Any Divorced Men?
 

If you have had a divorce... How long was it before you seen another female?

I'm getting my divorce in about 4 - 6 months from now....Hell I'm only 21.. We got 2 baby girls together, and I'm just wondering how long other guys waited before they got with another female.

Anyone?

divorced twice.... was fuckin' bitches as the judge was signing the papers.... :glugglug

jesus, I'm almost 23 and further away from marriage than I've ever been before. must be an american thing to marry young.:helpme

gay marriages don't count.... your opinion on the matter is moot.

Married at 27
Separated at 30
Divorced at 32

Hooked up with someone new between the separation and divorce.

I got her pregnant the FIRST time I met her.:feels-hot
So I married her...

We just don't get along at all. She's not a good mother. There's just alot of reason I want out.. Too many to list. I doubt I'll get married again anytime soon.:thumbsup

As soon as her shit was on the curb....but it was few years before I moved in w/ another....

:thefinger

marriage is evil...

ouch, that explains a lot.:(

Amp, you know I proposed to you more than once. :winkwink:

I agree 110%

those were proposals? I thought you were threatening me....



punk.




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was fuckin around way before any divorce.. why I've been divorced so many times. No time limit young man.. Go get'm kid your wasting a good fuckin time.:glugglug

if you dont want kids, use protection. Its not rocket science to prevent pregnancy.

I'm very happy I had my daughters. We actually tried to have my second daughter, Emily. They are the best thing that's ever happend to me. No regrets at all :) :thumbsup

but are you happy youll hardly ever see them, and they will have a messed up childhood? And the majority of guys a single mom will get are total sleezeballs.

Im sure its great to be away from some dumb bitch, but the kids get screwed.

Um... I get full custody of the girls. She's already stated that she doesn't want custody. And my lawyer is aware of that. That's why I said before that she isn't a good mother. She doesn't change diapers, she doesn't do any cooking, she doesn't show them any attention. That's the main reason for the divorce. She has other " things " she'd rather be doing, Than taking care of her children.

thats cool then

Yeah very cool. :thumbsup

About 10 minutes.

It is sad, I am 40 and never been interested in marraige, nor do I ever see it happening. It seems like a bunch of bullshit and I have seen to many people get hurt in divorce and tormented in marraige.

I can't say I know how the rest of my life will go, but I don't want a family, so who cares:)

lol

I was married multiple times when I was in the military. Military personell have a higher rate of divorce than society at large. Military personell, specifically those that belong to the combat arms, are away more than they are at home and when the cat is away the mouse plays. Fortunately there were not any children involved with any of my marriages. I have zero intention of ever marrying again, or even having a relationship again. "Women. Can't live with them, but can't live without them." I enjoy my time without them just fine.

I guess I'll be the lone voice....in support of marriage...I'm not a guy...I'm a girl....

I've been married three times...

Before the ink was dried on the separation papers with the first two, I was dating....I figured the contract was broken...there was no reason to sit home.

My husband, Tev....well....after eight years...he's the best.....

Marriages can work....and, often do....if you both treat it like a partnership and a business.....and you're friends....best friends...

Cause when the bloom wears off the rose..and the plumbing breaks down, you damned well better be able to talk to each other....

Never married so never divorced however I am always on the lookout for the future ex mrs dirtyone.

Men come and go. I'm glad they come. I'm glad I come. I'm glad they go.

However long you wait...make sure you buy condoms :thumbsup

Married twiced. Divorce twiced. Both were adventures to put it mildly. Some great moments, some not so great moments.

In today's world I don't recommend marriage to anyone. Its an out of date concept. 90% of the married friends I have are all miserable and near divorce too. The stresses from everything else along with marriage itself and all the daily routines that go with it are just too much for most couples to survive especially if you throw some kids into the mixture.

I'm FREE and FREE I shall be for the rest of my life.

Oh, and in answer to your question I had a 21 yo drop dead gorgeous girl within weeks after wife 2 and I separated and a gorgeous nympho within days after wife 1 and I ended.

Money makes even old dudes look great thank god and the girls that flock to it are never ending.

Funny, that's what my first wife said.

Sounds like to me Demented if feeling pretty crappy about the thing. Dangerous place to show some sensititivity. Damn, dangerous place for a bad speller to I suspect.

Most guys would be with the next woman as soon at they can find them, in my case that's a long time. Denmented you do waht feels right for you.

You know though, I'm really disappointed. I saw a picture you posted and thought you were a she, I dang near proposed. Was that your X? If so, work it out, work it out man. :)

married twice, divorced twice, . . . . was not aware there was supposed to be a waiting period.

But damn dude, 21 and 2 kids! I know you love your kids and all, but what the hell were you thinking?

looking for my 3rd ex-wife now:glugglug

I think that marriage is a good thing if you find the right woman, I'm 28 and have been with the same woman for 12 years now, we've been married for 2 and a half and have 3 kids.

It's strange though because with all of my friends, only a couple are married and the ones that are married, they don't have any kids.

I think that I'm lucky to get my kids growing up now, heck in 18 years, I'll be 46 years old and should have all of my kids grown up and out of the house, so I'll be able to enjoy life and have 3 kids out making grandkids to take care of me years down the line when I'm old and can't shovel my snow or whipe my ass, ha ha ha.