Mourning the dead....
 

Hypothetically speaking....

Lets say somebody kicks the bucket....

What is the appropriate amount of time that I must be forced to bite my tongue and listen to those "in mourning" about what a great person this piece of shit was before I am able to let them know how I really feel about the dead cocksucker?

Just curious. :glugglug

I personally don't think that because you die you all of sudden should be respected, forgiven or thought of as anything better then you were when you were alive.

34 seconds...

depends really

over the weekend i lost my father...and my uncle...and at my uncles funeral...my one cousin started talking shit about my father.

ive basically lost respect for her now...she can go fuck a duck

will you gain anything from speaking ill of someone?
i doubt it...just maybe you get to feel good....i doubt it will be worth it

you could very well be making an enemy for life

but what if everyone else but you agrees?

I don't push porn on the nut jobs who show up at my front door carrying bibles.

Why should I have to listen to them without telling them how I feel?

Kinda the same thing here. People always pushing their misinformed opinions of the dead. I don't see why I should have to be PC and not share my viewpoint with them.

Sorry to hear about your loss man. And obviously any funeral is not a good place to do what she did.

Never.

There is no upside to doing this.

OTOH, when the mourners wax rhapsodic about how WONderful the dear dead departed was, you can sit there, nurse your drink, and reflect (silently) about how the guy was really a total bastard AND what a complete effing idiot the mourner must be to have been taken in.

You can find out a lot about other people just by being quiet at a time like this. Stick with "I'm gonna miss him."

They don't have to know that you mean "I'm gonna miss him every time I don't get fucked."

--t

do you have any cameras for sale?

Just speak your mind. Its what I always do. Some people really like me for that, some dont... but they always expect it.

Brad - I am really sorry to hear this :(

thanks man i regret posting it now

not hunting for sympathy..just..the thread was so bang on to what had pissed me off

It's not ok to tell anyone close to the person that died anything negative in my opinion. You might have thought he was a piece of shit and he probably was, but others did love him and would not want to hear anything negative. It's tough enough dealing with the death, and then if you have to listen to someone bad mouth the person you loved can put you over the edge.

my :2 cents:

Give them the day, and then unleash hell.

What would you gain by saying that a dead person was a piece of shit?

Seriously, what's wrong with you?

Don't feel bad for the way you feel

Jim The Fiend died?