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07-09-2009, 11:36 PM

I am still friends with every girl I have been in love with... which is 3, going back since the time that I was 15 years old. Some women I date seem to think it is dysfunctional, for the most part. Even though two of them are married with kids. But out of the 3, that was 14 years of my life.

I am actually quite proud of this fact. I don't broadcast it or anything, but if women I date ask, I do tell them that I have zero drama as far as ex's and give them that example. So WTF is wrong with keeping in touch with women that I loved a looong time ago?

So, I was just curious if any of you have this situation as well.

Sorry, not a porn thread so to speak.

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07-09-2009, 11:43 PM

i think thats just fucking weird.

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07-09-2009, 11:48 PM

lol. thanks. shit just kinda happened that way for me. is it really that rare?

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07-09-2009, 11:50 PM

Girls don't wanna hear that shit, man.

Girls hate other girls, especially if you have a past together.

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07-09-2009, 11:59 PM

Originally posted by jmcb420

Girls don't wanna hear that shit, man.

Girls hate other girls, especially if you have a past together.

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07-10-2009, 12:00 AM

None of my ex girlfriends will even talk to me. Any girl I've dated for more than 2 weeks HATES me.

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07-10-2009, 12:02 AM

Originally posted by jmcb420

Girls don't wanna hear that shit, man.

Girls hate other girls, especially if you have a past together.

yeah that's true 420, but what am I going to do, lie? I guess I am fucked both ways with some women.

Also, maybe I subconsciously say it because once I have blown their mind about being in the Adult Industry, perhaps a track record of relationship stability evens things out... or maybe that is just fucked up logic.

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07-10-2009, 12:08 AM

...and i wont hide what I do, either they will start asking why i get 20 checks a week in the mail, or why there is some model in lingerie running around my house. why i have so many lights and cameras, why i drive a Mercedes yet only work "part time" or why my friends are so "weird", lol.

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07-10-2009, 12:14 AM

Originally posted by digitaldivas

yeah that's true 420, but what am I going to do, lie? I guess I am fucked both ways with some women.

Also, maybe I subconsciously say it because once I have blown their mind about being in the Adult Industry, perhaps a track record of relationship stability evens things out... or maybe that is just fucked up logic.

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07-10-2009, 12:16 AM

Originally posted by digitaldivas

...and i wont hide what I do, either they will start asking why i get 20 checks a week in the mail, or why there is some model in lingerie running around my house. why i have so many lights and cameras, why i drive a Mercedes yet only work "part time" or why my friends are so "weird", lol.

Well then forget what I just told you about SEO......

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07-10-2009, 12:24 AM

Originally posted by jmcb420

Well then forget what I just told you about SEO......

lol. true though, i used to do that route, actually, but women tend to pick up on things and i have found that in the long run, honesty is the best policy unless she is a one night stand.

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07-10-2009, 12:43 AM

Don't ask don't tell

Most of my exgirls do have a problem when talking about other girls.
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07-10-2009, 12:53 AM

Originally posted by digitaldivas

I am still friends with every girl I have been in love with... which is 3, going back since the time that I was 15 years old. Some women I date seem to think it is dysfunctional, for the most part. Even though two of them are married with kids. But out of the 3, that was 14 years of my life.

I am actually quite proud of this fact. I don't broadcast it or anything, but if women I date ask, I do tell them that I have zero drama as far as ex's and give them that example. So WTF is wrong with keeping in touch with women that I loved a looong time ago?

So, I was just curious if any of you have this situation as well.

Sorry, not a porn thread so to speak.

You honestly don't get it?

Just about all relationships end because one of the people involved isn't interested anymore. Usually, the other person still is. Chances are that at least for that person, some of those feelings are still there.

In those friendships with your exes, either you or they are likely to still have some feelings that go beyond friendship. Plus, judging from the fact that you were in a relationship together, chances are that you find each other at least somewhat attractive.

So what you're telling new girls is this: you're friends with women you find attractive, who also find you attractive, and either you or those women are likely to still have some feelings that go beyond mere friendship.

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07-10-2009, 06:02 AM

Originally posted by Libertine

Just about all relationships end because one of the people involved isn't interested anymore. Usually, the other person still is. Chances are that at least for that person, some of those feelings are still there.

In those friendships with your exes, either you or they are likely to still have some feelings that go beyond friendship. Plus, judging from the fact that you were in a relationship together, chances are that you find each other at least somewhat attractive.

So what you're telling new girls is this: you're friends with women you find attractive, who also find you attractive, and either you or those women are likely to still have some feelings that go beyond mere friendship.

Exactly!

I had a girlfriend in college who insisted she was "just friends" with her ex boyfriend. I told her that the only reason he still called her was that he wanted to get back with her. She said I was crazy.

Fast forward a few years after the relationship ended. I see the guy out in public. We chat for a few. He admits that the only reason he still talked to her back then was because he wanted to get back together with her. No shit!
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07-10-2009, 07:18 AM

Originally posted by digitaldivas

I am still friends with every girl I have been in love with... which is 3, going back since the time that I was 15 years old. Some women I date seem to think it is dysfunctional, for the most part. Even though two of them are married with kids. But out of the 3, that was 14 years of my life.

I am actually quite proud of this fact. I don't broadcast it or anything, but if women I date ask, I do tell them that I have zero drama as far as ex's and give them that example. So WTF is wrong with keeping in touch with women that I loved a looong time ago?

So, I was just curious if any of you have this situation as well.

Sorry, not a porn thread so to speak.

to them, if you're still friends, you havent moved on.

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07-10-2009, 09:40 AM

I don't see the big deal. It should be cool that you still get along with them.

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07-10-2009, 10:20 AM

I try to avoid running into them or communicating with them, it is better that way

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07-10-2009, 10:27 AM

I think those who still remain friends with their ex's are just leaving the door open for a future fuck, fling, whatever. You might see your friendships with your ex's as a good quality, sort of like reassuring all future girls that you won't cause any post-breakup drama.

No girl (or guy for that matter) wants their current boyfriend/girlfriend to interact with any guy/girl they once fucked. You want that chapter of their lives to be done.

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07-10-2009, 10:31 AM

Like being in a relationship is such an honest thing in the first place... keep it to yourself and enjoy.

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07-10-2009, 10:44 AM

Originally posted by Jon Oso

None of my ex girlfriends will even talk to me. Any girl I've dated for more than 2 weeks HATES me.
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07-10-2009, 10:47 AM

Originally posted by jmcb420

Girls don't wanna hear that shit, man.

Girls hate other girls, especially if you have a past together.

yeah for sure. i never tell any gf about girls that im friends with that i used to hookup with or they will always been on top of me thinking im going to do something

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07-10-2009, 11:21 AM

it's same thing as for my gf to have a bunch of guy friends she banged before, i wouldn't want that either...
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07-10-2009, 11:36 AM

my current gf (of 3 years) and i are good friends with my ex of 5 years. We went to her wedding, we go on trips together etc... The me gf met my ex afte rwe started dating, its not like they were friends before. It is possible
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07-10-2009, 11:46 AM

I'm currently sleeping with my ex-wifes ex-best friend.

We rarely, if ever, talk about her.

Girls hate other girls.

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07-10-2009, 11:48 AM

we are a very jealous bunch.

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07-10-2009, 11:49 AM

Originally posted by MandyBlake

we are a very jealous bunch.

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07-10-2009, 11:50 AM

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