My apology to SonOfSam . . . and a pic
 

I had an epiphany the other night.

I was visiting one of my girlfriends and somehow we got on the topic of today's youth (18-25). As she works with job placement, she has gained a lot of insight to the supposed right of entitlement that kids these days think they have.

She mentioned how when she was in college (she's 33) it was not unusual for students to take some time off, and go backpack through Europe, with the opportunity to actually interact with others. This could take place on the flight over, riding the rails, etc, etc. Today, people plug in their iPods and don't even talk to the person sitting next to them.

She blames a lot of this on TV and the Internet, in that parents use these tools as babysitters. Instead of going out to play with the neighbors, kids are playing with their XBox, or in some Yahoo chatroom. This has resulted in a generation of people that have very little in the way of life experience, and social interaction beyond the online forum.

So many people come to her looking for $75k a year, with no skills beyond knowing how to use MS Paint and perhaps a little html. They expect that the Internet is there, and since they have been using it since they were 8, there is no logical reason why they should not be successful at it.

I jokingly mentioned that I have spent the last 10 years pretty much tethered to my pc, so what makes me any different? Her response, "life experience."

Then it dawned on me, that is part of SonOfSam's problem. He thinks that since he moved out at 16 that he has seen it all. If he hasn't done it, it hasn't been done. Fact is, at 20/21 most of us thought we knew it all. Reality is, as we grow older we only learn how wrong we were, and how much smarter our parents have become as we grow older.

I did mention to her that there was a gnat on GFY that fit the description she had laid out, as she told me the problem most likely that this gnat probably had a lousy relationship with his parents, and that he perceives me as an authority figure . . . . so naturally, he has to rebel.

Well, SOS, I am not your dad, and I would probably hang myself if I were from the disappointment in raising a son like you. You should not mope around too much that you failed at your Internet endeavors, not everyone can succeed and there are lots of other opportunities out there, so don't dispair.

Step outside, and find out that there is a life beyond your room. You have a lot to learn and live, and (if you live long enough) you will look back and realize just how clueless you really were.

Oh, and "Julia Blue" says hi.


http://juliablue.com/juliablue.jpg

Hey, where's that photo hosted at? :1orglaugh

ADG

I never knew you were this ruthless.



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omg.... this thread is awesome :thumbsup

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damn BD ya got me. I thought for a second there that you were gonna step up and be a man. my bad

I concur:thumbsup

hehehehehehe

that is rather amusing....cruel....but funny :1orglaugh

I am apologizing for giving him too much credit. I have kids his age that are nowhere near as insolent as he is. Now I know why.


Sorry if you think I should coddle his punk ass.

That look on her face...

It's almost as if she knows who the pic is for. :D

almost eerie

1.) I have a very close relationship with my parents.. and i feel embarrased for your kids. Not embarrased for them because you work in porn, but because you are 70+ years old and creep on 18 year old girls, as if it is acceptable since you work in adult.

2.) Mope around the house? haha..... no matter what you say... i'm 21 have my own car and bike, my own place and a girlfriend of 5 years...I don't have to work a 9-5 job... you think my life is really that bad?

3.) Julia blue says hi? Cool... ask her how her coke addiction is going... last i heard she had gone on such a crazy coke binge that she flaked on spunky and went to toronto to strip to support her coke habbit..

god... she sure is a beauty...

send her my regards... and soon please.. before she dies of an overdose :thumbsup

http://5stargalls.com/tgp/sc/ts/tris...-stevens-6.jpg

http://5stargalls.com/tgp/sc/ts/tris...-stevens-4.jpg

the pic tells alll!

Just passing through :)

This thread needs to be a sticky.
Classic.

hahaha poor SonofSam... might be time to register a new nick, man. You fucked up your real life pretty good, but at least you can always clean the slate on here.

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you guys are hilarious... I truly feel sad for some of you who believe adult IS the be all end all of life..

I failed in adult... so what? it means my life is over now? :1orglaugh:1orglaugh get a life

I don't work in adult. :)

Your failure in on a much larger scope.

You know this how? because i fucked up an affiliate program? :1orglaugh

Yeah.. you sure know my entire life story, idiot :thumbsup

owned x 10

i dont know whats lamer

a punk ass kid being a douchebag on an adult board
or
a grown man trying to own a punk ass kid on an adult board


gotta love the interwebs :1orglaugh

I don't really know you or anything about you, but i will say it took me along time to learn enough to live off this biz. Now I'm full time and paying the bills with porn, one day i will be rich through porn. If you quit, you get no where.

It is a tough biz despite what people say. Most of the big boys here got big when it was easier to make money through porn, these days its tougher, but easily achievable if you work bloody hard and don't give up.

This should be quite a thread.....

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Yah... it might be as big as those threads where people found out that mpa3 had features built in to let you shave, huh?

look how big of a junky juliablue is..

i'm suprised spunky still even shot her like this...

being from vancouver, he could have saved some money by offering the junkies on east hastings a 20 rock for a days worth of shooting

http://5stargalls.com/tgp/sc/ts/tris.../babefree.html

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I wish I had popcorn

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very unnecessary..

I don't have a dog in this fight, but it looks like that chick is forcing herself with that fake-kiss pose.

Baddog,

I find it funny that you would post this given your age. I believe that at the age of 53-54, one could figure out why a young buck is giving you such a hard time on a public forum and a female in her earlier thirties sheds the light.

I doubt that one of your girlfriends is really a GIRLFRIEND (meaning that you date, build a relationship and hopefully have sex and eventfully talk about a true commitment for life). I could be wrong but a 33 year old girl dating a 50 plus old man is looking for a father figure or is a gold digger.

Please don?t fool yourself. While most of us like you (me included), one has to worry about you making this post and your obsession of being photograph with young girls all the time. Even Paul M, hasn?t stoop to this level, and I believe he has a lot more years on you, yet he looks the same age as you!

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What exactly happened anyway?

Ah, I didn't know that was the same girl.

Jesus christ Uno...

Get with it...

and baddog, youre a mean ole man. Sonofsam is here to play, let him tire out and he'll take another 5 month nap.

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh I've got to clean my monitor off from spraying it with a mouthfull of coffee when I hit the ""Julia Blue says hi." part... classic burn..

I don't pay attention to everything and most know my memory is pretty shot. :(

what was that you said ??:winkwink:

Who are you again? :1orglaugh:1orglaugh

http://5stargalls.com/tgp/sc/ts/tris...-stevens-6.jpg


^ hahahahhahaha sucks to be her.

Sam can you please link me to any proof at all that MPA3 had built in shave features.. Remember a link that MPA3 had a built in shave feature. Thanks

He wasn't around when all that was going on. I'm sure it was just an honest mistake.

Think before you speak, that's a huge life lesson. He was trying to "own" Oy and spoke out of place.

lmao..this thread delivers 10/10 :thumbsup

Okay sorry, my mistake.. i meant to say mpa2 not mpa3...

though it makes no difference considering it is a product made by the same company..

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If you ask me SOS is one of the coolest board characters out here ! lol

[QUOTE=sonofsam;12962341]Okay sorry, my mistake.. i meant to say mpa2 not mpa3...

though it makes no difference considering it is a product made by the same company..

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Keep in mind when MPA came out they were building an affiliate backend based on what program owners wanted. This feature was added due to many owners requesting it. Maybe you should go after everyone who used mpa2...

right... so since there are a lot of creeps out there, is it acceptable to sell cp?

great reasoning.

anyways... this thread isn't about mpa2 or mpa3 or whatever... i made my point in response to his comment.. and that's that.

That's a very shit attempt to make a comparison.

If you went to a fair amount of programmers within this industry and wanted them to code something dirty they would. Money is money when it comes to that.

If you went to any content providers and wanted them to shoot CP they would not... Big difference.

oh puh-leeze ....... it was a horrible thing for MPA to do and they should thank their lucky stars that this industry has such short memories. at the time this was going on there were still lots of naive affiliates who really didn't believe in shaving - it took seeing it to finally hit home.

there would be no NATS probably if that scandal hadn't happened.

So you are saying that programs did not want a shave feature?