need help!! embedding flash problem
 

I am thoroughly confused, I am building a site---I am no expert by any means...but I am doing things the same way I have built every other site and all my sites use flash...but for some reason, the flash isn't showing up/working...I am not doing anything different...I tried taking out the preloader just to test it with the same results...if I go to the actual file it shows up....I am going crazy trying to figure this out. If anyone has time and has some know-how...could you check this out for me
here is the page
http://www.flashgamessex.com/
(nothing really there yet)
here is the flash file
http://www.flashgamessex.com/flashlo..._games_sex.swf
thanks in advance