Losing My Erection
 

I'm really freaked out.

Everytime I have sex I lose my erection. I'm seeing a girl who im immensely attracted to. She's unanimously considered a 9 with an ass from jupiter. When she blows me I can stay hard and come in her mouth, but when we start having sex i lose it. WTF is going on for ****s sake?? im 21!

I'm gonna go see the doctor tommorrow and get meds cause i can't live with myself if i have even one more sexual mishap with this girl. She needs to get fucked till her ears bleed cum... my baffling inability to do so makes me feel awfully inadequate and frankly, kinda fruity.

This is terrible and im extremely upset :( :(

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Most likely all in your head man

if only things were that simple, but im fairly certain a man ass is not where my penis wants to be....

Yeah man, you're thinking about it too much..

what does that mean? how do i stop myself from doing this? this is nuts.

either think positive or go for another girl first to get your game back

exactly, screw a more average girl if you can't handle the pressure of nailing a hot chick. its just you stressing...

but i've had sex with and dated girls this hot before...

doesnt matter, you need to take your mind off of it, go for someone else first

Don't rush for the pussy pounding action right away. Take her out for dinner to a nice place where she has to dress up. That way you're loving the way her ass looks in the dress she's wearing. Take her home after dinner, get her out of that dress, lots of touching, kissing, licking, sucking. Eat her box out like it taste like cherries, have her return the favour. At this point if you're little guy isn't hard as a missle then I don't know what to tell you. All Im saying is take your time and just let it happen.

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I had the same exact problem you had but i over came it. If you would like my help, i would need to have a talk with this " hot " girl who sucks dick splendidly and has an incredible ass.

send me her name, pic, and number and ill do all i can to help you

I do this nearly everytime. We lay around kssing for hours. After a month we're both entering that sweet early phase of relationships, where we suddenly find each other adorable... and i dont want to see other girls at all right now. I havn't dated one girl seriously in like a year and a half and im definitely considering it now. I just desperately need to straighten out this issue.

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if I were you, I'd just keep posting about my erection problems on GFY until it gets better

im gonna go see a doc tommorow, nothing wrong with asking gfy...everyone a stickler like sarcasm signed a distriubtion deal with wal mart last week...

Maybe you should have him do some foreplay? ;)

It is all in your head, try not smoking/drinking/smoking weed for a day and it may help get your captain back manning the ship.

you need to just chill it and not think about it, it has to happen natural. i am always got a stiff one ready send her over here if you cant handle her.

Are you sure you're in the right forum?

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i dunno what it means to 'not think about it'...my dick gets hard easily...it just goes soft during intercourse...i can bust a nut orally no problem....wtf.

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Also thought, are you on any meds or anything?

Yo.. Maybe her vagina is too loose from over use.. Flip her over and fuck her ass :winkwink:

if you're smoking weed, stop it for a week then see.
If all else fails, visit the doc to get something to keep it up and take the stress away.


Then it'll all fall into place (or not as the case may be)

I'm gonna stop smoking tonight. But i don't understand why this shit is happening. I smoked since i was 14 regularly and never had this happen before. My best friend is a pothead and manslut, he's 22 and up to 47 and i never heard no shit like this from him.

Wouldn't hurt to ask a doctor..could be something medical

i already called and im gonna come in tommorrow. i always embarass myself in front of this doc.... here's my rapsheet from the past year

1. i came in one saturday morning paranoid as fuck that i have aids :1orglaugh
2. she seen me handcuffed to a hospitol bed after the cops beat my ribs the last time i got arrested.
3. and now im gonna come in a healthy 21 year old kid with erectile dyfunction issues.
4. god only knows.

bah, its all in his head

whyyy? dear god why?

Take a Viagra, do some regular exercise, eat/drink healthy food and drinks, stop smoking in case you're a smoker, stop being a passive smoker in case this happens, and take a 10 days (i.e. 10 hours, 1 hour daily) reflexology (foot massage), you'll see the improvements :) Also try to eliminate the stress in your life ...

sucking the semen out of bulls also seems to help the indigenous people of borneo.

i actually asked my brother (who is a doctor) and he says it could be your diet or you are thinking about it too much.

hope that helps

Take 3-5 bottles of beer before sex :)

Blood flow being cut off / overweight happens to me sometimes.

im good shape. I eat well and go to the gym at least 3 times a week....

You are in New York? Trust me, she has seen worse.

Its all in your head man.
Just eat her pussy raw for like 2 hours ahead of time, then all pressure is off and you can relax and fuck her brains out without performance anxiety.

I agree, probably been banging ugly chicks so long, your brain doesn't know what to do with a hot one... :1orglaugh

So many limp cock experts in here, LOL

the doctor will be NO help at all, it's in your head and not the 1 that's down there

Isn't that an R.E.M. song?:winkwink:

how do you figure? i really dont know what else to do, i got an appointment in 3 hours. I at least want a hit of viagra so i can bang my girl properly and then i can go see a shrink or something.

Im healthy, 21, ive havnt been in the habit of having sex with girls much worse looking, and i still wake up with hardons everyday, so yeah i guess its all in my head. but what can i do about it?

yo i got the appointment in an hour....im so nervous...what should i say?

You mean Losing My Religion? :1orglaugh


and in responce to Havalina.. tell her you cant get it up.. she is a doctor it is her job

If you can stay hard and cum in the girls mouth then you stuff is working fine, ever considered you might be worried of getting her pregnant. Anyway... heres what you should do, drink a six pack of smirnoff ice, or any mixed drink, "not beer" cause it leaves beer breath", loosen up, get her to blow you and when you feel ready to cum, start pumping her, once you cum inside her cunt all the shit in your head will go away.

Damn, iwould never like this to happend to me....