Do you have sex on the first date?
 

Do you have sex on the first date?



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Only if I am desperate enough to catch Aids:Oh crap

Depends on the girl and if I think there will be a second date or not.

So true... lol

Unless you're on a first date with a girl you've known for a while I guess, if a girl you just met is willing to sleep with you on the first date then that definitely says something about the type of girl she is.

Make him wear a condom and your chances will be significantly reduced.

Sure why not..wrap it up

I don't have the first date while having sex.

i just shoot for some poo...

I have sex on myspace before we meet in person.

Of course if both parties are in the mood for some action! Doesn't mean the girl's a whore nor does it suggest that the guy's a he-biatch... c'mon, this needs to be taken a little more lightly.. it's sex, not a marriage proposal! :thumbsup

Sometimes

I listen to a radio show here in AZ & they have a segment called "2nd date update" which usually involves a girl calling in a few weeks after a 1st date, telling the story about how great the 1st date was & how they totally "connected" but then the guy never called her again.
Then the dj gets the dude on the horn to find out why the guy never called for a 2nd date.
9 times out of 10 when they call the guy it turns out that the chick put out on the 1st date & the guy will say that "it was cool, but it made me wonder how many other guys she does that with...etc etc"

Girls just should not put out on the 1st date if they want anything more than some ass... (and yeah, sometimes chicks are just looking to get laid too)
But the old double standard of it makes the girl a whore & the guy a "player" is true as ever.

How do I recognize it's a date?

No that's gross. :winkwink:

I've done it a couple times and ended up with long term relationships out of it, but I think second date is probably better.

If not on the second date, things get too weird and uncomfortable so I would say that generally if not by the second date, it is not going to happen at all.

If a girl doesn't put out on the first date, I won't call her again. If she does, I'll wonder how many guys she's done that with, the whore, and not call her again.

Conclusion for the ladies: there's just no pleasing us guys!

ugh when you ask her out it's a 'date'

send flowers too


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hello, are you tall dark and handsome?

I try to! but it depends on how much I drank....

No ...

That was always the goal, but if I ended up thinking there might be a future with her, I would hold off. But most of the time I was way too drunk to think that clearly, so I just did it anyways.

Doe's Juicy D' Links wear one while he is pounding your flabby Ass?:Oh crap

Surprised that there is a set rule on it. Depends totally on the chemistry and how you see the potential relationship going. I have in the past and have not as well.

I hear what you are saying, I agree with you & I think that more open & mature people think the same way.
The problem is, a lot of women, or actually I should say girls will mistake a smooth talker or being a little drunk for "chemistry"... herein lies the problem with all of these dumb broads that call in to that radio show I mentioned.
"I thought we clicked"
"We had chemistry"

The fact is, most, if not all guys will fuck on the 1st date ... and many, if not most guys go looking for exactly that. Women on the other hand are trying to make some connection and the dingy ones use sex as a means to do so.
After all is said & done, more often than not, the guy ends up turned off by it in the end.
Go figure!

i usually just let her swallow.
if she's any good she gets a prize on the 2nd date :thumbsup

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that's the way 2 do it :thumbsup:thumbsup:thumbsup

Of course!

never on first date....

Tomud

I am usually too drunk to remember

Yes, yes I do.

:thumbsup

sam adams and shes mine

nah!! to impersonal for me

Sure why not! You only live once. But safety first of course

I've been married so long I forget what a date was.

only if she tells me I'm special :S

I've been married so long I forget what sex is :disgust

if she'll let me hell yeah! just rubber up

On a good 1st date I do

if i didnt sex on the first rarely was there a second. lol

Is Throat Slammin considered sex?

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first is best, second is boring

Depends.

What does sex have to do with dating?

sometimes, but it normally freaks whoever Im with out. Plus it gets akward when you ask to borrow her sock.

Sex on the first date - does that even mean anything anymore?

As a guy of course you'll have sex on the first date however if it gets to that point on the first date there usually isn't a second date or a phone call afterwards. Thats why if I like a chick I try to go to a place during the day and do something on the first few dates (it works great in SF not sure about other cities) instead of the usual dinner then to a bar/club where alcohol is involved and she's wrapping her meat curtains around your cock on a first date. Now if it's just a girl I want to fuck well screw everything I just said bust out the booze,

Do you have.. or Have you ever.. ??

I had sex on first dates and found it matters little on things worked out between us.
In fact Its more normal than not.

if he is super hot and sexy yes :thumbsup

its now a girls world :winkwink: