If your wife dies how long before you can party?
 

I was looking at some cases where the spouse is being charged with killing the other spouse and a lot seems to hindge on partying and purchases
"soon" after the death.

I remember this lady who came to this bar I went to. Her husband died in a fire caused by a cigarette. People started whispering that she probably killed her husband because it was less then 2 weeks before she was back in the bar drunk as shit and looking for dick in an obvious way.
I think she was partying too hard way too soon, but I don't know.

How long is is long enough?

i'd say a year at least....come on now

at least 24 hours, and if you really loved her than 48

Year seems to be standard.

I don't know,if she was spending too much money......then..........NOW!!!!!

This sounds right.

































...if you were planning to divorce her anyway. :D

How ever long you feel comfortable with I guess...

That is something you really wont know until it happens to you.

That's a tough question. It all depends on the person and how they deal with grief. It seems like a year is standard - at least what I've seen.

My friends dad is a minister. His wife died and 3 months later he was dating another woman. 6 months later he married her. A lot of people were pissed off at him and thought he was an asshole. I don't know what to think of it.

:1orglaugh ! If you want to divorce her she will never die... She's most likely to outlive you.

A year seems like a long time to me.
But I can see how a year is good for "appearance".

I bet most people are over it in a few months but have to keep the grief face on longer just for "moral" reasons.

when u feel ready

come on If you really loved her you should start the party in next few hours, because she would like a goodbye party:)

If you really love someone, than the grief can last for years I think...however, you can still meet other women while you're still feeling bad because of the loss...have to walk on sooner or later

Heh, maybe that was her way of coping. :Oh crap

is the next night too soon?

I would wait till at least the next day... partying the same day she dies would be poor taste IMO....

16 hours

High Five



sorry , I just thought of that line

Well, if I was YOUR wife, I would knock you off and be out fucking something better before you even got cold.

Otherwise, I would wait a year

:1orglaugh That is true. You lose only what you really care for.

Borat would say "high 5"..

Sebastian

I wish I stayed single.. :(

I would be single for the rest of my life. I will never commit to a relationship ever again. .......... How long????
That depends... some women just wanna fuck you to make you feel better.... but nothing else.

As soon as you get off the phone with the first person to deliver the news. Good time to turn gay, too.

But don't call the police every day asking them to hurry up with the death certificates, this tends to get them a-looking.

you cant party for a year
but what you can do is.
a) goto the bar, and drink by yourself
b) sit at home, and drink byyourself

funeral and on

:1orglaugh

Depends on if you are keeping her corpse on ice for some good necro action or not.

I would say atleast a year

can't argue with you there