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boneprone 04-24-2008 12:41 PM

IM Heading To China For the Olympics! And to get our DAUGHTER!
 
Some of you close to me in the Biz knew my wife and I were trying to adopt a daughter from China.. ITs been a very long and painful process for us both. Very long process.

As of today, It's official. Our China Adoption has FINALLY (after over a year and a half) been processed. We are heading to China during the Olympics to get our Daughter and to see the Olympics.

The wife is very very very excited. Myself like a typical guy, Im very excited, and Happy but im a bit scared as well. Was freaking out some yesterday. Im going to be dad.(again!) Its kinda scarry!


On the lighter side of things, my wife knows im a bit freaked so I just negioated for myself more guys trips!! (she knows freedom or lack there of scares me)
You should see the long list of negioations I got from her with our first born..

Anything else I should ask for? I got a green light for the World Series of Poker again too.

After that, we are Heading back to China!
The Mother Land Baby! Adopting from the same Village my grandparents were from. I cant wait to go.

Going to be a dad again. Pretty excited., happy, pumped up And scared all in one.


And here I thought I wasnt scared of anything!

ADL Colin 04-24-2008 12:42 PM

I bet she will be awesome at math

Socks 04-24-2008 12:44 PM

Are you going to baptize her in the river? ;)

http://i.treehugger.com/images/2007/...n-prob-002.jpg

RyuLion 04-24-2008 12:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ADL Colin (Post 14107954)
I bet she will be awesome at math

haha..I'm very good in math too..

boneprone 04-24-2008 12:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ADL Colin (Post 14107954)
I bet she will be awesome at math

LOL... Probably not. She's going to be Americanized... We get her at 1 year of age... She wont know shit about math! Especially being my daughter.

And before someone throws out a Bukkake joke, thats not China, it Japan you fuckers.

Sly 04-24-2008 12:45 PM

Great news, congratulations.

munki 04-24-2008 12:45 PM

Best of luck, and congratulations at the same time dood... big move.

boneprone 04-24-2008 12:47 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Socks (Post 14107965)
Are you going to baptize her in the river? ;)

http://i.treehugger.com/images/2007/...n-prob-002.jpg

Yeah man, thats why we are adopting her. If you only knew how bad it is over there.
And how they treat little girls it would make you cry.

They are treated like garbage. Literally.

The gooks over there are only allowed one child. They all want boys. Baby girls are killed, or left in dumpsters, or in rivers like that.

Our Daughter was left on the doorstep of the police station at 1 day old.

:(

ITs a horrible epidemic over there. And the closed media governement has been hiding it for many many years.

boneprone 04-24-2008 12:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by RyuLion (Post 14107969)
haha..I'm very good in math too..


Mexicans are good at math?

BradM 04-24-2008 12:51 PM

It's so great you're doing that. I am trying to talk my wife into doing the same due to the research I've done on Chinese kids.

Plus I am cheap and I need someone to do my taxes.

CarolCox 04-24-2008 12:51 PM

Congratulations! :)

Our next door neighbour adopted a baby from China 10 years ago. She happens to be our 10 year old son's best friend.

Carol xoxoxo

Jens Van Assterdam 04-24-2008 12:53 PM

Congrats and good luck with your "new" daughter :)

Socks 04-24-2008 12:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by boneprone (Post 14107980)
Yeah man, thats why we are adopting her. If you only knew how bad it is over there.
And how they treat little girls it would make you cry.

They are treated like garbage. Literally.

The gooks over there are only allowed one child. They all want boys. Baby girls are killed, or left in dumpsters, or in rivers like that.

Our Daughter was left on the doorstep of the police station at 1 day old.

:(

ITs a horrible epidemic over there. And the closed media governement has been hiding it for many many years.

Yes it's very sad.. Sorry BP, wasn't trying to take a shot, just last night I watched an investigative reporting thing on the pollution in China, and how bad it really is. Mostly from mining plants apparently, and the government's antiquated ego where nothing matters to them but money. They're using that red water to irrigate their plants, then they eat the plants, get cancer, have growths all over them, it's nasty.

Also saw a study yesterday that suggests eating a good diet that's high in calories and potassium will cause a higher %% of boys to be born VS girls. Something like 57% to 43% in their study. Eating a few bananas every day prior to conception and during early pregnancy will highly increase your chances of having a boy apparently.

Good on you for doing all the necessary work to make this a reality. I have a 3 month old baby myself, and it's amazing! :)

sue 04-24-2008 12:59 PM

Congrats on your new baby!

*hugs and kisses*

boneprone 04-24-2008 12:59 PM

We also went the "special needs" route...

We were inspired by the "smiles" program, a program which helps children around the world with cleft lip or cleft palate.. In 3rd world coutries this easily fixable disease is left untreated and the children go on living lives with facial deformity.

IF treated at an early age it is almost undetectable as an adult.


With my healthcare background along with my wife's as well as having the ability to afford plastic surgery and healthcare for a child we chose to go the Cleft lip/palate route.

This girl will be a princess here with us.. In China she would be left behind and a circus freak.. (shit you not)

Her life would be unimaginable. Not just as a female Orphan in China, but as a girl with a deformed face.

Karupted Charles 04-24-2008 01:01 PM

1 year is the best to get a kid at. Still easily impressionable but most of the up all night crap is out of the way. Congrats man glad to hear your helping a child in need and your family at the same time.

dank 04-24-2008 01:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by boneprone (Post 14108040)
We also went the "special needs" route...

We were inspired by the "smiles" program, a program which helps children around the world with cleft lip or cleft palate.. In 3rd world coutries this easily fixable disease is left untreated and the children go on living lives with facial deformity.

IF treated at an early age it is almost undetectable as an adult.


With my healthcare background along with my wife's as well as having the ability to afford plastic surgery and healthcare for a child we chose to go the Cleft lip/palate route.

This girl will be a princess here with us.. In China she would be left behind and a circus freak.. (shit you not)

Her life would be unimaginable. Not just as a female Orphan in China, but as a girl with a deformed face.


Jesus Christ man. Just now hearing of this. This hit me pretty hard.

This girl just hit the Lottery. Maybe even something bigger than the lottery if you think about it. Very happy for you two. WOW.

dank 04-24-2008 01:03 PM

What is the difference between Cleft Lip and Cleft Palate?

AsianDivaGirlsWebDude 04-24-2008 01:07 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by boneprone (Post 14108040)
We also went the "special needs" route...

We were inspired by the "smiles" program, a program which helps children around the world with cleft lip or cleft palate.. In 3rd world coutries this easily fixable disease is left untreated and the children go on living lives with facial deformity.

IF treated at an early age it is almost undetectable as an adult.

With my healthcare background along with my wife's as well as having the ability to afford plastic surgery and healthcare for a child we chose to go the Cleft lip/palate route.

This girl will be a princess here with us.. In China she would be left behind and a circus freak.. (shit you not)

Her life would be unimaginable. Not just as a female Orphan in China, but as a girl with a deformed face.

Very touching - I'm impressed. :thumbsup

Congratulations to you and your wife - your Little Princess is blessed to have two such loving and caring people welcoming her into their lives...

ADG

dank 04-24-2008 01:08 PM

I remember this pic of the BP4L hitting the Great Wall of China for the first time.

Not even the Great wall a wonder of the world could hold back the BP4L.

http://a707.ac-images.myspacecdn.com...f106cf05b2.jpg

http://a826.ac-images.myspacecdn.com...0d05d3ece9.jpg

http://a403.ac-images.myspacecdn.com...80d6f2400a.jpg

Goofy Fucker

Socks 04-24-2008 01:08 PM

Actually you know what boneprone, let's do some business together man

I remember you were one of the first people I met that gave me some time and advice on the show floor in Vegas 2002... 2003? fuck.. :) as were Gary and Bob from YNot.

You're a good guy, I like good people. :) How can I contact you?

My e-mail is [email protected]
ICQ is... 437201916

I'm totally serial. Let's talk.

dank 04-24-2008 01:10 PM

LOL. Looking at BP's Myspace pics.

Im suprised your wife was willing to go back to China!
The great wall hike almost killed her last time.

http://a857.ac-images.myspacecdn.com...577dd04498.jpg

Ravage 04-24-2008 01:11 PM

Congratz BP!

dank 04-24-2008 01:12 PM

MOre pics from Boneprone's myspace. (looks like hes posting pics as we speak)

http://a6.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/i...e5af0d7c35.jpg

The water is green there!

crockett 04-24-2008 01:14 PM

Congrats on the little girl..

and that river is disgusting.. if nothing else maybe the Olympics will shed light on how bad China actually is.

RyuLion 04-24-2008 01:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by boneprone (Post 14107989)
Mexicans are good at math?

:1orglaugh
http://www.ryulion.com/images/b4after.jpg

BobG 04-24-2008 01:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by RyuLion (Post 14108101)

some of my finest work. :1orglaugh

shermo 04-24-2008 01:26 PM

Congrats BP! My wife and I have been talking about this for a while. We want children, but I'm not a fan of the newborn stage. With her being full Chinese, she knows of what happens there to little girls. I'm slowly warming up to the idea, and we may do the same.

baddog 04-24-2008 01:29 PM

Congrats man. And good luck.

RyuLion 04-24-2008 01:37 PM

I didn't know this..
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/asia-pacific/1506469.stm
:(:Oh crap:(

LauraLee 04-24-2008 01:37 PM

It is an amazing choice and I commend you to the up most degree. You and your wife are guardian angels. I wish you a lifetime of love shared.

Casa Nova 04-24-2008 01:38 PM

Congrats on the adoption man, that's great to hear!!!

Mazuma Jason 04-24-2008 01:49 PM

Congrats man, it must feel good!

RevSand 04-24-2008 01:53 PM

Thats VERY cool man.. Much respect to you for it.

TheSenator 04-24-2008 01:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by boneprone (Post 14107989)
Mexicans are good at math?

Yeah, they know how to multiply.

LiveDose 04-24-2008 01:59 PM

Congrats to you...

RyuLion 04-24-2008 02:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TheSenator (Post 14108269)
Yeah, they know how to multiply.

gringos know how to obey US laws..
:1orglaugh:upsidedow:1orglaugh

CherryLipsRosa 04-24-2008 02:03 PM

Impressive, great thing to do.

Socks 04-24-2008 02:04 PM

Calderon (the new Mexican president) apparently has a few family members living illegally in the USA, but won't say who they are or where they live.. ;)

Brad 04-24-2008 02:08 PM

Hey Man, congrats.

Did you get tickets to any of the events? I was just over there visiting my sister and a friend of theirs said that they were only selling them via lottery to people who are residents of China.

Also the one child policy can be avoided by paying a small tax apparently. But it's still a huge problem there obviously. You are a good man for adopting.

Kudles 04-24-2008 02:35 PM

Congrats!

Madame0120 04-24-2008 03:05 PM

God Bless you all and safe travels!

aimeesweet 04-24-2008 03:07 PM

Congratulations on the newest addition to your family... she's a lucky little girl to have such wonderful parents :)

BluntsandBitches 04-24-2008 03:09 PM

that before/after pic is HILARIOUS :)

congrats

boneprone 04-24-2008 03:54 PM

Thanks guys. Been busy with paperwork all day.

Big day for us.

boneprone 04-24-2008 03:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by RyuLion (Post 14108101)


LOL.. I had to really look at that for a while to figure out if that was Jason or not.

Biggy 04-24-2008 03:58 PM

"i fucked her." - boneprone. :upsidedow

congrats

boneprone 04-24-2008 03:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sherm (Post 14108128)
Congrats BP! My wife and I have been talking about this for a while. We want children, but I'm not a fan of the newborn stage. With her being full Chinese, she knows of what happens there to little girls. I'm slowly warming up to the idea, and we may do the same.

I dont know if I can reconmend it at this time. With the Olympics and with all the shit the government over there is trying to hide its backlogged the whole system. Its up to a THREE YEAR wait right now..

Horrible.

Id wait till after the olympics. Maybe next year this time and see if things have been speeding up. The whole system is on a hault right now.

Unless you are willing to go the special needs route right now, its a very long wait.

It used to be 1 year. Now its up to 3. However Im thinking that once the public eye is off China, they will start opening the doors again to the overpopulated hidden orphanages.

boneprone 04-24-2008 04:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by RyuLion (Post 14108174)
I didn't know this..
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/asia-pacific/1506469.stm
:(:Oh crap:(

Old article from 2001...

ITs gotten worse................

Hopefully with the spolight on China during the Olympics some more light will be on this epidemic of an issue over there.

AZSarah 04-24-2008 04:12 PM

Wow, congratulations to you & your family on your newest addition!
Have a safe trip there & home :)


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