Hahahaha Now Iv GONE AND DONE iT
 

Me and my misses have been together for 25 years and we never got married, Well a couple of nights ago I just mentioned about us never getting married becuase we were watching a film and it had a weding in it, and now she really wants to get married. All I have heard for the last few days is about ...getting married ..should I do it or not ?

yep I sure have, dont know if I really want to get married and besides that its just to damm expensive

Too bad the UK doesn't have common law marriage, or you could tell her you're already married to her :1orglaugh

That's a long time,surprised she stuck it out that long

lol yeah

We did try it once before a very long time ago when I was in my early 20s and at the time I saved up 650 GBP which was supposed to be for the wedding but I wanted a motorcycle and ended up using the money for it Dont think she ever forgave me for it either cause she always brings it up every so often

Are you seriously asking the people from GFY what to do with your life & wife!? :1orglaugh



Seriously mate. Go and get married, enjoy your wife, watch how she becomes totally besotted & happy in life while dealing with the arrangements :thumbsup

Marry her. It's been 25 years. You've already proven that you're in for the long haul!

If you've already mixed your finances, then there is no reason not to. If you haven't yet mixed your finances, there still really isn't any reason not to, but there is more to think about.

If you've been living like a married couple just go ahead and make it official.

The UK does?!??? OMG, I thought it did.

If you love her, then... DUH!

Not sure on that one, I thought they did. After being together for 2 years or something.

But fuck knows, you could just deny knowing her if you split up :1orglaugh

http://www.direct.gov.uk/en/Governme...es/DG_10026937

Cohabitation - living together

There are over four million couples living together in England and Wales in cohabitation. Although cohabitants are now given legal protection in several areas, they and their families have significantly fewer rights and responsibilities than people who are married or who have formed a civil partnership.

Most people think that, after they've been living with their partner for a couple of years, they become 'common law husband and wife' with the same rights as married couples. This is not the case. In fact, couples who live together have hardly any of the same rights as married couples or civil partners.

There is no such thing as ‘common law marriage’.

Dont know if you can call it love after 25 years tbh. When you have been with somebody for that long it just becomes "habit" being with each other, but saying that it would be very strange if she wasent around

lol ... BTW i should get om ICQ tommorrow sometime I hope, gonna put that other site up I was on about :)

Well, you fucked that up good now haven't you... Stop watching girly movies.

Fair enough! lol.

Yeah ok mate I'll be on there tomoz, might have some more stuff to show you aswell :winkwink:

LOL it was a love story movie thing which my misses was watching

and u wanna marry her? only reason you are with her is probably cause you are afraid of being alone.. which is a reason why many couples stay together.. they dont think they can do better...

you cant even say you are in love with her.. so what ya doing with her

I was certainly in love with her when we first met. I dont know if you have ever had a long term relationship but it happens to a lot of couples. You get so used to them being around. I also would not say that I was afraid of being on my own because we have split up before, and I lived on my own which I did enjoy, but I was a lot younger when it happened. Its her that wants to marry me Im not sure I want to get married

don´t do it unless you are sure...

No kidding... now your parents or you get to spend all this unnecessary money on one day to make her feel special, and then you go back to your lives and live like you have been for the last how many years... except now, your legally together. Hope it works out, because if it doesn't, you just gone and made it a whole lot more interesting.... :2 cents:

If you get married now, you'll end up getting divorced in two years. Happens all the time. You have no one to blame but yourself. :pimp

Happily married.

She happily.
You married.

after 25 years I think you owe it to her for sticking around :1orglaugh

Thats good to know, wouldn't like to fall into that!

lol very true that

I think the Bike was a great choice:thumbsup:1orglaugh

That's marriage: a stupid random commentary gone terribly wrong...

i think you should

i think that too

You stayed together for so long without getting married. At least you know that works.

Well best of luck regardless, buddy :)

Why not? you've been together for such a long time...

You have been with her 25 years and aren't already sure enough about your future with her to commit to marriage?

If you do ask her then I suggest leaving out the bit on how you don't know if it is love after 25 years. If I heard that line it would be a deal breaker for me.

LOL... I would marry you if you were not already hitched :winkwink:

:thumbsup

A movie is such a good motive to get married :1orglaugh:1orglaugh:1orglaugh

xmas13, how did you managed to bump a 6 month old topic? :321GFY

The only bad side I can think of is the sharing of wealth between two partners.