Question for guys, when you are with your gf and...
 

You are driving and some other car pulls up beside you and starts talking/shit disrespecting you, would you talk shit back or just ignore it?

Personally, I think it's better to ignore it because they are a bunch of dumb fucks anyways and not worth the time.

I know a guy who started talking talking shit back (because the other car started it) and then started driving all crazy and running a bunch of red lights and busting u-turns in the middle of the street to get away from the other car.

Would you agree that was wrong of him because he could have gotten not only himself but also his girlfriend shot (if you mess with the wrong person you could get shot around here) and also caused her danger by driving recklessly (he almost crashed into another car).

I think the guy should have just ignored the other fuckers and just pretended they weren't there, I mean, who cares if people talk shit... Now the girl is mad at the guy because she thinks he endagered her by being all macho and stuff. Is she right to be angry about this? Or was he right in doing what he did?

And no, this is not about me, just someone I know.

id ignore that shit, its pointless

And to add, my question is basically, who is right?

Is the girl right for being pissed at him being "macho" and driving like that (running bunch of red lights, going super fast way over the speed limit, almost hitting another car)?

Or is the guy right because the other car (full of guys) disrespected him first?

One more thing I also forgot, is that the guy is mad at the girl because she wasn't on his side and wanted to get out of the car because he was driving like that.

Also, when this happened, the guy was driving his gf's car, that's another reason why she's upset, because he could have crashed her car as well and driving like a maniac.

So who do you think is right in this instance?

"driving his gf's car"? Acting like a total retard? where do you find losers like that?

Stupid. I'm with the women on this one. Never put a women in a position of doing her harm.

lol, they were gonna go grab a bite and decided to take her car, what's wrong with that?

I suppose nothing, but I've never seen a guy do something like that, around here usually the guy drives his own car when taking a girl out to eat...

i would call Fonzi and set up a drag race and get all my friends to wear their leather jackets and tight jeans and show up to cheer me on

Well, they have lived together before, it's not a "new" relationship so it's no big deal. It's not like they were on a "date", they've already been going out for years.

lol why are you trying to explain the relationship? I drive my girlfriends car all the time if we use it when we go out...reason plain and simple she is a shit driver.

I'd note his car registration number and ignore him. After i am done with gf, i will find him back and fuck the shit outta him.

Oh dear, fuck the shit out of him, you say? That's brutal...but I think you meant 'beat' the shit out of him, right? Either way it serves 'em right.

There's lots of assholes like that in the southern U.S. I always try to ignore it, but it seems to be happening more & more often.

I'd have to say the girl was in the right because, as Casa Nova said, you should never endanger your girl. From what I gather he basically endangered her to save his pride. :Oh crap

Well, he just said that no matter what he will always talk back in order to protect himself no matter who is with him and that she wasn't in danger at all because he knew what he was doing and if something happened he claims he knows he could get away from the other car.

He actually got angry at his gf for telling him to stop it because he claimed that was going against him and being on the side of "the other guys". His way of thinking is that "you're either with him or against him."

Plus he said it was his gf's fault he almost crashed into another car (a random car) because his gf was telling him to stop it and let her get out of the car. He wouldn't stop and I think she got scared and tried to jump out .

He says she is making a big deal out of nothing.

Also when his gf tried to jump out (cause she thought he might crash or whatever) he stopped her and they started fighting together all while he was driving...

The best thing to do in a situation like that is, at the next stoplight when the idiots pull up beside you, a true baller would reach over and grab his girl and pull her close, plant a huge long wet kiss on her, and look over with one eye at the assholes and wink.

When the light changes and they start to go through the intersection you wait just a second, then turn down the side street and fuck them off. No way for them to follow if there's enough other traffic on the road, as they are already comitted to going straight. By the time they get turned around the right way to come after you you've already made several more turns and are 10 blocks away and your girl can't wait to get you home for more making out instead of hating you.

Well the guy I'm referring to is not the type of person to do this at all. If someone messes with him he will mess back with them and he likes to fuck with them. That's just how he is.

And he's mad at his gf now because she tried to get out of the car and was against him doing all of that because she could have died. Not to mention he almost crashed her car, or could have crashed it and wouldn't stop the car when she told him to, she almost tried to jump out of his car because she thought they were going to die, the way that he was driving.

He was so worked up that when he almost hit a random car, he started cussing out that driver, even though the driver was just a bystander and not at fault, the random driver almost got HIT from behind, that's when she tried to get out of the car.

I would ignore the stupid guys....just roll your window up and try to take the next right/left street just enought to loss those fuckers

sometimes being a Pussy is better than being Dead

Also, he's mad at his gf now for trying to jump out of the car, he said that she was crazy. The thing is that he almost hit other cars and then started cussing out the people he almost hit, he rolled down the window and said "fuck you" and all this other stuff really loudly and swerving around, so that's why his gf tried to jump out, he wouldn't stop the car (perhaps he was scared the other car would catch up to him or something, who knows).

Do you think she was at fault for trying to get out? He wouldn't stop the car so what else could she do?

lol another hypothetical :winkwink:

You're right, his way sounds a lot better than mine.

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Yes, they all are.

No, really, this is just something I heard happening between some folks I know and I was worried and wanted to see what people thought about it....

No, your way is better, but the I know the guy and I don't think he would agree to that. He gets mad at his gf when she tells him to ignore the other guys and that it's no big deal. He gets mad and claims that it IS a big deal.

I totally agree with your idea. Do you think the gf was right to try and get out of the car? She tried to get out of a MOVING CAR and could have gotten hurt. He is actually mad at her now.

So that's why you keep adding detail to it as if you were there? :winkwink:

She's not at fault in the least. Your friend is an impulsive dipshit, and she needs to boot his ass to the curb pronto. Sounds like he has deep anger issues.

If he really wanted to give those assholes what they deserved he should have pulled the car over safely and parked, then got out and went over to their car and calmly but quickly kicked the shit out of the biggest and toughest of the bunch, then challenged the rest until they got back in their sorry ass vehicle and putted off down the road never to bother another fucker driving with his girlfriend again.


Driving like an idiot and putting her life at risk was the absolute worst thing he could do.


Clear enough?

No, I heard the story from one of the people firsthand, just left out some details, thats all!

This is breaking news, it's happening as we speak. :D

Well, here in Cali, you never know who's carrying a gun, I don't think he would fight those guys cause you never know what they have on them, or if they have knives and are going to cheat... or play dirty or all jump in. You never know, so I guess it's best to stay in your car and zoom off in this instance. Also, the guy I'm talking about isn't really into fighting it out if he can avoid it.

There you have it then.

Case solved.

I'm actually friends with the girl in this case, not the guy, although I know him too.

Anyways, while the girl was trying to get out of the car, the part I left out was that her bf started pulling her hair quite hard because I guess he was worried that she wanted to jump out of a moving car (and possibly hurt/kill herself) and he was pulling her hair very hard, and then told her that he saved her life, although I'm not sure he realizes that she tried to get out because HE was endangering her life.

So she was pissed and left him stranded there in the parking lot where they pulled in and just went home without him and left there.

Smart of her to do that, but if she doesn't dump him completely and get this twit out of her life for good she deserves what she gets in future, which I hazard a good guess will be more of the same.

Thats why I said I'd ignore to my last level when I am with girl .. I cant put her in danger at any cost, even at the cost of my self-respect.

After that, doesn't matter what happens .. I have balls to stand and fight back, both orally and physically :thumbsup

Right, it is always about you and that loser b/f you keep hanging with.