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11-15-2002, 10:55 AM

Ok,
Theres one chick that got my cell phone number, and she keeps calling me and stuff. She asks why i don't call her, blah blah blah.
She said that she felt bad, like maybe she had done something wrong and thats why i dindt wanna see her again.
I said that i was out of town and everything is fine. But i realize i got to loose her.

How to tell her that i'm not interested in her without hurting her feelings and without sounding lame ?

BTW, I can't just tell her to fuck off. I'm a nice person and can't really do that.

This is serious. I need a serious advice.
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11-15-2002, 10:59 AM

Just talk to her in your broken english dialect. She'll understand.

You have options:

1) Be honest. Talk to the poor girl.
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2) lie to her.

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11-15-2002, 10:59 AM

I'm the same way as you. I just blow 'em off completely. Women seem to have a hard time gettin' the hint & just can't let it go, so it gets tough sometimes. If you try to make her NOT like you...she's just gonna want you more, so that's never a good option.

If ya nailed her, it's gonna be twice as hard to get rid of her!

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11-15-2002, 11:02 AM

Originally posted by RedShoe
Just talk to her in your broken english dialect. She'll understand.

You have options:

1) Be honest. Talk to the poor girl.
or
2) lie to her.

I say honesty is best in this situation...but you don't have to tell her why you're not interested (might hurt too much)

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11-15-2002, 11:05 AM

Originally posted by RedShoe
You have options:

1) Be honest. Talk to the poor girl.
or
2) lie to her.

Talk to her ? And what exacly should i tell her ? "I dont like you ? "

Lie to her ? Tell her i'm gay ?

And no we didnt have sex.
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11-15-2002, 11:12 AM

tell her you want her to star in porn movies with your buddy for you. If she's game you make lots of money before you have to get rid of her, if not you're rid of her.

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11-15-2002, 11:13 AM

Originally posted by DarkJedi

Talk to her ? And what exacly should i tell her ? "I dont like you ? "

Lie to her ? Tell her i'm gay ?

And no we didnt have sex.

Telling her you're gay would be a good excuse but hey, she might then want to convert you back to straight...
How about you having another girlfriend?
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11-15-2002, 11:18 AM

Originally posted by SleazyDream

tell her you want her to star in porn movies with your buddy for you. If she's game you make lots of money before you have to get rid of her, if not you're rid of her.

if i tell her that i'm in porn business she'd think that i'm some kind of pervert.

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How about you having another girlfriend?

Then she would tell me something like: "what the fuck were you thinking when you asked me for my number and asked me out ?"
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11-15-2002, 11:24 AM

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11-15-2002, 11:24 AM

You need to tell her the truth, while providing good therapy simultaneously... You are partially responsible for her sorrow -- or at least your expectation of sorrow -- otherwise if you weren't expecting her sorrow you wouldn't be here on GFY...

So that's what you have to explain to her -- that you care about her a lot -- otherwise you wouldn't have such a hard time telling her that she does not satisify all of your desires... Perhaps you love her, and she loves you, but that's not always enough... You are not "in love" -- which I believe is a sort of pure love based on selflessness -- true "love" is when both sides are loving unconditionally -- you have both decided to not be selfish -- but in many cases that is impossible to do with people because your human desires get in the way -- human desires like physical attraction, the need to be understood, the amount of affection shared, intellectual conversation, does she go deep enough on your cock during oral sex, etc. etc.

Just explain the shit as it is... Be true to yourself and be nice to her and just be realistic... Investigate all angles of the situation -- you can solve this... The solution may be a little messy, but that is something you will have to live with -- because if you can't live with yourself then you are in an even worse situation.
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11-15-2002, 11:31 AM

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11-15-2002, 11:32 AM

Originally posted by DarkJedi
if i tell her that i'm in porn business she'd think that i'm some kind of pervert.

What do you care? Ya wanna get rid of her, right!?

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11-15-2002, 11:33 AM

i usually say, "you're a cool girl, but not my type, i like a girl who will take it in the ass while barking like a dog"

that should solve everything

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11-15-2002, 11:34 AM

I know it's hard to do, but just be straight forward with her. Tell her you're not interested in seeing her anymore. Don't sugar coat it or do some stupid "let's be friends" thing, just tell her you don't think you're compatible and you wish her well blah blah blah but you don't want to see her. If you're nice and honest she will stop calling.
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11-15-2002, 11:35 AM

Honesty is always the best policy...but if you have to lie then do it well.

If you can't really say I am not interested in you, let her figure it out on her own by dropping hints like:
1) sorry I didnt call you last night or pick up my phone but I was on a date.
2) I met this girl last night...don't get dirty just personal
2) Talk to her like a friend and not like a "potential"
That is where broads get pissed off because they feel like they wasted their time, and you didn't let them know earlier.

If she still wants to stick around after you let her know that you are dating someone else. Maybe the whole friends thing can be a potential solution.

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11-15-2002, 11:35 AM

TheFly - that was.....interesting

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11-15-2002, 11:36 AM

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11-15-2002, 11:38 AM

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11-15-2002, 11:38 AM

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11-15-2002, 11:38 AM

Originally posted by DarkJedi
TheFly - that was.....interesting

who ?

I believe he's refferrin' to Fly...lol

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11-15-2002, 11:40 AM

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who ?

Be a fucking man....ask her if you can do her in the ass with a cell phone, or pork her mom while she watch's.

Watch her run away....problem solved

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11-15-2002, 11:41 AM

And if she's into it...then sweet...you get to pork her mom while she watchs...make sure to video tape it, that shits hot.

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11-15-2002, 11:42 AM

i told her i would call her when i get back to town (in 3-4 day).
maybe if i dont call her she'll take a hint ?
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11-15-2002, 11:44 AM

Originally posted by DarkJedi
i told her i would call her when i get back to town (in 3-4 day).
maybe if i dont call her she'll take a hint ?

Exactly what I said above. Just blow her off...hopefully, she'll eventually get the hint. That's what I do. It takes 'em a while to just let it go, but she'll get it eventually.

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11-15-2002, 11:45 AM

Originally posted by DarkJedi
i told her i would call her when i get back to town (in 3-4 day).
maybe if i dont call her she'll take a hint ?

someone get this kid some nail polish

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11-15-2002, 11:45 AM

And if she's callin' this much this soon...there's somethin' wrong w/ her already. Definitely some insecurity issues there...

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11-15-2002, 11:46 AM

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11-15-2002, 11:48 AM

Originally posted by eRock

Exactly what I said above. Just blow her off...hopefully, she'll eventually get the hint. That's what I do. It takes 'em a while to just let it go, but she'll get it eventually.

yeah but then she''ll probably think that i'm a jerk. Promised to call her 2 times and never did.
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11-15-2002, 11:48 AM

Darkjedi--- what I see from your posts here is that
you have a massive ego,
you think you are the overlord when it comes to judging whether a woman is good-looking or not,
you think women want you so much they are begging you and stalking you.

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11-15-2002, 11:51 AM

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Darkjedi--- what I see from your posts here is that
you have a massive ego,
you think you are the overlord when it comes to judging whether a woman is good-looking or not,
you think women want you so much they are begging you and stalking you.

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11-15-2002, 11:54 AM

Originally posted by CDSmith
Darkjedi--- what I see from your posts here is that
you have a massive ego,
you think you are the overlord when it comes to judging whether a woman is good-looking or not,
you think women want you so much they are begging you and stalking you.

Reality: We are kicking God out of office. Hail to the new God: you.

well, its not my fault that girls are attracted to me.
i may have an ego or whatever, but I never hurt them.
It would be much easyer to say "fuck off" to her than to get on GFY and try find some smooth solution.

thanks for everyones replys btw.

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11-15-2002, 11:56 AM

Originally posted by DarkJedi

yeah but then she''ll probably think that i'm a jerk. Promised to call her 2 times and never did.

Well, if ya wanna get rid of her this is the easiest way of doin' it w/o havin' to actually deal with it. I mean, is she a good friend of yours? Did a friuend/family set you two up? If not, then who gives a shit if she thinks you're jerk. You'll never have to see her again.

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11-15-2002, 12:01 PM

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Well, if ya wanna get rid of her this is the easiest way of doin' it w/o havin' to actually deal with it. I mean, is she a good friend of yours? Did a friuend/family set you two up? If not, then who gives a shit if she thinks you're jerk. You'll never have to see her again.

no shes not a good friend of mine and no one set us up.

yeah thats what i'll probably do. not call her. but then i'll feel myself like coward who is afraid to meet a chick and tell her everything in the face - so its all rigged

i'll probably drop a couple of tequilas and go meet her.
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11-15-2002, 12:03 PM

Dude, you want her.
You don't want to hurt her, you don't want her to think you're a jerk, you don't want her to think you're a pervert... if you really wanted to get rid of her, you wouldn't give a shit about those things (or at least the last two).

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11-15-2002, 01:05 PM

Originally posted by DarkJedi
BTW, I can't just tell her to fuck off. I'm a nice person and can't really do that.

Being nice doesn't mean superficially being nice. If you were a nice person, you wouldn't ask us what to do, you would talk to the girl and tell the truth, insteady of trying to manipulate her.

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11-15-2002, 01:18 PM

Originally posted by DarkJedi

no shes not a good friend of mine and no one set us up.

yeah thats what i'll probably do. not call her. but then i'll feel myself like coward who is afraid to meet a chick and tell her everything in the face - so its all rigged

i'll probably drop a couple of tequilas and go meet her.

don't be a fucking pussy! don't not call her. that is the lamest shit you can do. tell her how you feel in all honesty and as long as you're not a dick about it, she'll understand and everything will be all good. plus, if you end on good terms, you will always have a fall back fuck...always.

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11-15-2002, 01:27 PM

Give her my number and she'll soon forget about you!

Seriously though - be a man and tell the truth. I fucking hate it when a woman treats me in the same way. I'd much rather know right off the bat that I'm not wanted.

Sadly it happens way too much.

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11-15-2002, 01:30 PM

Why are you asking this on GFY?
Probably the worst place ever to get real answers to any relationship stuff. Just be a fuckface and don't answer her calls. She gets the hint..

Or,

Go to her place, fuck her up the ass, wipe your dick clean on the curtains, grab a beer from the fridge and leave without saying a word.

That'll stop her from calling.

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11-15-2002, 01:43 PM

This from a kid that laughed and posted about the humor of the chick getting slapped and choked...dude, get your personality together...

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11-15-2002, 01:51 PM

please.....that chick on video was enjoing her "job"
i'm not the one to be blamed

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11-15-2002, 02:30 PM

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Then she would tell me something like: "what the fuck were you thinking when you asked me for my number and asked me out ?"

tell her you're not a pervert, you just make money from them.

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11-15-2002, 02:37 PM

This is what a friend of mine did...i would never do something like this...i'm too nice

This is a sure fire method of getting rid of any girl who is obsessed with you.

invite her back to your place, and just as you are cumming on her stomach. get up and get dressed. and leave...just like that

while its still warm you should be pulling your shirt on and heading out the door.

she'll get the hint

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11-15-2002, 02:39 PM

Originally posted by DarkJedi
Ok,
Theres one chick that got my cell phone number, and she keeps calling me and stuff. She asks why i don't call her, blah blah blah.
She said that she felt bad, like maybe she had done something wrong and thats why i dindt wanna see her again.
I said that i was out of town and everything is fine. But i realize i got to loose her.

How to tell her that i'm not interested in her without hurting her feelings and without sounding lame ?

BTW, I can't just tell her to fuck off. I'm a nice person and can't really do that.

This is serious. I need a serious advice.

I've got the same problem. I didn't realize that all my plutonic girl friends had feelings for me. I got engaged and it really rattled them all. Best be honest, perhaps something like, "I'm not interested and I hope you can understand that it doesn't mean I hate you."
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11-15-2002, 02:41 PM

Originally posted by Python_brad

invite her back to your place, and just as you are cumming on her stomach. get up and get dressed. and leave...just like that

hahaha, i dont get it ? i leave my own place and then what ? make her pay my bills ?
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11-15-2002, 02:45 PM

Originally posted by DarkJedi
Ok,
Theres one chick that got my cell phone number, and she keeps calling me and stuff. She asks why i don't call her, blah blah blah.
She said that she felt bad, like maybe she had done something wrong and thats why i dindt wanna see her again.
I said that i was out of town and everything is fine. But i realize i got to loose her.

How to tell her that i'm not interested in her without hurting her feelings and without sounding lame ?

BTW, I can't just tell her to fuck off. I'm a nice person and can't really do that.

This is serious. I need a serious advice.

Have you told her you're a pornographer? That will get rid of a lot of girls.

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11-15-2002, 02:47 PM

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hahaha, i dont get it ? i leave my own place and then what ? make her pay my bills ?

damn...lol

okay...well ya it would work better if you went to her place

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11-15-2002, 02:50 PM

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Have you told her you're a pornographer? That will get rid of a lot of girls.

no, i told her i was in a commercial/advertising business
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11-15-2002, 02:53 PM

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no, i told her i was in a commercial/advertising business

Well, admit you lied to her and that you're really in porno, and chances are good your problem is solved.

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11-15-2002, 02:58 PM

i dont even know if she likes me......she might be after my money
what do most girls like in a man nowadays ? personality or bling bling ?
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11-15-2002, 03:15 PM

Don't call her and if she calls you again tell her you didn't return her call because you're getting back with your ex and don't want any complications.

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