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03-15-2007, 07:39 PM

So let's say here's the situation:

Your significant other owns his business (adult), hires an employee he'd be working with who happens to be female, and would be in his office 3-4 times per week. Basically his right-hand girl. It would basically be him and her only, as it's a small company doesn't have any other local employees. Now, would you feel uncomfortable with this situation considering you were with your S/O for 3 years and knew they've been faithful 100% of the way and were only working for the good of your future with them together? Honest question.

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03-15-2007, 07:42 PM

You're wife is boning me on the side so she doesn't care what you do..seriously most women would have a problem with that.

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03-15-2007, 07:45 PM

who cares? if you've been her S/O for 3 years and you haven't popped the question, you're not marrying her anyway. She'll find a new guy to fuck. no biggy.

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03-15-2007, 07:46 PM

Spunky,

Funny, no really. I know most would, that's why I'm trying to get a general concensus of the community here. I want to see just how many have issues with it.

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03-15-2007, 07:46 PM

12clicks,

Not neccessarily true. Each case is different in the area of marriage.

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03-15-2007, 07:49 PM

I'd be pissed

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03-15-2007, 07:52 PM

Originally posted by jerzeemedia

12clicks,

Not neccessarily true. Each case is different in the area of marriage.

no its not. The people involved just think it is. ;)

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03-15-2007, 08:14 PM

Originally posted by jerzeemedia

So let's say here's the situation:

Your significant other owns his business (adult), hires an employee he'd be working with who happens to be female, and would be in his office 3-4 times per week. Basically his right-hand girl. It would basically be him and her only, as it's a small company doesn't have any other local employees. Now, would you feel uncomfortable with this situation considering you were with your S/O for 3 years and knew they've been faithful 100% of the way and were only working for the good of your future with them together? Honest question.

I would not care. It is only a working relationship. If you have been with someone for three years, you should have trust in them. If there is no trust, then there should be no relationship.
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03-16-2007, 09:29 AM

No issue. If she's hot, bring her home to me, satisfy the curiousity together so you can get back to work.

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03-16-2007, 10:35 AM

depends on what she looks like, and if she's a bitch when i meet her.

no matter what she looks like, if she's cool, i don't think i'd have a problem.

and if she was obese and disgusting looking, but a total bitch, i would not be thrilled about the situation.

if she was cute, as long as she's cool, i don't think i'd have a problem right off the bat. unless he gave me a specific reason to have one.

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03-16-2007, 10:49 AM

Originally posted by Spunky

You're wife is boning me on the side so she doesn't care what you do..seriously most women would have a problem with that.

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03-16-2007, 11:18 AM

I'd feel somewhat uncomfortable with it. Just make sure the girlfriend gets to see how the you and the girl interact to ease her mind. Invite girl over for dinner or to hang out, so your girlfriend and she can build some trust between the two of them. If you try to keep them separate, that raises suspicion.

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03-16-2007, 11:18 AM

My significant other is the owner of none adult biz so I don't really know what to say.

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03-16-2007, 11:41 AM

i'd be okay with it, but then - i'd probably try to keep the girl for myself.

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03-16-2007, 12:54 PM

If your woman knows you work in porn, then she should have no reason to be upset that you work with any type of women. My wife works in porn and most of the photographers are men. I do not get jealous one bit. She is friends with these guys and hangs out with them without me. If you have been with someone for three years, and they do not trust you enough to have a woman work for you, then you need to really rethink your relationship. Why would anyone want to be with an insecure woman?

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03-16-2007, 01:33 PM

You can't live your life according to what women will have a problem with......because they will have a problem with everything then. Plenty of women told me "All women are Crazy, and the ones that deny that are BatShit Crazy"

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03-16-2007, 03:29 PM

Originally posted by buck30

If you have been with someone for three years, and they do not trust you enough to have a woman work for you, then you need to really rethink your relationship. Why would anyone want to be with an insecure woman?

Seems right but the last sentence is sorry, but...khmm...incorrect. Not all the people are "secure" and confident, look at artists for example, lot of them are insecure. So there are a lot of artists out there noone wants to go out with? I doubt that.

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03-16-2007, 04:04 PM

I'd feel uncomfortable too but if trust would be the only thing that can at least assure me that he'll have his hands away from her.

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03-16-2007, 04:13 PM

I'd be uncomfortable too but communication is the key

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03-16-2007, 04:54 PM

Originally posted by TG Rebecca

depends on what she looks like, and if she's a bitch when i meet her.

no matter what she looks like, if she's cool, i don't think i'd have a problem.

and if she was obese and disgusting looking, but a total bitch, i would not be thrilled about the situation.

if she was cute, as long as she's cool, i don't think i'd have a problem right off the bat. unless he gave me a specific reason to have one.

I agree. I'm not a jealous person, however I will not stand for disrespect from him or her. I'd want to meet her first hand, get my own outlook on the situation based on vibes and body language interaction between the two. If she's hired to help improve the bottom line, I'm all for that. If she can use her looks and feminine wiles for the biz, more power to her, if she has her sites on my man, I may have a problem with that, despite how "loyal" he has been to me. If she's honest about it, and a hottie, I may consider sharing, but otherwise, I'd expect to see nothing but biz results from her performance.

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03-16-2007, 05:39 PM

if he's been faithful to me i think there's no way to doubt. as long as i have his assurance that i'm the only woman in his life,theres no problem with me. anyways, i would still monitor him in the office, communicate with him regularly..hehehe...:D

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