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Has anyone ever donated a kidney?
Anyone have any inside info?
what are the side effects, what is the process. etc etc. anyone donate one or know someone who has? |
My ex brother in law gave one of his kidneys to his mom about 20 years ago (he was about 25 at the time).
The surgery and the recovery was harder on him than it was on her in the short term but within 6-8 months he was pretty much back to normal and his mom has been problem free since the transplant. He was in the hospital about 4-5 days, she was in for about 8-10 days if I recall correctly. Some issues for him were complete elimination of any soft drinks, alcohol or processed drinks - for life - since he only has one kidney now and needs it to work perfectly if he's to live a long life without problems of his own. He took some type of meds during the recovery period but that ended fairly quickly. His mom had to take multiple meds to guard against rejection and other potential issues for several years but they tapered off as time went on, She did experience some significant weight gain/bloating from the Prednisone but that went away on its own after about a year. |
I'll treble the price if you donate two.
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yes, i have donated a kidney two times....
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i have a scar from when i got my appendix taken out when i was 6. i tell girls i just donated a kidney. they fall for it everytime
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Literally, no. But figuratively I've donated two...
I have a signed donar card, that I carry in my wallet. |
why donate? sell it. in my place one kidney will get you a 2nd hand car
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id like to get some real info from real people who has experienced it. |
I did .. to a starving homeless .. when coming out of the super market ...
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My ex wife donated one to someone she met online. The operation took place in the U.S. That was in 2007. She was never well again afterwards. She died last year in April.
On the other hand, my father passed away in 1985 and we donated both of his kidneys. Due to the anonymity of it all back then, we have no idea who recieved them and if the operations were successful, however I would like to think that someone, somewhere is living a healthy life because of him. It's a serious decision and not one to be taken lightly. It will affect your life for better or for worse and you won't know that until afterwards. There is no going back. |
kidney beans to a homeless shelter
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did she pass because of the surgery? |
Not yet, but I am a donor.
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Officially, no. However she was plagued with infection after infection, weight loss and was essentially never the same person again. It was discovered just prior to her death that she also had Multiple Sclerosis, but it generally doesn't kill people, at least not those in their 30s. |
One of my oldest son's best friends donated one to a stranger last year. He would have been 22-ish at the time.
There was a follow up story about them in the local paper not long ago. He's doing fine; the recipient has had some problems. If you would like me to check with him about giving permission for you to contact him, please email me. :) |
When I hunted, always gave the inside parts of the deer to a buddy, he loved that stuff
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have you ever thought of contacting the person who she donated it to? i think i would be interested. or is it still anonymous? |
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As I said, she was my ex wife at the time, so I don't have all the details. However, the story was in the media. From what I can gather and what I've been told by her family, a great friendship developed before the procedure between her and the recipient (a male from the U.S). However it is my understanding that after the operation, contact was kept for a month or so then suddenly ceased. I am not aware of the reasons why or whose choice that was. |
Are you really considering giving one of your kidneys away? Come on, don't be stupid, unless its to one of your children or something. Then if you die or have a rough life, then no worries, as it's for your kid(s).
Mother nature gave you two kidneys for a reason though. And it wasn't so you could give one of them away. |
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sorry in my world we are all human beings. the entire point of a donation is doing something to help someone live. that is all you fucking haters in the world today. anytime someone does something all you preach is misguided hate. then when something does get done you are the very same people with your hand out looking for credit. here is an opinion for you keep it to yourself loser. |
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Don't assert I'm a selfish prick because I'm not willing to give a kidney away though. |
no, but if things continue this way I might need one or two, so please don't donate :(
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all i am saying is calling people "stupid" for doing is bullshit. it is the easy thing to do. trust me im not your moral high ground type. it is simple, i am interested in helping a stranger. i am just super thankful for my life, family friends etc. and the older i get the more i realize my own hypocrisy as a human being. everyone talks about doing shit all the time. im tired of talking everyone talks about action i have decided in my life i want to only take action. |
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but if its something i believe in then i should be living it as proof. or what is the point of believing in it in the first place? |
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However, if this is a route you want to take, make sure to talk to a few high-end doctors first. Giving away a kidney is a big thing, and can fuckup the rest of your life as you know it. |
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i understand what you are saying this is not like buying and selling a car. it is life changing. and i plan on investigating fully. i just think giving something to a complete stranger and being able to meet that person, their family, even for a coffee would be life changing. i am seeking something like this in my life already. so we will see what happens. |
They can have all they want when I die or get killed ,if there is anything worth saving
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I forgot to reply yesterday - but I think it's awesome of you to consider it... basically letting someone live...
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never did that before
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You're gonna die alone and your relative is dying because of something you did.
SO MUCH FOR SOCIALIZED MEDICINE! |
about 5 or 6 times
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I hope by the time im really fucked up they have tons of extra organs for us to just throw in a new part :)
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