...girls! blah!
 

I met the cutest, coolest chick on halloween, named Hanna. Talked all week on the phone. We went out thursday night and talked for 4 hours. totally talked about dating each other, everything was supercool!

tonight, i'm suppost to be taking her out and of fucking course, she drops out and cancels the date. she's not feeling well. Which is a line, of course. so i'm going out with another girl, Tara, who I also met on halloween who likes me. I was not going to give her a chance because of the other girl Hanna... I'm so pissed, I REALLY LIKED THIS GIRL!

...so if she does decide to go to this show, i will be fucked either way... Usually when girls bail, there is still a 50/50 that she will show up, at least in my experience.

We will see. It's so hard to meet quality people nowadays, when things happen, it just sucks that much more...

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Pics of said girl? Was it her costume that got you all hot for her?

Damn she devils every one of them

sorry to hear, but can't resist the topic to post this pic ( so don't take it personally :1orglaugh )

http://i37.tinypic.com/2i1fmaa.jpg

It was a fetish party that i met both of them at. Hanna was cinderella and Tara was a sour puss, she had a lemon dangling between her legs. It was cute. I worshipped both of their cute little tootsies and yeah, it was a good night.

lol, thanks for the "ego boost" d-null :thumbsup

go for guys instead

Hanna is a single mom, broke, unemployed, which i feel bad for. Tara is not as pretty, but at least she has a good career in the healthcare field. ...And i guess looks are not everything. I really have to learn that. Maybe thats why it happened.

OMG, they hit on my metro ass enough, blah

:1orglaugh I got lots more, but I'll spare you and save them for another thread :thumbsup

What are you, a total amateur?

She's just testing you man - you made massive mistakes in talking on the phone too much and talking for 4 hours on Thursday....you are WAAAAY too available and you turned her off.

So just play it cool, make sure she knows you still went out and had a great time....don't DIRECTLY tell her you were out with another chick, just make the implication.

Freeze her out for a few days, then give her a call when you are doing something casual....be like "Hey I'm on my way to the shooting range (or whatever you like to do) want to tag along?" That way it's not a "date"....but it IS a date....see what I did thar?

Don't be needy, don't be available - from the sounds of it you might have already came off way to strong....do what I said - freeze her out - and you might have a chance at recovery.

fuck the recovery idea man, what do you want to do, torture the guy? ignore her is the best approach, if (and very slim to nil chance) she comes back and comes on strong, then go for it, but the best approach is to forget about her completely, there are girls all over the place, don't waste another minute of energy on this one :2 cents:

you read it totally wrong man, she knows me by reputation, i used to throw the biggest fetish parties here in Denver.
http://www.westword.com/2005-05-19/n...out-the-kinks/
She's liked me for a long time. and i guess we rolled together a couple of years back, although i don't remember it. It was cool, it was what it was, no apologies for that. But I hear you man, that she could be spinning it like that on the game, but i don't think so. Sad thing is that i won't ever call her again. She's already done, she just doesn't know it yet :(

Oh I didn't understand there was a past / previous history.

Yeah forget it....

Gee....it's so hard to meet decent quality people at the biggest fetish parties in Denver :disgust

Humph!

Aw, that wasn't mine, The state of Colorado shut me down long ago. They are even more thrilled with what I'm doing now, lol. Their attorney called me the devil in court. I really don't think it matters where you meet someone. In general though, people are fucked and it is harder to find "good people" out there, than it used to be imho.

Interesting thing was that Denver Police were pretty cool with everything. I even hired some to work the events, the problems were from the state. And the "mansion parties" in L.A. just kinda faded after that.

sounds like you're doing something right :winkwink::winkwink: :1orglaugh

lol, yes, we have a love/hate relationship.

The trick for your mental health as well as sending the right message to the girl is ... Not giving a shit one way or the other.


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you should film your life... it makes me feel better at the end of the day

You really are to available. We girls get bored easy when you don't make it a challenge. You need to find something to keep you busy and distracted and if she can go out, great, but if she can't that would be fine too because you are busy with <insert whatever here>. Getting a life of your own is the only way you are going to keep her.

sounds like a winner.

From my experience, cops don't seem to care about that crap. It's always some retard District Attorney wanting a nice sexy win to brag about during the next election.

Girls sure like to talk for hours and hours.

Just bone both

She did you a favor by canceling the date. Now do yourself a favor and delete her number.

thanks for the advice ya'll :)

Lmfao. True. :thumbsup

I'll send her this thread

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh ...

you aren't going to meet any kind of 'serious' girls at a fetish party..get real man. if you just want to hit and quit then who gives a fuck? but if you are looking for something real you are kidding yourself.

Call her a stupid bitch and kick her in the ass every so often. Women like a challenge. :thumbsup

(seriously, do women never mature past high school theatrics?)

Definitely not a girl i would even give a chance too :2 cents:

Actually I met one at one of my events, when i was doing them and it lasted for 5 years. We are still friends.

Met ANOTHER one in 2004 at the dungeon in Hollywood when it was off of highland and melrose and that one lasted until last year. We are also still buddies. Jasmine, I took her to the XBIZ conference in 2006, some of you met her.

...as I said, a fetish party as opposed to a club does not matter. Or I'm just a really lucky guy.

don't stereotype, alot of decent girls go to fetish parties, and are just waiting for the "right guy" to come along (of course the concept of "the right guy" is a mysterious and confusing one when it comes to most women :1orglaugh )

Maybe she really doesn't feel well, have you considered that? Geshhh people, your reading into it to much. We talk for hrs and hrs, if it's gonna happen it will....BUT if she hears of you our with 2nd palce girl...u gonna be fucked. LOL

I would rather spend it with someone I had a good time with, I don't care about how many hrs where spent doing this or that.

Good Luck, also it doesn't matter that u met her at a fetish party....common people, it just shows that you both share a same interest. Don't believe everything you read in this thread, some of you guys are a trip about dating rules.

i second that

Yeah Lexi, we talked today, are going to try hanging out again next week. I know, just got frustrated, and thought about Hanna the whole night anyways. And I agree, there are too many rules sometimes that just may just "86" you anyways, better to go with your heart.

That sucks...good luck with the girl!