they didnt BLOG about it, then hang out on GFY arguing about the comments people make.

Justify kissing your "boshes" butt however you need to do so, Jim.

http://www.gofuckyourself.com/showpo...9&postcount=27

[jimthefiend]

Justify kissing your "boshes" butt however you need to do so, Jim.

http://www.gofuckyourself.com/showpo...9&postcount=27

This had nothing to do with Trey. You can stop that now.

[jimthefiend]

Justify kissing your "boshes" butt however you need to do so, Jim.

http://www.gofuckyourself.com/showpo...9&postcount=27

And lemme tell you where your "futures are going to take you".


You'll be looking for shooting work in a matter of weeks. By then she will have moved on and will be shacked up with someone new.


I know this to be true, I had a vision.





You can't even separate yourself from GFY, much less the industry. Hypocrite.