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  • xlogger
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    • Jul 2004
    • 9507

    #1

    Employing friends, good idea?

    So one of my friend is REALLY broke. I mean, when ever we go out i pay for everything. I was thinking about employing him. Anyone done this before? Is it a good idea?

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  • tony299
    lurker
    • Aug 2002
    • 57021

    #2
    if you set the rules up front,be very clear and assume nothing. It could go fine.

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    • L-Pink
      working on my tan
      • Mar 2005
      • 39151

      #3
      "No good deed ..... " you know the rest

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      • Splum
        Confirmed User
        • May 2003
        • 6195

        #4
        Like Notorious BIG used to say:
        "friends and biz dont mix, like two dicks"

        Oh wait it was family and bix, but close enough.

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        • Spunky
          I need a beer
          • Jun 2002
          • 133986

          #5
          Friends don't make good employees.they take advantage of you and slack off etc..bad idea

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          • shekinah
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            • May 2006
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            #6
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            • Fat Panda
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              • Aug 2006
              • 13296

              #7
              it all depends...good luck

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              • xlogger
                Confirmed User
                • Jul 2004
                • 9507

                #8
                Originally posted by Spunky
                Friends don't make good employees.they take advantage of you and slack off etc..bad idea
                I know! I already told him though, if he doesn't work hard i will replace him.

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                • wyldworx
                  So Fucking Banned
                  • Dec 2006
                  • 5144

                  #9
                  Anything is do-able, but I haven't seen it work too often.

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                  • anne
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                    • Dec 2002
                    • 1149

                    #10
                    LOL Bad plan Most of the friends that i have hired worked well in the begining but in the end all slacked off and had to be fired
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                    • _Rush_
                      Confirmed User
                      • Dec 2006
                      • 742

                      #11
                      I'm about to hire an online friend that I've had for years. We go way back on the boards and such. Once he has completed the test, it will be up to me to take him or not. However, even before taking the test, I told him that we go way back in the online world and all, but I will not tolerate a slacker when I pull off 24-hour work days to get things done on time. I'm not asking that he keeps my pace, but he must really work at it because I will not hesitate to let him go.

                      I have absolutely no pity for slackers. Slacking is all good, as long as it is done as far away from me as possible.
                      Last edited by _Rush_; 01-22-2007, 06:42 PM.
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                      • Spunky
                        I need a beer
                        • Jun 2002
                        • 133986

                        #12
                        Originally posted by Ghost Rush
                        but I will not tolerate a slacker when I pull off 24-hour work days to get things done on time.
                        Damn..I hope you pay well..sounds like a sweat shop

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                        • _Rush_
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                          • Dec 2006
                          • 742

                          #13
                          No, I sweat shop myself. I like to work and I like this business. Contract says that I'm only required to be here 8 hours a day, 5 days a week.
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                          • ttuurrbboo
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                            • Aug 2002
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                            #14
                            dont hire him if you want to keep the friendship. sad but true
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                            • cwd
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                              • Feb 2006
                              • 1955

                              #15
                              I have a friend of mine that work for me since 2 years.
                              Never had problem. Set the rules before hiring him and stick to them.

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                              • GTS Mark
                                Vrume Mark
                                • Jan 2001
                                • 20912

                                #16
                                Whatever you do don't hire friends or family...

                                I'm sure many people here can back me up on that one...

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                                • Peaches
                                  Old broad
                                  • Oct 2002
                                  • 13933

                                  #17
                                  Originally posted by xlogger
                                  So one of my friend is REALLY broke. I mean, when ever we go out i pay for everything. I was thinking about employing him. Anyone done this before? Is it a good idea?
                                  Sounds like there might be a reason why he doesn't have a job/money. It really all depends on the people. I've hired/worked for friends/family where sometimes it's awful, sometimes it's perfect.

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                                  • Kard63
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                                    • Nov 2003
                                    • 8944

                                    #18
                                    Originally posted by xlogger
                                    So one of my friend is REALLY broke. I mean, when ever we go out i pay for everything. I was thinking about employing him. Anyone done this before? Is it a good idea?
                                    Its a terrible idea and you know it thats why you made this thread. If you can afford to pay him for doing nothing I would say don't hire him just give him money. If you can't afford to just give the dude money at least you are thinking about him.

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                                    • LiveDose
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                                      • Feb 2002
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                                      #19
                                      If the arrangement is professional and you have system in place it should be find. Make sure everything is clearly laid out and then the work relationship is on them to make it go smoothly.

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                                      • martinsc
                                        Too lazy to set a custom title
                                        • Jun 2005
                                        • 27047

                                        #20
                                        unless he is a really good friend i wouldn't do that....
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                                        • madawgz
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                                          • Mar 2006
                                          • 30509

                                          #21
                                          go for it and see how things work out
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                                          • tenderobject
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                                            • Dec 2004
                                            • 11688

                                            #22
                                            not a good idea. i have had one. but ive decided he needs to go since his works was horrible the post few months hes been with us.. sad thing is... he always insist that was my fault.. fuck that! last week got a message from him that he needed extra work. i don't feel like answering him. it his lost not mine what a retard!


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                                            • TheJimmy
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                                              • Jan 2001
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                                              #23
                                              better idea is to point him in the right direction and let him give it a shot....teach a man to fish and all that yang...

                                              Listen to DrinkingHard and the rest...'employing' a friend of family member is a baaa-aaad idea 99% of the time
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                                              • Mr Pheer
                                                So Fucking Banned
                                                • Dec 2002
                                                • 22083

                                                #24
                                                I wouldnt do it. I treat my business like a business and when my friend started to slack off and I had to fire him, would most likely end the friendship.

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                                                • buddyjuf

                                                  #25
                                                  bad idea, unless your friend is really REALLY REALLLLLYY close to you

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                                                  • donkevlar
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                                                    • Sep 2006
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                                                    #26
                                                    Just put him on commission, then if he doesnt work hard, oh well...
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                                                    • starpimps
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                                                      • Sep 2006
                                                      • 6954

                                                      #27
                                                      my friends brother just hired his best friend last month.
                                                      ...3 weeks deep had to fire him because he was fucking around too much
                                                      now their friendship is ruined :S
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                                                      • NichePay_Manny
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                                                        • Jul 2004
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                                                        #28
                                                        No No No

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                                                          #29
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                                                          • spasmo
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                                                            • Dec 2005
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                                                            #30
                                                            Originally posted by ttuurrbboo
                                                            dont hire him if you want to keep the friendship. sad but true
                                                            Didn't even finish the thread yet, but I concur with this.

                                                            Personal experience speaking.

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                                                            • bdld
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                                                              • Dec 2001
                                                              • 11452

                                                              #31
                                                              if its a temp thing to help him out, sure why not.

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                                                              • woj
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                                                                • 47882

                                                                #32
                                                                If he was on top of things he wouldn't be broke now... what will happen is he will try for a week or 2, then things will fall apart... then a month from now, you will start a thread on gfy "How do I fire my friend without fucking up my friendship with him?"...
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                                                                • DWB
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                                                                  • Jul 2003
                                                                  • 31779

                                                                  #33
                                                                  I think it's difficult. Not impossible, but be prepared to lose a friend.

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                                                                  • JD
                                                                    Too lazy to set a custom title
                                                                    • Sep 2003
                                                                    • 22651

                                                                    #34
                                                                    i agree with most people here. BAD BAD BAD idea

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                                                                    • chuvii
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                                                                      • Sep 2006
                                                                      • 691

                                                                      #35
                                                                      that's not a good idea, man
                                                                      better if friends will stay just a friends without any money relationship
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                                                                      • Doctor Dre
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                                                                        • Jan 2001
                                                                        • 51692

                                                                        #36
                                                                        Stay away from anything that has to do with friends and money.
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                                                                        • reynold
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                                                                          • Oct 2002
                                                                          • 51271

                                                                          #37
                                                                          If he is qualified for the job, why not? But, don't employ him out of pity.

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                                                                          • RawAlex
                                                                            So Fucking Banned
                                                                            • Oct 2003
                                                                            • 9465

                                                                            #38
                                                                            Hire friends if you want to end up with less friends.

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                                                                            • EscortBiz
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                                                                              • May 2002
                                                                              • 19422

                                                                              #39
                                                                              he will do what he wants anyway, i ike when people ask these questions and even if a million people tell them bad idea they still manage to tell themself some story how this guy is different then all the millions of friends disasters out there

                                                                              its like a girl whos going out with a real bad guy everyone can tell her hes shit but she still does what she wants because "hes so not like that" and then she ends up getting restraining orders and her credit is fucked and shes on the way to an abortion clinic

                                                                              your at a stage where u can avoid a real problem, avoid it

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                                                                              • Doctor Dre
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                                                                                • Jan 2001
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                                                                                #40
                                                                                Originally posted by reynold
                                                                                If he is qualified for the job, why not? But, don't employ him out of pity.
                                                                                Dumbest post of the year... and probably the 10th out of 50k you have made on this board that I've actually seen.
                                                                                Originally posted by rayadp05
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                                                                                • Farang
                                                                                  one sick puppy
                                                                                  • Oct 2004
                                                                                  • 11717

                                                                                  #41
                                                                                  thought about it, not good idea imo
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                                                                                  • Natural Cause
                                                                                    Confirmed User
                                                                                    • Oct 2006
                                                                                    • 222

                                                                                    #42
                                                                                    Been there, done that, bad idea. Doesnt matter what rules you put in place, it destorys your friendship.

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                                                                                    • TimBlaze
                                                                                      Confirmed User
                                                                                      • Oct 2006
                                                                                      • 1625

                                                                                      #43
                                                                                      if its something like doing a specific task for example helping move furniture, putting up a fence, etc. work like that can be done very good with a friend

                                                                                      but business is usually a diff story

                                                                                      if you get what im sayin
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                                                                                      • NewbieNudes
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                                                                                        • Jan 2003
                                                                                        • 940

                                                                                        #44
                                                                                        Don't do it..

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                                                                                        • Mr.Right - Banned For Life
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                                                                                          #45
                                                                                          Originally posted by woj
                                                                                          If he was on top of things he wouldn't be broke now... what will happen is he will try for a week or 2, then things will fall apart... then a month from now, you will start a thread on gfy "How do I fire my friend without fucking up my friendship with him?"...

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                                                                                          • V_RocKs
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                                                                                            • Nov 2003
                                                                                            • 32449

                                                                                            #46
                                                                                            From too much personal experience I would have to say...

















                                                                                            BAD FUCKING IDEA, MAN!!!!


                                                                                            The only people I have "buddied" up with and actually made a lot of money is perfect strangers...

                                                                                            Like I read a thread here were someone has some good ideas or has a lot of drive but no ideas to apply it to... I grab them and make a partnership and we both make a few extra K a month on it...

                                                                                            But with friends you spend a few extra K and nothing comes from it except for your wife/girlfriend saying to you, "Either you fire him and never talk to him again or I am out because I can't handle this shit anymore!"

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                                                                                            • BT
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                                                                                              • Apr 2002
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                                                                                              #47
                                                                                              Great idea but treat him as an co-worker and your friendship will still be strong!

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                                                                                              • ez12
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                                                                                                • Apr 2001
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                                                                                                #48
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                                                                                                • E$_manager
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                                                                                                  • Apr 2006
                                                                                                  • 13557

                                                                                                  #49
                                                                                                  It is a bad idea to employ a friend or a relative.
                                                                                                  But if your riend is in need, then you need to help him.
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                                                                                                  • Brad Gosse
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                                                                                                    • Jan 2002
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                                                                                                    #50
                                                                                                    The friends and family plan will not work in the long run. Hire someone who doesn't know you, they will respect your authority.
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