She wouldn't shake my hand because I was "involved" in porn ?
 

My buddy I've known for years got into the "internets". I guess he wanted to chat and introduce me to his girl. I hadn't seen him for years. ( She struck me as a burned out airline stewardess ).

He wanted me to meet him at a coffee shop I don't like much. I met with him outside and told him I really didn't want to go in there because I think everyone that goes there is a snob( they are big time and I was right ). I usually take my dog and I to "Bad Ass" coffee by the beach. Always someone to talk too.

So I reluctantly go inside. He introduces me to her. I stick out my hand to shake it ... "Oh no I'm sorry I don't shake hands" ... I look at my buddy and he looks really embarrassed. That made me embarrassed. I guess I should of showered that day.

I sat down to talk with them ... they were telling me this and that. She's 40+ going back to college for fucking psychiatry that's really all I needed to know about her and what I was doing was pointless ... She needed to "understand" the user and blah blah blah they new it all and I was wasting my time ... ? He was obviously just in love with this worn out milf . Just a really condescending conversation I just wanted to kill myself.

I noticed she got up to get some water. Public water pitcher I'm sure had koodies but I had porn kookies:Oh crap I told her everyone else used that pitcher/vase so she should probably wash her hands. I didn't even pull my wiener that day man I was cleeeeeen:1orglaugh

Ever get that ?

not all people are "cool" with pornographers...
you'll get used to it... ;)

its just lame people who dislike porn. tell them to go to church and leave you alone.

CL hookers never judge

Invite them over for a big sausage pizza...

You could have told her you washed off your pussy finger after the shoot.

People that have sexual problems or hang up's in sexuality tend to exhibit this kind of behavior. It's a lack of understanding and assuming on thier part.

You should have said you remembered her episode from milfsoncrack.com and that you really didn't want to shake her hand either. :)

I've experienced that very few times. In recent memory, once this year when I was introduced to someone out a martini bar I put my hand out and the guy wouldn't shake it. I was floored but I guess that happens sometimes.

LOL. Turns out he after hearing much more about my business he was more than willing to shake my hand months later, I guess he owns a host company that's small and failing.

Ha! karma.

Brad

That witch sounds like a real winner :1orglaugh

Just be glad that she ain't your girlfriend.

I really have no shame but this bugged me I guess more then I knew. I forgot all about it actually. This was before the economy went to shit. Now they are trying to get in contact with me. I guess their little web design business needs help ... :GFYBand I heard what they said about me whatever. He's a good friend but this bitch really fucked things up

I try not to be shitty to people but shit hell fuck

I tell ya, people can be so crazy about what we do.

My husband's best friend of more than 25 years got in a bad way about a year ago, he had broken his ankle and couldn't work. He called and was really down and out, emotionally and all that because he wasn't used to not working. So we sent him $200 for Christmas or something, just gave it to him so not to have him feeling indebted to us and causing issues down the road.... well......

About 3 months later he started bitching about how I make my money and all that and he felt bad taking MY money because of the way I made it and how it wasn't right. But that fucker sure didn't mind paying his electric bill THAT day on money made from porn.

It's the double standards that drive me crazy. I see people all the time, taking donations, taking loans and other such things from us, but OH MY GOD, don't ever let it be said out loud it's from porn... we're such bad bad people. :Oh crap

yeah, she's a real bitch. She should work for google she's so smart and innovative ... but I'll get over it. Thanks everyone for listening , where else would I say this :thumbsup

Yeah it's bullshit hypocrisy. I asked somebody once if they had dish or cable and why they support all the "pay per view" porn channels they promote ... How much $$$ does your service provider make selling pussy ! I also noticed it over the years on a bunch of things they don't mind taking your money but will shit on you first chance they get :2 cents: it's just part of the game I guess right

you get hbo and they bundle scinemax... why... late night skin flicks is embedded in every 28 to 44 year old guy...

What is not to be expected. Does anyone really ever think that it would be "acceptable" by society? I seemed to recall knowing for a fact that there would be very little public acceptance over what I did and no matter what it would be looked down on by people, even if they consume it. Hypocrisy is very damn normal with people and face it you are in a dirty, scummy, and immoral industry that is covered in sin.
If it also gains full on acceptance which is unlikely but if it does it will no longer have the lure it does now and that would mean less money for everyone. The less hung up society is and the more taboo what we do is, the more of a market there is for it. I praise those who do not understand and condemn it.

omg that would have been something

you do know he was talkin' bout miss run around sue right?

I understand that I just didn't expect it from a friend of mine. Live and learn ...

Yup, and people are often hypocrites as I said. It is a several hundred million if not billion dollar business that only about 30 people publicly admit to spending money on.

there really wasn't an issue until I met her, but she did open my eyes.

If she was just against porn I would respect her for that. That wasn't the case I guess you had to be there, I don't know anymore I'm over it

By society in general? No, of course not.

Nonetheless, we all like to think that our immediate circle is a tad more enlightened than the rest of the sheep out there. It can be a little disconcerting, therefore, when we observe just how ordinary some of them really are :2 cents:

Did you clean it after wanking?:1orglaugh:1orglaugh

friend or not, i would have told her to go fuck herself and told my friend he could do a lot better than this cunt and turned around and walked out the door...

i dont put up with peoples bullshit...

i curse people for not saying thank you after i hold the door open for them..

I use at least 4 fingers, sometimes a whole fist, so extra soap is prolly required.

That's lame.

I no longer tell people that I am a pornographer...It makes shit too uncomfortable...Either they're disgusted by it, which irritates me, or they're FASCINATED by it and can't shut the fuck up about it everytime they see you, which irritates me also...

Now, all I'll say is that I optimize websites for search engines in order to sell products SUCH AS penis pills, adult dating, adult websites, etc. etc.........I throw in a little SEO basic monkey mumbo jumbo and that's all I have to do...I haven't met a person yet who knows about SEO...

should have given her your card and told her whens shes ready to make some real money, give you a call

After watching mainstream documentaries on porn I can understand this behaviour because those kind of films are usually find and portraying sociopath men in the business and since most regular people get their information on the porn business from tv and these kind of documentaries this is what will happen sometimes when people in porn met stupid close minded regular people who believe everything they see on tv.

I dont think we can say this business is clean either, I have seen lots of shady and disgusting stuff and people in this business, much more then any other business I have had the chance to experince. It's the business of porn and low lifes and snakes will be drawn towards it for natural reasons.

Don't forget to tell her its on grannysex.com

on the other hand, don't worry so much about these people. Its life. People always like to look down on others. Just to make themselves feel better. And what better way to do it than to shoot pornographers down deep into the mud.

And then they'll go home to jerk off to some free porn.
Hypocrites (sp?)

When people refuse to shake my hand, I pee on their leg. That'll learn ya.

"I didnt ask you to shake my dick, just my hand!"

For next time.

I tell them right the fuck off in public loud enough to let everyone here me.

I don't get it. She doesn't shake hands in general, or she refused to shake your hands because you work with porn.

Your title says one thing, but you've written a whole different story.

:2 cents:

No she wouldn't shake my hand. It was clean, I washed my hands after I pulled my wiener that day:thumbsup . How are you in business without shaking fucking hands ? :2 cents: Her whole aura ejaculated snobbery it was disgusting !

Well, I just found out she's out of the picture. Maybe she can get her old job back as one of those nasty bags that serve drinks on American Airlines ...

Hippocrates :)

I always find it funny that people will judge you for being involved in porn yet make no mention of all the people who spend all the money on porn, watch porn, get off to porn, etc.

Persecute the messenger mentality.

what a total biatch! she ain't gonna get many takers acting that way.

hate stuck up bitches like that

haha mental noted

You should have slapped her

sorry to hear that but I'm sure she will get use to it

We understand people like that but they don't know how to understand us. Lame!

Ahhh well her loss not yours... Move on, there are lots of jerks in the world so don't spend your energy on them. Spend your energy on people who want to spend time with you and appreciate having you as a friend.