Would U meet someone U met on-line ?
 

I met a man in internet. He seems really cute to me, I spend all my free time chatting with him. It happened 2 years ago, and now I think I am in love. He wants me to come visit him (he lives 700 miles away).
Already bought a ticket, took vacation and promised him what I?ll arrive at 1st may. I am not sure - should I do that? I am so afraid to be dissapointed!

don't worry about getting dissapointed get worried about being gangraped by 23 sailors who just got back from a 6 month trip with a submarine. Good Luck!

why not?

75% of my friends that I have today are because of online meetings, what would make finding someone romantically any different?

oh wait, pedophiles, stalkers and crazies...that's right!

Thats a hard way :1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

why not? Go ahead!

You must be 1 of those 23 sailors :winkwink:

I dont think he is . We play world of warcraft togather last 2 years ... Hes a simple 26 y.o. guy, and often meets with others I play with ( whey live not so far as I do) . I am just afraidt to loose a virtual friend,cause of bad sex experience or any other reasons ...

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hahahahahahhaha that made my day :thumbsup

right then keep him as a virtual friend and come visit me for the sex experience.
:thumbsup

I dig girls that play WoW. So if that doesn't work out, hit me up. :P

j/k

did we see a boobies pic already?

Well, you've already made up your mind, so my advice is just be careful. Start by meeting in public places, trust your instincts about the guy. If something feels off, just keep it friendly, and set boundaries.

I met someone from the 'net with romantic intentions just once, and I have no regrets about it, but I was careful to spend my time in public places at first, and get a feel for the personality. If their demeanor doesn't match their online persona, then they're not being honest, and you want to get as far away as possible from dishonest intentions.

I met another girl just as a friend. Someone who wanted a little tour of the town. That girl creeped me out a bit, so I kept it friendly, but made sure not to give any other signals.

I got a friend who met their match online, they're happy together, so anything's possible. Just "be careful" is all I can say.

I will live in his flat .So its not possible :( And looks like he got only 1 bed :error :error :helpme .
Whats why I am so afraid !

Oh, and as for being dissapointed, it's a possibility. My suggestion is go in without any specific expectations, clean slate, and take your meeting at face value. Maybe he's not what you expected, but you end up having a nice time. Anything can happen, but every time someone has a rigid expectation, dissapointment isn't far behind. So be flexible (figuratively).

Damn, girl. No intermediate steps here? From online to sleeping in the same bed? Well, ain't nothing wrong with that if you're comfortable with the guy. Just make your you're comfortable with the guy.

Keep a credit card or some cash handy in case you need to book a hotel. KEEP IN TOUCH DAILY WITH FRIENDS by phone and e-mail, and make sure he knows you're doing that. You definitely want to stay connected to th erest of the world.

Roy and I met in a chat room. We dated long distance Ok/Ga for more than a year, before I decided to move to TEXAS and be with him. We married a year later, in Decemeber we celerbrated 8 years of bliss.

I would however follow the safety steps preached by most BDSM ppls.

First meeting in a public place, with a "safe call" set up with a Friend. It is suggested that you and your safecall have a code word, in case of danger, and that more than 1 person knows where you will be.

Before I ever met Roy face to face, I had his home and work # and SS#. I spent the 50$ to run a backcheck on him, because I knew I'd be traveling to meet a stranger. However, I would not have been so anal, if it was just lunch at The Mall.

So you know this up front and you're still going?

I usually save that line for when the girl actually arrives. "Oh, BTW, I only have one bed. I hope it doesn't bother you." :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

My suggestion is go in without any specific expectations, clean slate, and take your meeting at face value.

My suggestion is go in without any specific expectations, clean slate, and take your meeting at face value.

My suggestion is go in without any specific expectations, clean slate, and take your meeting at face value.

My suggestion is go in without any specific expectations, clean slate, and take your meeting at face value.

My suggestion is go in without any specific expectations, clean slate, and take your meeting at face value.

You are going to STAY at his APT? BEFORE ever meeting?

Lordy girl that's about the most STUPID thing I've ever heard! Well, there was this party once where ...

I digress ...
Get a hotel room, where you CONTROL the situation, or stay home.

hahahaha you are too much girl. Have fun with the sailors. I'd be bringing
3 gallons of astroglide if I were you :1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

It was fast and crazy – to agree to visit him, I understand it, but if u don’t try u`ll never succeed right?
Sure my friends already have all info about him ( his address, documents, info about his work , etc.) I feel safe what there will not be 23 sailors, and sure I am taking CC and some cash in my bra :)
I just want him to be the person I think he is … And dreaming what it will end like in Madame0120 story .
But U`ll never knew before U find out …

I wish you luck and hope your dream will come true but be aware you perfectly
fit the profile of internet date rate victims: young and NAIVE

My wife and I met online in 1999. :winkwink:

you are crazy girl! :1orglaugh

At least have him meet you at the airport or something, seriously. And while there, have a meal in a public restaurant.

There was a story in my town last year of 2 people meeting and the man killed the woman and burned down her house. Really fucked up.

AND, tell your family/friends your time line. And tell them you will call them at certain times, and if more time goes by, that they should try to reach you or something.

Yeah but ...

I had my own hotel room! As much as I knew about Roy and as sure as I was that he was The One for me, the extra 200$ was worth my safety and gave me a place to be, if he turned out to be an asshole.

And remember ...

Wrap That Willie! The life you save, may be your own.

i met my wife online

If you are worried about the possibility of sexual disappointment, bring a vibrator;)
Good Luck!!

If you like the guy you did chat with you should go. Just a good way to make friedns and make new meetings here :) GO for it !

this sounded so SURFER!!!

Been there, done that, many times. Most of the times there are no worries. A time or two I have run across the weirdos.

Other than your kooky conspiracy theories you and I are very alike Brad. :winkwink:

i agree with everything pr tom said!!!

please take some extra safety measures as your situation is a bit more unique, i.e. you are staying at his place and he only has one bed. give your friends/family as much information about this guy, where you'll be staying, etc as possible. hell, if you don't have family and/or friends to share it with, post it here in gfy! :) so long as there are people who know where you're going, where you're planning to be, and as much info on this guy as possible. you never know what could happen, so it's better safe than sorry!

and sometimes, when you meet someone, you have a gut feeling about them/the situation.. sometimes it's not so good. usually, if you have such a gut feeling, there is just cause. i agree that you should maybe meet at the airport,then eat at a restaurant there if possible. if you have a bad feeling about things, let him know at the restaurant that you're going to call and taxi and stay at a hotel. good luck! and keep us posted! :)

lets see a pic of you! i am sure we have a lot more safer bachelors on gfy.......

Wanna visit him first:) If no luck I would probably post my pic at GFY :wetkiss

We need to see your tits to answer your questions.

That's the only way, sorry.

Lenny2 and I met online in 2003.

You should try, you will lose nothing. But personally i wouldn't meet someone from on-line. They are almost all sick people that don't know how to have a real life.

:love-boob :love-boob I bet u saw them somewhere, but u just donno what whey r mine !

Why not get a hotel room for the first few days of your trip? Please tell me that you're not that naive?!

You have to set some guidelines. Tell him he can sleep on his couch and you can sleep in the bed. He'll expect the booty call every night if you sleep in the same bed.

And what if he's not up to your expectations? Screw his expectations... you're stuck sleeping in the same bed that you don't have any attraction to in person?!

But I want to sleep in same bed with him. I saw him on camera 100 times; I hear his voice everyday … All of my friends who know him in person can’t say anything wrong about him.
It’s not the same as like U R coming to a guy from dating site with 1 non-clear image. The thing I am afraid I would be not the person he imagines, and there is always a doubt what he is not the guy I imagine. And – have U ever had bad sex experience with the man/woman U were dreaming about? I am sure 90 % of U did.
Even if he’s smart handsome and just a good person there is a chance Mother Nature gave him just 4 inches or he likes to have sex only when his teddy bear is in bed :1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

::: shakes head and walks away ::: :Oh crap

Good luck... :1orglaugh

Let go of the "what if's", it will make you look stiff and uptight. Let it flow:1orglaugh :1orglaugh

Go for it, who knows he's the one you're searching for!!:thumbsup

I hope so :) Thanks for your answers :)

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