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cherrylula 04-27-2010 11:25 AM

When you have "too much on your plate" ...
 
So I recently had a baby, she is 5 months old already, and it is time to get back to some biz.

Is it just me, or does springtime make you go a little nutty and give you the desire to make changes in your life? I don't do the New Year resolution thing, but by this time of the year I feel like simplifying my life. Plus the last few years lots of major changes in life. It can get hard to focus.

Too much on my plate. Way too many domains. I think for a long time I have just sort of moved on to other projects and really need to go back and clean things up. I've let so many domains expire, it pains me, but I cannot do everything I want to do.

Its fucking frustrating as hell. I have a zillion things that could totally profit, but spread too thin.

Anyone else feel this way? sometimes it is difficult to even decide where to begin!

chupachups 04-27-2010 11:28 AM

Often often.. 30% of my time goes to structuring myself and my work. Spring is good for changes, winter is much better for work (dark days).

seeandsee 04-27-2010 11:31 AM

i am really in bad period , lazy, angry etc, i need to find exit

Sid70 04-27-2010 11:33 AM

K.I.D.S. Admit it, your life will never be the same again.

Zuzana Designs 04-27-2010 11:38 AM

Make a list and work your way down it. The 1st thing being the most important and the money makers. It will keep you organized and give you a sense of accomplishment as you mark stuff off. Kids will change your life too. I was an MP in the Army when I had my son. Now I design porn sites and live on the beach and could not be happier with life.

cherrylula 04-27-2010 11:59 AM

yeah you guys are right, I know I am in an adjustment period right now, transition etc.

30% structuring huh, sounds about right... that is where I am lacking right now.

I keep making lists, but I lose them. :1orglaugh

I want a condo in Studio City too, simple life please. lol

camperjohn64 04-27-2010 12:16 PM

I have too much on my plate too.

Sid70 04-27-2010 12:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Zuzana Designs (Post 17079469)
Make a list and work your way down it. The 1st thing being the most important and the money makers. It will keep you organized and give you a sense of accomplishment as you mark stuff off. Kids will change your life too. I was an MP in the Army when I had my son. Now I design porn sites and live on the beach and could not be happier with life.

Quoted for truth.

BestXXXPorn 04-27-2010 12:24 PM

Focus on 2 or 3 things at most otherwise every project will suffer... Keeping your plate down to 2 or 3 items will not only make you less crazy but also let you create better products across the board. :thumbsup

martialtiger 04-27-2010 12:28 PM

I just moved 2 weeks ago after having lived in a condo for 3 years (Lived in Van Nuys and moved to Woodland Hills). It's been a welcome change of scenery for my wife and I. Change is great! Good luck to you all and hope you find the change you're looking for.

CunningStunt 04-27-2010 03:48 PM

I'm in precisely the same boat, have a 4 month old nipper, haven't spent enough time doing hard graft this year yet. Have let about 40 domains go this year already, trying to trim everything down to 3 or 4 main projects, max.

There is always the danger of spreading yourself too thin, then not doing anything properly.

Fletch owes me an email btw!

NaughtyRob 04-27-2010 06:07 PM

I've been that way for years. I need 3 of me.

Jakez 04-27-2010 07:20 PM

I have basically always been like this (once I started working anyways), I've got an ideas/todo list a mile long, once I finish one thing I never have enough time to get it off the ground because I'm occupied with the next thing...

alias 04-27-2010 07:24 PM

Just for the first time ever got mostly all of my domains operational. It felt nice, for about an hour.

Fletch XXX 04-27-2010 07:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CunningStunt (Post 17080530)

Fletch owes me an email btw!

hmm i checked my email, both from server and gmail and I dont have anything. Please resend to fletchxxx @ gmail.com please.

CunningStunt 04-27-2010 11:10 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Fletch XXX (Post 17081055)
hmm i checked my email, both from server and gmail and I dont have anything. Please resend to fletchxxx @ gmail.com please.

This was a few months ago, you were probably up to your eyes in diapers. Will check my mail and send again, it wasn't urgent!

LoveSandra 04-28-2010 01:44 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by GetNaughty (Post 17080901)
I've been that way for years. I need 3 of me.

:2 cents::thumbsup:thumbsup:thumbsup:thumbsup

Konkan 04-28-2010 03:52 AM

Start organizing yourself ASAP. The clock is ticking away......

DamnGoodRatio 04-28-2010 04:34 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by chupachups (Post 17079431)
Often often.. 30% of my time goes to structuring myself and my work. Spring is good for changes, winter is much better for work (dark days).

:thumbsup:thumbsup:thumbsup

Fletch XXX 04-28-2010 05:00 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CunningStunt (Post 17081387)
This was a few months ago, you were probably up to your eyes in diapers. Will check my mail and send again, it wasn't urgent!

was probably during my downtime!

Please just email my gmail from now on. :thumbsup

Ill give you my cell if youn want :thumbsup

georgeyw 04-28-2010 05:29 AM

There was a famous race car driver here who had a fantastic saying :

"If you bite off more than you can chew, chew like hell"

candyflip 04-28-2010 05:43 AM

I'm pretty much Mr. Mom full time and with a third on the way, it doesn't look to be ending any time soon. My to do list doesn't shrink it grows.

I manage these days with about 5-6 hours of sleep each night.

cherrylula 04-28-2010 08:42 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by candyflip (Post 17081891)
I'm pretty much Mr. Mom full time and with a third on the way, it doesn't look to be ending any time soon. My to do list doesn't shrink it grows.

I manage these days with about 5-6 hours of sleep each night.

damn you need to post more or something! :1orglaugh

5-6 hours isn't too bad. But I don't know how people manage with kids so close together now that I have one. Do you guys have help? damn, 3?? good luck to you both!

candyflip 04-28-2010 08:46 AM

My mom comes a few days during the week and I get some real work done then.

Otherwise, I get up before them and get stuff out of the way. Then during naps and while they eat...I get some stuff done.

It's tough. It's tiring. But it's worth it.

DateDoc 04-28-2010 08:52 AM

Motivation can be tough to come by at times. To motivate myself I pick something out I want to buy and only let myself buy it when I have increased my income by that much. If I want a new watch that costs $5k and my monthly income is $10k I will not buy it until I make the extra $5k whether it takes 1 month of making $15k or 2 months of making $12.5k.

In the end you will see that your income keeps going up as you come up with more things you want to buy. Net effect is more money in your bank acct. Believe in yourself, believe you can do it and you will.

cherrylula 04-28-2010 10:03 AM

thank you everyone for your nice posts... I had to make another thread now. lol

http://www.gofuckyourself.com/showthread.php?p=17082729

FrozenJag 04-28-2010 10:12 AM

I don't understand why you guys don't sell your domains instead of just letting them go. Doesn't make sense unless they weren't worth anything to begin with.


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