Questions for you women...seriously.
 

Ok,
as a man I'd like you women to explain a few things for me in a serious manner with no pun intended. Ok? Ok...

#1. When you check out other girls whether its their boobs, butt, hair etc, why?

#2. If two average or attractive women were making out and pleasing eachother, would you find it sexy and erotic or not? If so, why?

#3. Do women think sexual thoughts about men they see, be it guys in the grocery store, on TV or otherwise or is it only men that think that way?

Thats it I think..

Those are three questions I would like seriously answered.

Thanks!
:pimp

Good questions, I want to know too.

most women in real life would lie and say they dont but I suspect they do check out other men

#1. When you check out other girls whether its their boobs, butt, hair etc, why?

***cuz we want them

#2. If two average or attractive women were making out and pleasing eachother, would you find it sexy and erotic or not? If so, why?

***if they are sober yeah its cool. if they are drunk i personally find it annoying because i feel that most of the people who do it drunk would never do it sober and that pisses me off lol.

#3. Do women think sexual thoughts about men they see, be it guys in the grocery store, on TV or otherwise or is it only men that think that way?

***i do definitely! if i see a guy i think is hot i say to myself "i would fuck the shit out of him!" :)

hmm... interesting

1. I look at other women because I'm competitive and HATE other attractive woman. If they are attractive I like to scrutinize their makeup, face, body, clothes and pick them apart. I like to see what their wearing, the brands/designers of their clothes, the way they put their outfit together. I like to judge and criticize other people. If someone is attractive I like to study them and see if they are naturally attractive, or if they have had work done, like veneers, teeth bleaching, artfully applied makeup that looks "natural" but really isn't. If I see muscle tone in their legs I wonder if they exercise of if they are naturally toned. I am a competitive person. I'm not necessarily competing for "the attention of men" because that isn't really a worthwhile pursuit, it's just that I'm competitive in general in all regards, in terms of looks, money, how successful I am compared to someone else. How I stack up or compare to someone else. Not just with women but men too. I am just that way in general. Trust me, I'm being brutally honest. I think that's the reason most women look at each other, it's competition.

2. No. I could care less about other women. If I saw two women kissing I would their a bunch of fucken attention whores and doing it to get the attention of men. I don't find other women "erotic".

3. Yea sometimes I do but not in grocery stores, or shopping, I'm too busy buying my shit to pay attention to any passerbys. Of course I think men are attractive on tv, or on-line when I have the time available to actually look at them. When I'm out to shop or run errands, then I'm out to RUN ERRANDS. I am a focused person. I don't want to be sidetracked by distractions so I don't check out men.

all this girl - girl action in this thread makes me horneyyyyyyyyyy

Oh I have to edit in regards to #2

I would ONLY find two women getting it on erotic if it's in a porn movie. That I like and find attractive because it's just sex, but if it's two women doing that at a club or party I would think their a bunch of dumb attention whores who aren't able to get men's attention by their looks alone (because they are unattractive) and therefore have to resort to "lesbo wannabe stunts" to get attention. I would think their a bunch of chickenheads.

oh and I have to edit #1. I don't ONLY dislike attractive women, it's just that when I don't know someone they don't mean anything to me so I don't care for them, attractive or not. So I tend to not be too friendly with any woman I don't know.

I don't ONLY look at attractive women, I actually like to study and "observe" all sorts of people, attractive or not, but usually when I'm looking at ANY woman, whether they are attractive or not, it's to see how I measure up. That's the truth. And to see "far up" they are in terms of looks, financial success, career, etc.

And I have to add one more thing.. in regards to #3 ALL woman fantasize sexually about attractive men. I tend not to when I'm DOING THINGS because I don't want to give any man so much attention to where he will think he is actually good looking. I don't want to give anyone a "big head" or feed someone's ego. It's not my job to make someone I don't know feel good about themselves. I would rather let them wonder if I even noticed them.

But if I can look at someone without being detected I will. I'm shy so I prefer checking out guys when I can't be seen or when I know that they can't see me checking them out. I'm very discreet.

Like bausch mentioned, it's mostly studying, but for me it goes like this. If I see something that looks good ie. a nice hair or make-up, I think: "Hey I should try that". And also if I see something that looks terrible I try and avoid doing the same mistake. And yes, I like to check out the competition, too.

No. Why? Because I'm straight. Replace "women" with "men" and I'd be curious, but not even then would I find it erotic. And the "attention whore" type of behaviour in night clubs etc. that was mentioned before pisses me off no end, but that's a different rant altogether.


Men in grocery strores - no, not really.
TV - occasionally, but I don't even realize I find someone attractive untill I have a naughty dream about them, lol.

I'd want another question answered, the famous: "Why do they all go toilets in groups" one

Ok,
now you are in a relationship...

Anything change?

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

sounds more like insecure than competitive.

What Im asking is, taking in the answers provided thus far, how would your responses change if you were in a relationship.

I'm asking these questions for a specific reason. I have a bet going and am trying to prove a point to a co worker.

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1- Most women observe each others to see how they look, if they are prettier than them, if they like their style they'll try to copy it etc etc we constantly judge each others.

2- I would, but not every woman would. Although most women are bi-curious even if they dont admit it.

3- Women think about men just like men think of women. Some years ago I constantly had pornographic images in my mind, I could follow the class and half my brain was thinking of cock.

because then we can gossip, say bitchy things about the evening etc or just chat. If you have to wait in a lineup to go to the bathroom, might as well have someone to talk to.

i agree with that

relationship doesn't change anything. You can still have sexual thoughts about people you see, meet, or porn you watch etc if you are in a relationship... it woudl be stupid to think that the world stop existing around you when you have a bf!

Yep, this is true as well. If I like something on someone, like their hair, clothes, anything, I will try to copy it... :1orglaugh

1.) In general, I don't judge what anyone looks like. Men or women. It doesn't matter to me either way. If I am looking at other women or what they are wearing etc. I usually want to duplicate a certain look or simply admire them. I have absolutely no problem admitting when someone is attractive, but it really doesn't cross my mind. It's usually not the first thing I think when I see a person. Of course there's jealousy and competitiveness among women, that's just natural instinct and some is healthy even. But excessive jealously or envy is just ridiculous. Who cares really? As long as you are happy, it doesn't matter what anyone else has or looks like.

2.) No. I don't even like seeing men and women kiss lol. It can even be annoying when you know those 2 women aren't even lesbians.

3.) I have never fantasized about strangers. Not even celebs. It's never been my thing. Not sure why, but it never interested me.

I'm not like excessively jealous, just competitive, I know I stare more when someone is attractive, for some reason I have to admit it's the first thing I notice about someone. If someone is really good looking it just strikes me more and it does tend to make me feel more insecure. I also notice if someone is good looking and is
driving a nice car for example, I like to compare and see if mine is better. Or if a woman is good looking but drive a hooptie than I feel better about myself cause my car is better, or if I know I make more money than them. I'll admit it, I'm very superficial and shallow. I can't help it.

I'm straight, I don't like women in that way but I can appreciate all sorts of porn, even gay porn (men), anything weird and unusual, even if I'm not into it personally, I don't mind watching it.

I don't see how any of that would change if I was in a relationship. I do have dirty thoughts all the time, I mean really graphic stuff, I'm very visual cause I've seen lots of porn so I really think that I think like a guy. That's not gonna stop if I'm with someone, I just don't look at men when I'm in grocery stores (as the topic starter suggested) cause shopping can be stressful for me, I don't have time to be checking anyone out, but I do have fantasies all the time.

1) To see how they measure up in comparison

2) Does nothing for most of them

3) Sometimes the urge strikes them. But most would rather be shopping. Really.

To be honest I prefer watching porn over fantasizing. Fantasizing takes too much energy and thought and uses brain power, why go through the trouble when you can just watch porn? Porn is more potent than any fantasy.

interesting reading

Bausch is one hell of a specimen, and any psychologist's nightmare patient, or dream research subject.

nice read..:)

true girl... absolutely true things!