Dating while working in Porn
 

So sometimes i blog ... here is a recent entry from me. I am kinda coming out of the closet a little with this. Here is a modified version of my blog entry.



So this is something that has plagued me for several years. I am quite certain it plagues most people who work in the wondrous world of Adult Entertainment. Although I am fairly certain it plagues the small percentage of the industry that is female and happens to work behind the camera more. You see, my usual first encounter with a new hottie goes something like this:

Hottie: Hey There! What’s your name?
Me: Hey .. bad pick up .. but I am still willing to give you a chance because your cute. My name is Megan.
Hottie: Well Megan, I come here often and havn’t seen you before. I come here every Friday after work with my co-workers. We work in the Financial industry… you know stocks, bonds, loans. .:: right about now he winks, because for some reason I am supposed to be impressed:: What do you do?
Megan: I work in Porn. Not as a Porn Star, but as a VP of a well known studio.
Hottie: ::: his face just lit up thinking about what a dirty whore I must be ::: Oh really?!?!? That must be a very interesting job!

By this point the Hottie stops actually listening to anything I have to say because he is replaying every good part from any porno he has ever seen in his mind.

And this is exactly how quickly my introductions go wrong. I am not ashamed of what I do, so I don’t lie about it. I also don’t downplay it.. because it is my job, which I love and i happen to be damn good at. I am a successful young female in world’s oldest and biggest boys club. I am actually pretty damn proud of how far I made it. Enough about me, let’s talk about me…

I have one of two choices, hope hottie takes the time to get to know me and realizes I am not some sort of nympho maniac who gets gangbanged on her desk at work or date people who are in my business and get it. So far the hoping and praying thing hasn’t panned out. It will last a few months sometimes, but once I have to go away for 4 days with a group of porn stars and an all male crew … it’s over.

Option two hasn’t panned out so much either. I have dated two people in the biz and hung out with two. Both of my EX's work in my business. Let me explain why it doesn’t work out. You see, if you break up with someone in this biz you will inevitably continue seeing them on a regular basis until one of you leave the business. In fact I see one of my Ex's 5 days a week, 8 hours a day. Yeah, our companies merged this year and now we get to be broken up and work about 15ft from each other everyday! Can you say awesome?!?! It’s not that bad now but it has had it’s want to claw his eyes out moments.
I see one of the guys I used to hang out with every once in awhile. It’s never comfortable to run into Ex’s especially when they have new people and your meeting the new people..it’s just down right awkward. Now I get to see these blasts from the pasts for the rest of my life!!! Oh hey, how ya been? It’s so awesome that you’ve seen me naked and we are forced to interact on a social level. Luckily I have dated or hung out with fairly decent people, so it’s not that bad. But this leads me back to ground zero…

Since my choices are small minded hottie or making sure I want to deal with someone for the rest of my life I choose … oh god! I need another choice. Fuck! Now, I am back to option two. This is like world’s most fucked up circle jerk.









Tell me i am not the only one who sees this? LOL

xoxo,
Megan

I promise I won't undress you with my eyes and make gyrating movements when you say you work in porn. PROMISE!

Best of luck to ya, but dating in the industry I don't think works out all that well.

oh my god megan you so nailed it! That was pure poetry

I stopped reading when you made the out of the closet confession.

Say Im a executive in a multimedia company. Their eyes will glaze over and once they get to know you it wont matter.
Also dating in the industry if you are talking the internet side that's a really board spectrum of people from hosting to processors to marketing to producers.

All of you people who "date" are idiots anyways. Just fuck.

If you want a pal to watch t.v. with & share your stories....go to an old folks home. Plenty of people there who will eat up every word of your "not so interesting" life.

The opposite sex is for fucking & children. If you don't get that now, i guess you'll never get it.

Stop trying to go after what doesn't exist "love" & just "settle" like everyone else in the world. And sometime before you hit 35, pop out a kid (if it's on your list) and keep the little girl/or stud around for some "semblance" of a family.

:2 cents::2 cents::2 cents:

I think it's pretty cool that you straight up tell a guy that you're in the porn business. Much respect, and a guy in his right mind should consider that fact.

I would appreciate that more then fake ass 30k-aires who try and front ... oddly!

Talk about nailing the head so hard that your hammer explodes. It's as if religion these days is the Cult of Romantic Love or some shit.

Preaching to the converted!!!!! But at the same time ... "civilians" don't get my job at all.I also production manage.Which means i am on set ...

Are you hot? if so ICQ me.

Im in the bizz but work from home, you will never see me again if we breakup :)

Plus im cool as hell.

yo

i aint the EX!



i work from my awesome home office.

megan only gets to bang me at her office on her desk on very rare occasions.


ROFLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL

You know more then most...go read the unmodified one =)

xoxo,
Megan

that I do my friend. That I definitely do

where the white women at?

I think dating in the biz would be weird. I'd have to kill you when we broke up or at least pull the rug out from under you so I don't have to see you anymore.

I can soooooooooooooo dig cool as hell!!! I am also into the not having to see you thing .. that'skinda hot! LOL


FYI ..posting and drinking .. maybe NOT such a good idea! Bahha

Sorry to hear you've met the wrong people in and out of the industry.

I'm actually pretty old-fashioned myself.

Sorry to hear you live out in Cali...

:D

yah. im watching. i will pull the plug on you if you get too bad. don't worry, i'm watching.

:1orglaugh:1orglaugh

Strangely if I EVER go to a forum or weekend meet, would be cool to chat with you. :thumbsup

WTF????? You don't claim me now!!! Bahhahahahahah ...

I see how it is!!!!

:1orglaugh:1orglaugh:1orglaugh

U Wish!

I am the coolest dude ever.

hehe

Here's a pic of the little devil herself.

http://surfelport.com/images/sidebarlist/satan.jpg

If you look really close you can see the horns.


:):):Oh crap

Jaded much???? Bitter, party of one ..your table is now ready!
I am not afraid to admit i still totally believe in love! Mostly i believe in my other half! Or a tleast i try to!

here is my version of cory's dating resume!

another portion of my blog:

I am looking for the person that will be my rock when I need them and I can do the same for them without either person saying they need it or holding it against them. Someone who can mellow out my naturally high strung nature (after all I am a chick so by nature I am crazy). Someone who can make me laugh, who knows the little everyday things mean way more then huge gestures, but also knows those are pretty cool once in awhile too. Someone who knows I am secure and not usually jealous but has figured out reassuring me keeps me from getting that way. Someone who sees the areas I suck in (example: keeping receipts for taxes, getting my car worked on, saving, etc) and tries to help me improve in those areas. Someone who likes to travel, someone who can get me to push my boundries and try new things outside of my comfort level, someone who gets my job. Someone who kisses me on the forehead and gives good tushy massages. Someone who will argue and disagree with me ?weird request I know?but I have found if I date someone who is a pushover I will usually just bulldoze them, not intentionally?it just happens. Usually telling me ?No? is kind of a turn on. Can?t be a liar, cheat or drug addict. Must have a job. I am extremely attracted to people with talents. Ambition and goals make me horny. Someone who gets my sick sense of humor and happens to find the humor in my annoying little foo foo dogs. Ohhhh ? and likes long walks on the beach after anal. Obviously this is if I was going to order a guy from a catalog and could customize all my specs?since people aren?t perfect this is my check off list. Some are requested but not required others are deal breakers. I have even dated people who had all these things but for some reason we just didn?t gel, so basically it?s all a crap shoot.

Don't lie Airek!!!!!!

If someone asks me what I do within five minutes of meeting me I usually give a smart ass answer then walk away.

People who ask me what I do get under my skin. I almost never care what someone does for a living if I meet them socially. 99% of people ended up in jobs they would rather not do so how could that tell me anything about them except for how much money they make?

My boyfriend is in the industry too, we where just best friends for about a year and then it became more. I have stopped going to shows unless he can go with me, but other then that, nothing has changed. We've been together now for about a year, and things are great! I've finally found the person for me! One day you will too! :thumbsup Don't give up hope! The right person will come along for you! ;)

Here is a pic of Meggy's Ideal Man











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:thumbsup:thumbsup

Yeah...about that...who thought that having a bottle of wine (each!) was a good idea too...oh thats right...ME!!! sorry!!!! :thumbsup (shane's world thumps up though!!!)

Only if enjoyed from the right glassware. or in this case, plasticware.


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Note to self .. not dating you ...it ='s Dead!
that's whack =(

and it's no wonder I've not bothered to 'date' in years.

Anyone wanna go out?

Here!!!!
https://youtube.com/watch?v=K-2iwGeZ2O4

Trunks and basements have always worked for me =D Out of sight out of mind right?! LOL

OOOOOHHHHHHH I Love this song!!! I have it. It makes the white girls shake their asses!

Hell Yeah!!! I should know:winkwink: LOL I love it!!! Gotta love the leg warmers...makes me want to run out and get some!!

LOL...thanks Airek!!! *MWUAH* you are about as crazy as me =D

lol...I'm only (half) joking Megan.

Besides, I wouldn't do that to you. You seem way too cool and I have to support my industry sisters! :winkwink:

Oh you know it!!! Would we do it any other way!?!?!?!

HOLY SHIT PR0, your posts often impress, and this post might just be one of the greatest posts I've seen in a long time, wasn't expecting this as I read through gfy tonight, so true and refreshing to see!!!!

You rock man!!! :2 cents::2 cents::2 cents:

You just need to be you. Thats it.


The right guy or girl (Nilla) that is worth your time, will be cool and understanding. We are good friends and i know you are a rocken person, anyone with any intelligence will see what i see and step up and act right.




And don't settle!!!!


and remember i had to bang and choke out a bunch of girls before i found my Nilla..:thumbsup

Shhhh... shhhhhhhh... it's okay, have one more drink for daddy and keep posting, it's okay. :pimp

:1orglaugh :helpme

Had to change my usernames since girls were google - ing me finding me on contact pages of milfcash and such

Go figure... the chick is a MILF :)

OMGROFL Dave

Oh yeah, whores!

just date rockstars. it's been workin' for me. they don't give a shit.

LMAO!!! This is why i love you both so much!! You two are one of my fav couples! I admire what you guys are able to accomplish. Not only do you have love and friendship, but your a power couple. As gay as that sounds!

And while i KNOW what you say is true, it's hard to remember sometimes. And you know me...i would never settle lol =) Never have,Never will!

P.S. See you saturday! Sorry i couldnt make it tonight!

xoxo,
Megan