do you ever accidentally say your ex's name in front of your current GF?
 

uyyyyy it was like a freudian slip BIG TIME...

How does one explain that? just popped right out. Her friend came over, dogs were barking, i just said her name out of nowhere. Kinda put a damper on the night.

Wasn't during sex, i was just talking and her name went from my brain to spoken word. Needless to say my GF is mad pissed. My saturday is officially ruined. I had to hang my head and retreat to the computer. Has this ever happened to you?

Perhaps i can blame it on the glas sof red wine I had? Fuck she is pissed..

Serious advise please =))

"I was just kidding.. Happy halloween?" haha

no go...next?

tell her it's PTSD...

question is, in what situation did you call her your ex's name? If it was during sex this will be tough to get out of.

Tell her you have Tourette's and your ex's name is actually a curse word in your vocab.

That or just move on to someone else since it's probably doomed with her now.

since we are on the subject, do you like getting your hair pulled?

No, I don't.

ok thanks, no hard feelings, ok?

haha.. No hard feelings here.

hehe good.

tell her you were dazed and confused :)
but unless it's a new girl and you just broke up with your ex, hard to image how that could happen.

Negative, its been about 2.5 years now that we broke up

All the time.... They both have the same name.

Tell her you're really sorry, no again REALLY SORRY and that you have no idea how it happened. Tell her you of course love no one than her and that you will do whatever to make it up to her. Just lay yourself flat down, she will be pised ofr a bit, but if done with a bit of humor, she will come back and she will laugh about it.

DON'T go hide by the computer. Go after her, say that I know you're pissed, but I love you, so I'll just sit right here, next to you till you forgive me, and I know you will because no one loves you more than I do.

Be a man, face it and let her get it out, the faster the better.

that's really the best advice...

I have done a lot of things similar, but not that. Good luck sire.

If you have been out of the relationship for 2.5 years, you are fucked. lol. I could see if you came out of a long relationship and were just starting a new one and then saying an ex's name but not after 2.5 years sorry :(

this is the prob. no way out
worst advice ever. don't ever go after your girl saying i love yous and i'll sit here till you forgive me. that's not being a man whatsoever.

being a man is making a sincere apology with a restitution and accpeting the consequences of your actions.

Never had that problem I always tell them dirty names, it makes sex kinkier

Yeah, I did that too. Called her a different name on purpose but pretended like I really meant it. She got mad pissed but still best sex in a long time, and that with a girl who's normally a bit above the average crowd.

Did that during my earlier dates with my wife. We still joke about it up until now.

I think that's what he was getting at. But he's version...

I have called her the name of an ex. If they love you they will get over it.

it doesn't appear that way from here. he's suggesting the op feed the drama.



bad idea. especially long term.