OK Cheaters, fess up....
 

Ok, how many of you have cheated in a relationship? The worst I've ever done was kiss another girl, not hardcore cheating but cheating none the less... what about the rest of you?

i find it very hard to believe that i'm the worst cheater amongst the gfy crew...

many of them wont cheat on their hands

There is a lot more to cheating than just "sex."

Anytime a partner whether it be a husband, wife, boyfriend, or girlfriend devotes more time to unimportant issues like hobbies, sports, t.v., and in some cases even friends than they devote to their loved ones that is a form of cheating.

I've known many guys who would rather leave the house on the weekend and spend their time on a hunting trip than spend it with their family....and I'm not talking about that once every fall or once every spring type trip.
I'm talking about every possible weekend they can get away.

Playing golf, going to the bars, etc.

Anytime you deprive your partner or your children of love and shower that love on such unimportant things you are cheating them.

No ifs ands or buts about it.

WTF have you been smoking? Seriously you believe love is being stuck together 100% percent of the time? I'm sorry but my relationships with my girlfriends are a bit more than that. I would be fuckin unhappy if i always had to be with the girffriend and she would be really unhappy as well. She has her friends and i have mine and i enjoy going out for a beer with my friends and she likes to go out dancing with hers. We're perfectly comfortable with that. I'm very strong on my "me time" and she knows it.
You gotta be on helluva possessive person to think like that.

I feel for you...you have obviously been brainwashed...maybe you should not spend too much time on GFY or your wife is going to bitch slap you for cheating on her...

Does dirty prostitutes count?:thumbsup

I agree with you 100%.

When I wanna go out with my mates I do it even if my girl doesn't want me to which isn't often....and when she wants to go out with her friends I see it as another excuse to go out with mine again LOL

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Oh my.

I have cheated, not proud but I have done it. In my earlier years from about 19 to 24...but at that age who the hell needs to be serious!

I think you missed the point here Dildozer. Eros meant that if someone allocates too much time to one thing and ignores the people who they have said that they would love then they are cheating that person out of true caring that they have promised them.

Either way... Too much of anything is a bad thing. Everything in moderation. I believe that everyone needs 3 sects of time... Time with the ones they love, time with friends, and time ALONE. Many times people get smoothered with one or the other and then run to another one to get away. But either way everyone needs time with Wife, Kids, Family, etc. Time with the boys or girls. And time alone to reflect and internalize on themselves. Balance that properly and you will be happy.

I totally agree with you.
I have friends whom i barely see anymore because of their girlfriend. We used to hang out alot and then she came by. Everytime i have to see those guys they always have to be with their girlfriends. It's really depressing and kinda pathetic. Shows to me how spineless some guys are or how fragile some relationships can be.

I mean, i'm not afraid to tell my girlfriend when she shouldn't come or when i don't want her to come and she does the same for me. We love each other very much still and respect each other's time away.

We finally have someone with intelligence responding on this post.

You dumb fucks who can't read or comprehend what I was writing let me explain it to you.

I was not talking about people who go out with their friends OCCASIONALLY.
I was referring to the boyfriends, husbands...FATHERS who week in and week out find excuses to avoid being with their families or loved ones on their weekend days off.

Get a grip on yourselves...you guys think way too much of yourselves.

I always wondered if fucking a hooker counts as cheating

Does it count when you spend your 2nd wedding anny
with a girl that isn't your wife?

Honor:

1: High respect, as that shown for special merit; esteem.

2: Good name; reputation.

3: A title conferred for achievement.

4: Principled uprightness of character; personal integrity.

5: A code of integrity, dignity, and pride, chiefly among men.

Got Honor?

I know I do.

I have a better question - Why do people get to the point where they want to cheat?

Is it because the relationship becomes too "comfortable", and both parties stop trying? Is it because the rose-colored glasses fade out and reality sets in? I've been in enough relationships to know that the rules will eventually change... but that can only happen if it's mutually agreed upon.

I've never cheated, but I was cheated on once when I was very young. It only took once for me to realize that I never wanted to go through that a second time. My feeling is that if you are so unhappy with the person you're with that you feel the need to stray, you should just end the relationship and move on. Keeps you from being labeled an asshole, and them from being hurt.

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