how many of you with girls you know you wont marry..
 

curious... ive had this problem.. ive gone out with girls and i know i wont marry them at all.. reason being maybe they suck in bed.. boring.. no hobbies.. too clingy.. etc..

so im kinda dating this girl now and i told her i dont wanna get married at all.. she didnt take it too well, i feel bad though..

so how many of you have gfs you know you dont wanna marry? is it worth keeping em or just cutting ties?

The way i see it gfs are different from possible wives.. i could date some chic and be her bf but doesnt mean shes the type of girl i wanna marry

fuck her in the butt on the side and find a girl that you like more

Just fucking dump her, or ignore her. Two options, either way she'll be gone once you don't show interest.

you might know now you wont marry her, but after you can get more and more attached to her... my point is that, never say never

for me to marry a girl, she has to be absolutely gorgeous.. like i look at her and go wow, perfect girl..

she has to be good in bed, and love sex and love giving head..
she has to know how to clean/cook
she has to be fun and not boring
she gotta have hobbies and friends

So far haven't found this in any girl at all..

It may seem picky but im a young guy and can pull girls easily.. if i marry a girl that means im giving up A LOT OF other girls.. so this girl has to be worth it

Yo, xxweekxx hit me up man...

I have no intention of EVER getting married.

If they do not like it, they can keep steppin'. There are plenty of fish in the sea.

:2 cents:

will do in few hrs.. gotta finish eating and watching a movie :-)

did u tell that to ur gf/exgfs

wow, you sound pretty shallow. It sounds like you want a servant more than a partner.

haha I think you will die a single man with those high of standards! I know cause I am the same way.. But the thing is I'm fine never marrying again. I'm 39 and was married for a year at the young of 21. I love having my hot fuck buddies that are great in bed but head cases in personalities. I've gave up looking for the perfect girl and if she wants to find me AWESOME but till then I'll still have fun.

also my perfect girl I don't care if she can cook or clean.. I'm not a slob and I'd enjoy a micro wave dinner or eating out just the same..

because i want her to be able to cook/clean?

man its natural.. heck down here in latin america every girl can cook.. i want someone who can feed the kids i have with her....

you can call it shallow.. i call it important..

those expectations guarantee no divorce.. those are reasons ive left girls for..

left a girl cuz she sucked in bed after yrs
left a girl cuz shes a mess doesnt clean, nada
left a girl cuz she doesnt give head

etc etc

i am a careful man, i dont want a divorce

p/s nothing worse than going to a girls bathroom and seeing stains all over the toilet/bath tub, and seeing panties on the floor with skid marks

ive been there :(

just look at what you put up top.. looks, sex, cooking and cleaning. at the bottom of the list is personality. just my observations.

my girl does the cooking (awesome good stuff), i try to clean as much as possible. she's a hottie, but that shit gets old fast. she is smart, and funny, (and thinks the same of me) and that's why we are together.

Yep.

I have told them that upfront. Including my foot fetish, and their toes WILL be sucked and fucked. No need for me to waste time. I like to cut tot he chase. Some cut and run right there. Some thought they would change me. Some accepted the fact of the matter.

That includes covering most of their other typical questions.... do you have all your teeth, smoke, drink, drugs, kids, every married, live in a basement, live with mommy, have a job, have a car, have health insurance..... and so on.

When you get into your late twenties and beyond. The 'interests' and questions women have on their check lists dramatically change. Even more so the older you get. Once their looks start to fade, the golden shovel starts a swinging in the air.

:1orglaugh

yeah no matter how hot a girl is...you will get over that soon enough...and then she better be able to keep you occupied in other ways...conversation....shared hobbies etc

whenever i see a girl that is way too hot, i always remind myself that some guy out there is super sick of her shit..lol

:1orglaugh:1orglaugh:1orglaugh do you have a gf now?

thats why i included funny and has hobbies.. but its always nice to have a hot girl.. take her to a club and see shes hotter than other girls there...

fucking priceless & no need to cheat then

I understand having a girlfriend you wouldn't marry when you are in school, but why would you keep dating someone you didn't really enjoy as an adult?

Yes.

As I said, some simply learn to accept they are not going to change you. They listen when you tell them to stop bringing up things that annoy you. Remind them to door swings both ways, and they can leave at any time.

Finding a gf is not that hard. You can always find someone to fuck you on some sort of routine. Finding someone who loves and accepts you for who you are is the real trick. I would rather have silence and acceptance then having to worry about impressing my buddies at 40. I have never gave a shit about their opinions. I am the one fucking her.

:pimp

maybe shes cool as a gf.. but u know shes too boring to spend the rest of your life with.

GF = few yrs probably
wife = forever, and ever, and for me if i live to be 70yrs, thats almost 50yrs of my life

will you marry this current girl :upsidedow

Why marry at all?

You don't need a wife for cooking, cleaning, fucking.

Eat out, find a cleaning lady, and rent a flat for your mistress!

http://www.experienceproject.com/gro....php?g=409&s=d
http://www.nomarriage.com/

http://www.mrsexist.com/love1.gif

good for you for being honest.

i love http://www.nomarriage.com/

got their ebook.. fucking good shit..

Just keep leading her on,chicks dig that sort of thing

No. I will not.

and she is cool with this? where did you find her :1orglaugh:1orglaugh

https://youtube.com/watch?v=VfxF6UkoX-g

http://lettersfromlouis.files.wordpr...rnication2.jpg

Yes. However she wasn't at first. But she got over it. That said, she is not the first to agree to my terms. I tell people this shit up front. Just like I tell them about my foot fetish and intentions for their feet.

I have told her, and others before her, if there were kids, we amassed wealth, or had been together for 20 years... I would simply have my lawyer draw up a legal agreement to who gets what if we broke up. Then the agreement is in place, we sat down, agreed to terms and can get on with life. No marriage needed.

Money is the easy part. Whether long term love, or one night romance.
:2 cents:

do you notice after some years u really get bored and want a new girl :helpme

this is my primary problem.. i wonder how married men do it??

i mean i could be married, and travel to say colombia for business, and see all this hot ass i can be fucked... u better believe i'll be fucking those asses..

so yeah, you married men, how the hell arent u bored of fucking your wife? dont you wanna fuck something new?

We can all be honest on GFY...

Yes. This is why I get to 'fuck around'. She just does not want to see or hear about it. :pimp

They cheat.

Exactly. The only difference it the level of lie.

Amen to dat shit.

lucky muthafucker.. if i get a girl like that i aint going nowhere.lol

Does she get to fuck around too?

I have told her she could. Just do not be fucking them in my bed or house.

Same rules apply. I do not want to see or hear about it.

'Love' and sexual desires are two different things. For me I just need a taste or three of some new skeezer. The first time is the excitement. New toes, new snatch that is tighter, wetter, looser, drier than hers. After the first time, I 'may' go back for a second or third. But by the third time, I am ready to go home and typically have a new found appreciation.

I have to be reminded at times how good I have it, and even at it's worst. It is not all bad. She knows about the models always offering up sex. She knows about my past, and that sometimes I just have to have something different for a night. She just does not want to see, or hear about it.

:1orglaugh:1orglaugh

I just found that very funny.

It does get boring. Been there. And she was considered smoking hot by all physical standards.

In the end it though it was the personality that killed it. The bitch wanted me to give up more and more over time. In the end it was our our conflicts of personality that killed it.

I want the same things you do in a wife. I've never tried the foreign route but I'm considering it. That or perhaps putting it all out there to a dating professional and/or website. I'm not sure. http://www.nomarriage.com/why_foreig...re_better.html is really interesting!

And you recommend the ebook? lol.... for real? I might check it out :1orglaugh

Every girl in Latin America can cook? What the hell are you talking about? :1orglaugh

So you also think that because a girl meets those "requirements" you are gauranteed to never divorce? Wow you must really be young and have little to no life experience. There are hundreds, thousands of other things that are far more important in a marriage than the superficial stuff you mentioned and they probably won't even ocurr to you until you have been with someone for years and been through lots of different situations.

:2 cents:

Smartest post in the thread.

who cares.. its my list.. i get to decide.. im the one getting married, i can be 100% selfish..
jeez

its my life right? i want to be completely selfish... listen im young, im a funny guy.. tons of friends.. hobbies.. intelligent.. and i do well..

the girl has to be worth it.. simple and short.. it may seem superficial to you guys, but im not gonna settle..

any girl i marry i consider her to be "lucky".. i have a lot to bring to the table.. she should too

a lot of them. i remmeber bringing girls back home.. fuck em.. in the morning they've made breakfast and lunch in the fridge.. then they ask me if i want them to come back and cook dinner/clean :1orglaugh

Latin women > american chics any day

Yeah but saying that they all know how to cook and are willing to cook is far fetched to say the least.

You are the one getting married, but she is also getting married, so being selfish is a sure sign that the marriage won't work. And for your information, nobody gets married according to stuff on a "list" It just doesn't work that way. This isn't American Pie.

Californication is an awesome show!

But on a sidenote, marriage scares me. I have no problem being in a committed long-term relationship but something about making it "official" bugs me. I feel like I would be one to have the "label" of being married affect me. I would feel trapped! In a way I am married because I have co-signed an auto loan, ha!

i agree, but i have my list.. honestly man

why the fuck would i marry an ugly girl?
why the fuck would i marry a girl who hates sex?
why would i marry a girl who doesnt wanna give head?

if you think about it, you want the same thing, im just willing to lay it out in front of anyone...

i dont know one guy who doesnt want a girl who is beautiful, sexy, loves sex, and likes giving head? but im evil cuz im listing it..

i have my list, period.. if a girl doesnt love sex im not getting married, if shes fat, nope... if she hates head.. nope.. if you think about it, im not being too unrealistic..

Hey It's a good list and I agree with everything you said. But have you ever considered that maybe a girl may act like she loves to give head while you're daiting, but after a few years of marriage you may notice that your cock gets sucked less and less all the time, amd she does do it it is with less enthusiadm thane before? It0s been known to happen.

The same concept can be applied to all the other points on your list. She may cook and clean a lot while you're living together, but a few months into the marriage she land a carreer job and have less time for household chores.

Nope.

You will come to find in time those things will be secondary to things that truly matter and keep you sane. Some things that come to mind... no fighting of the same bullshit day in and out. Appreciation of silence and being left alone. Mild agreement on topics of interest. Someone to have a remotely intelligent discussion about life's issues, politics, money and the world as it effect you.

In the grand scale,... most of the things you've listed you will find are secondary priorities if they even make it that high over time.

:2 cents:

ive been in relationships as long as 4yrs, and we broke up cuz of yeah, arguements and no sex...

but if i marry a girl, and she stops putting out, im dumping her ass.. but divorce is so messy, family, kids, money, court...

prolly why im scared of it too.... btw sex is very important though.. dont know why u guys keep moving it to secondary.. for me its fucking primary.. im not gonna be fucking her personality or her intelligence.. yeah i want her to have those things, but if i give u an amazingly intelligent woman who doesnt like fighting, but fucks u only once every 3 months, would u stay?

you know what? no more arguing.. i think some men are not made to get married.. i cant keep my dick in my pants... if i marry ill cheat on her ass or leave her for another woman(if the other woman is better)

so i think im better off with fuck buddies