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I'll be online sporadically over the next week. My grandmother died this morning.

I'm not religious nor was she so your prayers aren't necessary, but are appreciated as well as general well wishes and thoughts.

In 30 years this is the first immediate family member I've lost and I'm not quite sure how to handle it. I can't even deal with a pet dying and i'm usually an inconsolable mess for quite some time.

Trolls please avoid this thread. I have a thick skin, but a long memory.

She was 86. I saw her less than 12 hours before she died. She held my hand and looked in my eyes as best she could. My father was there for her final breath early today around 8:30 am.

Her last words to me, when she could still barely speak were "Don't rub your nose too much!" in regards to my weeping and runny nose. Last night it sounded like she was trying to get out "I love you." in reply to my statement of the same, but all she could get out was "i L..."

If you need anything from me and I can help, I'll be around but not consistently and not on any type of schedule as I'll be dealing with a very large influx of family as well as other arrangements and obligations. You can try me on icq (all contact info will be below) or hit me up via email: abandoned -@t- gmail dawt com.

For those waiting for whitelabels from gamelink or similar I will do my best to get them squared away during off-peak hours since I don't sleep much ever anyway.

aim: da orgasms
msn: [email protected]
yahoo: uno_linux
skype: uno_mang
icq: 111-914
email: uno -@t- gamelink dawt com
facebook: facebook/dauno (please specify 'webmaster' or 'gfy' if i don't know you well enough to know your first and/or last name in your friend request.

If I don't get back to you immediately, please understand, but I will do my best to return all correspondence. I'll get done as much as possible while i'm away from home at my grandmother's house. (my sister is too creeped out to stay here alone)

Thank you for your understanding during this difficult time of the passing of the family's matriarch.

Sorry for your loss man.

Sorry for your loss. I just went through the same thing 3 months ago. I was half way round the world so I didnt get to say bye. It still hurts but I know she is in a happy place now.

I'm so sorry. It's good that you got a chance to see her and say your good-byes. I lost my grandfather right around this time last year, so I know how you must be feeling.

You'll be in my thoughts.

I'm sorry to hear that man. My condolences. :(

Sorry to hear for your loss

I'm sorry for your loss Uno.

Sorry for your loss.

Your family are in my thoughts.

Very sorry to hear uno.

My condolences.

Take care of yourself.

rough time for you uno and your family

take it easy man

My Condolences, RIP........

I'm sorry for your loss. My grandmother is 76 and I can't imagine losing her.

sorry to hear that Uno, my condolenses. there is no correct way to grieve.

and for your grandma don't rub your nose too much :)

so sorry, I miss my grandmothers

sorry to hear about your loss. It's nice she had her family around her

Thoughts and prayers are with you. I miss my grandma so much, she passed when I was a senior in high school. I wrote a beautiful poem the day she died that I read during the eulogy. It was cosmic, when I finished typing the last words at school is exactly when she took her last breath. Sigh

Peace and hugs buddy

Brad

very sorry for your loss

Sorry for your loss.

Sorry man, take some time off.

All the best. Its awful losing anyone especially grandparents as you have your parents to be concerned for also. How are they? Be strong for them man.

I'm sorry for your loss. May your grandmother rest in peace.

Very sorry to hear that. :(

I dread the day i lose my gran. All my family will be affected but my mum won't cope with it at all...

very sorry to hear, it sounds like she was extremely successful in life

Some New York City love for ya brother - and for the loss of your Grandmother. Very sad!

Having lost loved ones in the past the only advice I can give you is to just let whatever emotions "come up" for you come up, don't try to avoid or suppress them; it's just your soul trying to find some peace from the pain, which it will do if you allow it to come out naturally, when it wants to. This may mean it "comes out" (the grief) in odd places and times but just let it, you'll heal faster and can then remember all the things you loved about your Grandma. Plus, she's watching down on you now anyway, and she's in a happier place. :)

Good luck!

Lost all of my grandparents over the years... I think I was lucky because I didn't see them much so it wasn't so hard.

Sorry a good part of the good in your life has moved on.

One ends and a new begins. Sorry to hear.

*hugs* I am very sorry to hear about your loss.

My grandmother has been in the hospital for the last week and we have all been told to not go too far from phones. It is never an easy time at all. Take what time you need.

sorry to hear babe :(

XoXo

My condolences and best wishes

Sorry to hear that mate. It's good you were with her at the end, a lot of people don't get to have that. Talk soon.

My condolences to you and the family, uno - I'm sorry for your loss :(

My condolences Uno, very sorry for your loss.

I'm sorry for your loss uno.

My Condolences and prayers to you and your family, Uno.

Sorry for your loss...

My last grandparent left me not so long ago, I know the feeling.

Thanks everyone. It's really appreciated. I'm trying to get as much work done as I can, but my head is still spinning.

We're having a private family viewing on wed. as well as the general wake on Friday.

im gonna skip the condolences part and go to the other point in your post.

inability to deal with death stems from inability to deal with your own mortality. once you get yourself together maybe u should read into the eastern religions. buddhism is a good one for understanding and fearlessly facing death.

we aint but ants on a big hill..

good luck....

Good luck with everything in your time of grieving. I know it can be rough.

Don't know you, but I understand the situation - holler if you need anything.